SassySheDevil
Moody Roller Coaster
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Dear fire happy litsters,
How can you bring yourself to burn memories?
I still have his ...turkey making in an apron photos ... plus more on my phone...
Signed....still craves the damn stuffing years later ...litster
Dear Stuffed,
I am the same way. I don't like to throw away memories, even if things ended badly. Every relationship, including friendships, teach me something, give me something, and even if I need to pack them away, I don't want to forget the lessons I learned from them. At one time or another, I loved that person for a reason. I have written them angry letters and burned them (sent a few too) though. Forgiving/moving on, is easier on me because it's less energy. Hating/staying angry only gives them power.
Still angry or hateful for a while though lol
Sincerely,
actually learned something in therapy, Litster
