Dildo Question for the Ladies
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LindaL
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A dildo is nice. I like the sensation of being filled, and squeezing against it. Vibrators tend to make me numb and itchy when used inside me. Vibrating things are great on my clit, tho!!!!!!
No, it's not a penis substitute. It's just another way to experience pleasure.
No, it's not a penis substitute. It's just another way to experience pleasure.
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finger vibrator
Seems as though this was the button for the wife. She hated dildos, but the finger vibrator wound her up and curled her toes.
Seems as though this was the button for the wife. She hated dildos, but the finger vibrator wound her up and curled her toes.
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it is just a toy..play with it
i have to go with the consensus. a dildo is nice, but no replacement for the cock. and more than the cock, it is who the cock is attached to. and i am going to say that is why size is not "that" important. it is who the cock is attached to.. and how he uses it.
my guy and i use the toys in play and i know i have a lot of fun.. and he seems to be smiling.
now the but.. for masturbation i love my big o jelly in me, i like being filled and squeezing...with my fingers or my vib on my clit.. oh my..
i have to go with the consensus. a dildo is nice, but no replacement for the cock. and more than the cock, it is who the cock is attached to. and i am going to say that is why size is not "that" important. it is who the cock is attached to.. and how he uses it.
my guy and i use the toys in play and i know i have a lot of fun.. and he seems to be smiling.
now the but.. for masturbation i love my big o jelly in me, i like being filled and squeezing...with my fingers or my vib on my clit.. oh my..
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LindaL said:
Combine the bullet on the clit with a cyberskin dildo - more real feeling and warms to the touch - and that's one of the best forms of solo play. . .
But no, it's no substitute for the real thing. If we use it during, it's just the warm up. . .
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Thanks for all of the replys. Since posting we have experimented with a lot of differen toys and we both are having a good time and it makes the sex that much better. I love the dildos and other toys!!!!
it is such a turn on to use a dildo with my wife when we are fooling around!
it is such a turn on to use a dildo with my wife when we are fooling around!
Eilan said:Dildos don't experience performance anxiety. Nor do they have trouble staying hard because of health problems and poor lifestyle choices that they choose not to address. They also don't require ego stroking or believe that they're god's gift to women just because they exist. When I'm done with them, I put them in a box and forget about them
In short, dildos aren't attached to men, and things, for me, are better that way.
**edit--Dildos don't lie about their size, either.
You know I was going to post how I like the real thing better... I rate dildos at about a 5 as well, but your post convinced me that vibes and dildos were way better.
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Dong is just another word for penis. I've heard a dilso referred to as a rubber dong though. (Did you hear the joke about the one guy who had a big dong and the other guy who had a little dink? They made beautiful music together. )
About dildos, I don't think feeling realistic is particularly the goal of dildo design. I like the ones with lots of ridges which feel very nice bumping over my g-spot. And I use a slenderer one than a real dick - my favorite vibe is only an inch and a half wide, but I like that because I don't have to have too much foreplay before I can take it comfortably. And I agree with what someone else said earlier about the main problem being that they're cold.
)About dildos, I don't think feeling realistic is particularly the goal of dildo design. I like the ones with lots of ridges which feel very nice bumping over my g-spot. And I use a slenderer one than a real dick - my favorite vibe is only an inch and a half wide, but I like that because I don't have to have too much foreplay before I can take it comfortably. And I agree with what someone else said earlier about the main problem being that they're cold.
I have a question for ladies and guys. I have always wanted to try using the vibrator (any kind) with a partner but my last partner was aghasted and I never brought that subject up again. If I want to use a vibrator with a partner, what is the best way to bring that subject up without hurting his feelings? Like he isn't doing a great job. This has always been in the back of my mind and didn't know where or who to ask about this.
Gypsy_Lis said:
Ask him to use it on you when you're getting really hot and heavy. I bet you anything he'll jump all over it. You could also try rubbing it over him first. A lot of the men I've talked to about it, say it's really exciting for them. As long as you show him it's about increasing pleasure for BOTH of you, not replacing him, he should handle it alright.
Of course, I'm not a guy, so I could be completely off the mark.
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Gypsy_Lis said:
Suggest you use them on each other? Guys can really enjoy vibrators too, on the perineum (taint), or a vibrating sheath.
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Gypsy_Lis said:
yes, suggest that you both play. and you will find that most guys like the vib.
i often use on as i give head. just ever so lightly on his ball or the base of his sack...
it works fo us.
also i like to get "caught" using my toys. boy its fun.
good luck, let me know how i goes.
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