Dear Litster, once more

Dear SoulAssassin,

In the interest of keeping everything as public as possible, I would like to issue a public apology. Our conversation yesterday really bothered me and I acted out of character. I am definitely one of those people who prefer to keep the PG light and friendly.

I really don't have much to argue about your points. It was my name being thrown into a conversation about racism that really got my hackles up. I know we have different points of view here, but as someone living in the deep south, that is not something to be taken lightly at all. I think your overall point, while a good one, wasn't expressed as clearly as possible or with the forethought to how it might be interpreted.

As far as AudioPhiles goes - I can see play counts and that episode (Race & Sexuality)has a lot. People listened but maybe didn't feel like they had much to contribute to the conversation. I can tell you that almost ALL of the more serious episodes don't have a lot of conversation around it. That's fine. A similar example would be the episode A Woman's Mental Load. Serious topic. Lots of plays. Little conversation.

I can point to several reasons why people on the PG (I won't bring the GB into this because this isn't the GB and for the most part the two don't overlap) don't bring up racism.

1. Like I said in the opening of the AudioPhiles episode, Lit is overwhelmingly white. Most people don't have much to say in the way of the topic of race. Simply, they have nothing meaningful to add. Or they feel if they do add, then their opinions are wanted. You yourself did say that yesterday to myself and another Litster.
There are many more females on Lit, so yes, you will read more about body image, sexual harassment, etc. because that is something those women have experienced and about which they have something personal to say.
I can't say I've ever seen anything I would interpret as racist on the PG. Either, I didn't see it (no one sees everything) or because I didn't interpret it as that. Knowing myself, had I seen something like that, I would have said something.
If this is an issue felt by the Litsters of color, I would be really interested to read something from their points of view too. Sincerely. I don't doubt that it happens. Lit is a slice of humanity and some humans are racist. That's just statistically factual. So, please let your voices be heard. It may even attract a more diverse crowd, hopefully.

2. As I stated previously, the overwhelming majority of people do not come to Lit to talk cultural inequality, politics, or news. We have an inundation from every other source on those topics. They are important topics but escapism is okay too and, dare I say, healthy. Sometimes, I wonder if addressing such a huge topic in such a silly forum may undermine the very important topic. But again, Lit being a slice of life, people should get to talk about what they want. But you also can't get mad when people don't want to talk about those things. You simply cannot force people to have hard conversations and then expect those conversations to be productive, if productive conversation if what you're looking for.

3. Lastly, I would encourage you to think about what you want out of Lit. If you're just here to rile people up and troll, as you yourself have stated, then fine. Please carry on and most people will carry on either ignoring you or taking the bait. But if you really want to have some honest and productive discourse, you're going to have to change your style. You can't be a jester and king at the same time. I think some of things you bring up and have brought up in the past are valid. (Please note: Key word being "some" not "all".) But I don't think they way you express your points does those points or yourself any favors.

All that to say, I apologize for getting worked up and being rude to you. I expect better from myself and that's not how I prefer to act, communicate or treat other people.
I apologize to the other Litsters who had to read that (or this! sorry!) and roll their eyes. I've been in your shoes, I've yelled through my screen at others, I know how annoying it is and how it ruins the fun vibe that the PG often has.

I will carry on with my silliness. This is all I have to say on the matter. Have great week!

Signed,
PLP

TL;DR
I was a jerk who didn't express herself well and I apologize.



Apology Accepted
 
Dear Literotican,

Thank you for what turned out to be an amazing experience which kept us up through the wee hours of the morning recently. What we did was exactly what I needed, and I hope it was at least as equally fulfilling for you. I will never forget it.

I just wanted to express my gratitude publicly, which is rare for me. I look forward to future interactions with you and cannot wait to meet you in person. You are indeed a true gem.

I now understand TWC much better and will laugh every time I see it.

Regards,

Grateful
 
Dear Litster,

You're one of my favoritest people!

Can't wait to see you soon...counting down the days!

Sincerely,

Your little spitfire
 
Dear Litster,

Next month, I get your lips again. And I can’t wait to feel you smile when they’re against mine.

Yours,
Calendar girl.

Also:

Dear litster,
The note to SA is so well thought out about a few issues, I read it twice.

Warmly,
Phile
 
Dear Litster ,

If you aren't into someone's kink, why do you go there and post?

I'm not into many things including that, but if someone wants to RP that scene, what business is it of yours to post there in such a derogatory way?

Go start your own thread somewhere and quit hanging out in personals just to bother people...yeah, I saw your other post about taking over someone's thread. You like to stir up shit.

I used to think highly of you - I don't anymore.

Sincerely,
Currently Unimpressed

Dear Barefootgirl,

Next time you want to out me as a kinkshamer because I object to a man looking for a woman to role play his underage daughter, name me bitch...

That’s his actual daughter... sleeping under his roof... it’s twisted...

And yes - I know this is a delayed response but your friends seem to want to pretend this didn’t happen... and that every last one of them said they would report it too...

I’m not stepping back into that shitstorm, it won’t do anyone any good but I feel it’s important to acknowledge this actually happened...

Tootle - pip!

AP
 
Dear Barefootgirl,

Next time you want to out me as a kinkshamer because I object to a man looking for a woman to role play his underage daughter, name me bitch...

That’s his actual daughter... sleeping under his roof... it’s twisted...

And yes - I know this is a delayed response but your friends seem to want to pretend this didn’t happen... and that every last one of them said they would report it too...

I’m not stepping back into that shitstorm, it won’t do anyone any good but I feel it’s important to acknowledge this actually happened...

Tootle - pip!

AP

Are you still stuck on this? It must have really hit a nerve!

This is an erotic site, and if people want to link up and role play daddy/daughter, that's THEIR BUSINESS.

Get over yourself. You wouldn't have to do so much self care and crying over things on Lit that bother you if you didn't try to police everyone and their kinks.

You don't simply report and move on, or send the link to Laurel...you jump into the thread and start on them like a rabid dog. Then, you start biting people because the aren't ganging up in your corner. But you don't see everything, because I don't jump up and tell everyone that I reported something.

Hey, guess what, bitch! Use your iggy button and you won't have to see my posts.

Ta!

bfg

*uses ignore cos you're drama is getting pathetic*
 
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Dear Fara,

You have stated on the kinkshaming thread that everyone said they would report underage role playing.

No they fucking didn’t.

Rewrite history if you like, but I think your take was qualifying adults... anyway this is the post I referred to in the thread where I was criticised for reporting it.

I am not going back into the kinkshaming thread - so knock yourselves out retelling it however you want to.

Toddle pip

AP
 
Dear Fara,

You have stated on the kinkshaming thread that everyone said they would report underage role playing.

No they fucking didn’t.

Rewrite history if you like, but I think your take was qualifying adults... anyway this is the post I referred to in the thread where I was criticised for reporting it.

I am not going back into the kinkshaming thread - so knock yourselves out retelling it however you want to.

Toddle pip

AP

AP,

I’ve reported stuff that I’ve seen, loudly and often. Always have. Always will. Everyone else that spoke up in that thread said they did, too.

I’m not on Lit to hunt down pedophiles. I don’t go to threads that concentrate on stuff like that. I stay off incest, most festishes, and flat chested girl threads. When I see it, anything untoward? I say it.
I’m actually kinda known for speaking up.
You’re not the only one.
Please stop this.

Thanks,
Fara
 
Dear Allia,

Go away.

You made your point. You made your point again. You have made this same fucking point for the last four days, and have managed to alienate even those who agree with you (like me), because they haven't prostrated themselves before you on the altar of self-righteousness hard enough to please you.

I've never had to ignore someone that I agreed with before. Until now.

Signed,
Someone who is tired of this routine.
 
Dear you know who,

I’m bummed I fell asleep yesterday and our convo was cut short. I wanted to message you today, but also don’t want to be a pest. I’m very much looking forward to more chats, more mmmmms, more grrrrrs, and our favorite “balls deep”! You make me smile. Thank you.

❤️
 
Dear Litsters,

It's come to this again, I see... I think we all need a drink, a smoke, and Doritos. It's story time.

Keep this shit up and I'll start reading Llama Llama books next.... or worse, post recipes.

Sincerely,
Nearly out of Fucks
 
Dear Parenting litsters,

This is an honest question... how have you explained death to a young child?

I tried my best when our dog was put to sleep last year, but he was 2 and things didn't quite connect together in his mind. He's 3 now and his grandmother's dog was put to sleep over the weekend... the task of explaining has been left to me.

Sincerely,
Really doesn't want to do this litster
 
Dear Parenting litsters,

This is an honest question... how have you explained death to a young child?

I tried my best when our dog was put to sleep last year, but he was 2 and things didn't quite connect together in his mind. He's 3 now and his grandmother's dog was put to sleep over the weekend... the task of explaining has been left to me.

Sincerely,
Really doesn't want to do this litster

Dear RDWTDTL,

I’m a firm believer in telling the truth when it comes to death. It’s such a hard topic, but if you keep the explanation age-appropriate, you’ll be shocked at how well kids can process things.

Good luck,
Suddenly missing my old dog Litster
 
Dear Parenting litsters,

This is an honest question... how have you explained death to a young child?

I tried my best when our dog was put to sleep last year, but he was 2 and things didn't quite connect together in his mind. He's 3 now and his grandmother's dog was put to sleep over the weekend... the task of explaining has been left to me.

Sincerely,
Really doesn't want to do this litster

Dear Doesn’t Wanna,

If you have some sort of religion or beliefs in afterlife, this can help at this time. If you don’t, I don’t know.
I don’t. My kids knew my pets were “gone” when they were gone. I was honest and let them set the pace of questions, etc.
We planted them under a tree, a bush. Watched the blooms. As they got older, they came with me to the vet, and said goodbye that way.
It’s rough.
I’m sorry for your loss.

Yours,
Fara
 
Dear Missing Friend Former Litster,

I am really worried about you. Knowing that you have that damn tumor, I am scared that something happened and you are in the hospital. I have been so obviously upset that I had to tell my husband last night about my Lit friend who has suddenly gone missing. How I am worried that he is either very unwell or has suddenly decided that he no longer wants to be friends with me and has chosen to ghost me. But I can't believe that's something you would do. I have been wracking my brain to try to come up with some reason, some way that I might have offended you or hurt you.

I keep telling myself that, even if hangouts and email aren't working, that you know how to get in touch with me if you want to. That you could set up a new account here and PM me. Please reach out to me. I hate not knowing what is happening.

Sincerely,
Missing Her Friend Litster
 
Dear Litster,

There are no winners only losers with this game
 
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*snip*

I stay off *snip* flat chested girl threads.
Thanks,
Fara

Dearest Big Tittied Lister,

Flat chested WOMEN (i.e. not girls) are gorgeous too. ;)

I love small tiddies. Boobies.

Butts.

Where was I?

Sorry, not sorry I missed all the drama llamas
 
Dearest Big Tittied Lister,

Flat chested WOMEN (i.e. not girls) are gorgeous too. ;)

I love small tiddies. Boobies.

Butts.

Where was I?

Sorry, not sorry I missed all the drama llamas

No Drama,

How do you know I have big tits?

Signed,

Holy Fuck, how much did I drink?
 
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