deep confession... I love having sex with strangers

[Whispersecret]

Knock it off. Poor Christine titled her thread, "Deep Confession," and you guys are stomping all over it.

Christine, you should seek some help. Your behavior is dangerous. I'll bet you have some nasty childhood history and emotional baggage that you need to deal with. In my area there's a Child and Family Center, devoted to helping people in the community. I'll be there's a similar place in your area. You need to get to the bottom of this reckless behavior before something happens to you.

Best of luck.

 

[R Nitelight]

Is she gone?
Boy, she scared me, coming in and yelling like that.
Now, where's my little gif.......

 

[Wizard]

*Sticking tongue out* You guys got yelled at...........................

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Naked Hunny & Cheyenne

Hello, we've never met......

Nice to meet you, R Nitelight.

 

[R Nitelight]

Cheyenne

The pleasure is all mine.
(Nitelight bows)

 

[#1derfulGuy]

STRANGER THAN EVER

Ummmmmmmm...........we never met, have we Christine?

 

[GuyJD]

MY CAR'S RIGHT OUT BACK, IF YOU LIKE

Hey Christine, I have a tank full of gas and a pocket full of Trojans.......HOW ABOUT IT?
************************************************************
By the way, I loved your movie.

 

[Ezzy]

Hi Christine...

I have a horse outside full of Trojans, and a bottle full of gas, LOL (must be NO2).


EZ http://smilecwm.tripod.com/cwm/sleep.gif

 

[Roll-One]

Sweetheart, your playing a dangerous game......

 

[Alyrahh]

Re: Hi Christine...

I have a horse outside full of Trojans, and a bottle full of gas, LOL (must be NO2).

Cheese and rice! I can't stop laughing!!!!

 

[forgetunome]

Seriously Christine

You are practicing a very dangerous activity. If you can't stop on your own because the urges or compulsions are to strong...I would also suggest your getting help! You don't want to become a statistic!

[Edited by forgetunome on 10-22-2000 at 08:33 PM]

 

[Whispersecret]

I'm back, and I'm even more disgusted. Humor is great, but sometimes inappropriate. Not to mention the fact that this particular COME FUCK ME, CHRISTINE, I DON'T KNOW YOU joke is already cold. RNitelite did it well the first time and now it's as limp as kelp.

If this girl is truly reaching out for help, you people are not helping. Sure, she might be a troll seeking attention or pulling our legs, but she might not. If she truly has a problem, then you're reinforcing the idea that she's only valued if she'll fuck you, and that's a shitty thing to do. There are plenty of other threads you can joke on. I don't think this is one of them.

Not that my opinion is of great value on this BB, but...

Go ahead and keep joking if you want, but I will lose respect for you if you do.


[Edited by whispersecret on 10-22-2000 at 08:23 PM]

 

[Mackdaddy_74]

#1derfulGuy

do you have a problem with me?

 

[forgetunome]

Whispersecret...

I agree that joking can be inappropriate at times which if you look above your second post I did give serious advice. But, I still think you could have gotten your point across without coming off like "ARNOLD" mowing everybody down in your path.

 

[Mustang Sally]

adding my 2 cents

I just want to speak up and agree with the others, because this is indeed a very serious problem. Sex with strangers may be a hot fantasy, but it's a very dangerous and unhealthy reality. (AIDS and other STD's, abduction, murder, any number of other imaginable disasters) Please follow the advice the others have given you. If you can't control the behaviour, get help!

Good luck.

 

[Whispersecret]

Forgetunome, I saw your post only after I posted mine. (The times on our posts are identical.) I did try before to be nice, but the party rocked on. Stronger measures were called for. Your point is well-taken, though. I'll try to tone it down next time.

 

[Samuari]

Not that my opinion is of great value on this BB, but...

Go ahead and keep joking if you want, but I will lose respect for you if you do.


[Edited by whispersecret on 10-22-2000 at 08:23 PM]

Whisper, I allways pay attention to your opinion, and value it.

 

[Puddles The Wonder Poodle]

Re: forgetunome

.......and I didn't get you anything........
(Sigh)

PISSSSSSSSSSSSST

 

[Boner James Boner]

Extremely dangerous behavior

I was reading in the paper today about a young lady that was car-jacked in a local supermarket parking lot. Witnesses stated that a man shoved her into her car and drove off quickly. They found her car with her dead body in it about 2 days later. She had been raped and beaten to death.

She wasn't hitch hiking, but she had non-consensual sex with a stranger and was killed.

Hitch-hiking is very dangerous...

 

[Christine]

I'm glad some people responded in a more serious manner, not to say that I therefore condemn everybody that responded a bit less serious.

I know that my behaviour is somewhat strange and even dangerous and when I do these things I do practice safe sex (then again, I guess it all depends if you can really call it safe sex)
When I have a boyfriend I don't have the same problem at all, but when I don't, there goes that urge to go out and find a guy for one brief moment. The "easy" solution would be to go out and find a boyfriend, but that's not something you go out and find, that's something you just find (or at least I believe).

I wouldn't know where I can get help, but talking about it here is maybe a tiny first step.

 

[Alyrahh]

You're right, talking about it certainly couldn't hurt. I'm sure a lot of the women here can relate to you on a much smaller level. There is definitely something exciting about a stranger, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with fantasizing about it... but, hon, when you act it out that's a whole different ball game. There's way too many dangers out there for you to allow yourself to continue with this behavior. If you're unsure of where to find help IRL, a good start would be finding a psychologist. Hope it all works out well for you.

 

[R Nitelight]

Christine

You received a number of smartass responses to your post, but that is because there are a large number of smartasses on the board (Exhibit A: R Nitelight).
Woven throughout were a number of concerned responses, and I know that even the silly posts covered a core of concern. You seem like an intelligent woman. It's clear you have to be a little smarter in the choices you make. It's a dangerous world in the best of times, and you're playing Russian Roulette with your life.
You say you don't do this when you have a boyfriend. Maybe it's time you devote your energies to finding someone. I envy him. He's gonna be one lucky bastard.

 

[Christine]

I thank you R Nitelight for you sincere response to my new post. Finding or going to look for a boyfriend, do you really think that is the right way to handle in this sort of situation though? I mean, doesn't that make me somewhat desperate?

 

[R Nitelight]

Desperate

Nope. It makes you human.

 

[Naked Hunny]

Hey there isnothing wrong with being desperate. Why do I say that? Because imgetting to that point!!