I looked back in this forum but didn't see anything on this subject, though I may have missed it.
Talk during sex for me is an amazing turn on, and I recall the girl to whom I lost my virginity whispering, 'fuck me fuck me,' which I suppose was the beginning. Since then there have been a few girls willing to play along, the rule, usually unspoken, being that anything said, is for bedroom fantasy purposes only, and does not necessarily relate to reality.
The first real turn on girlfriend, in the sense that any theme was followed, was into being dominated with some rough sex, hair pulling etc. she used to get off on me telling her she was a slut and a whore. An even better better variation came when she started to tell me she was my slut, and whore, and used to beg for my cum in her mouth or face.
Another girl I met on holiday was ok in bed but one night during sex and after a few drinks I asked her outright when she last fucked. She reckoned about four months previously, and I followed up with how did you meet him, did you fuck him on the first night, the third apparently, did you suck his cock and then where did he cum. She talked me through it all, as we fucked, and I still fantasise about it.
With another girlfriend, it was started by her on night in a restaurant, we had a very attractive waitress, in a sheerish white blouse. A, my girlfriend pointed her out, and asked would I find her attractive, I of course conceded she was just all right, not really my type, while my eyes followed her round the room.
Later that night in bed in full flow, she whispered into my ear, ' would you like to see me suck the waitresses tits?' this was so way out of character, and also she never would have normally used the word tits, it was a huge turnon. The conversation went on about A licking the waitress out, while I fucked her from behind, and me coming in A with the waitress getting a cream pie. I later could sometimes guess at what was coming in bed when she said, 'look at that girl there,' or thats a good looking couple.
On one occasion, I read the situation slightly wrong in asking about her last fuck, and the details, when the girl in question pushed me off, sat up and asked in a voice loud enough to wake the house,
'Are you trying to get off on another guy fucking me?' I didnt really recover the momentum from that one.
Please share your thoughts.
Talk during sex for me is an amazing turn on, and I recall the girl to whom I lost my virginity whispering, 'fuck me fuck me,' which I suppose was the beginning. Since then there have been a few girls willing to play along, the rule, usually unspoken, being that anything said, is for bedroom fantasy purposes only, and does not necessarily relate to reality.
The first real turn on girlfriend, in the sense that any theme was followed, was into being dominated with some rough sex, hair pulling etc. she used to get off on me telling her she was a slut and a whore. An even better better variation came when she started to tell me she was my slut, and whore, and used to beg for my cum in her mouth or face.
Another girl I met on holiday was ok in bed but one night during sex and after a few drinks I asked her outright when she last fucked. She reckoned about four months previously, and I followed up with how did you meet him, did you fuck him on the first night, the third apparently, did you suck his cock and then where did he cum. She talked me through it all, as we fucked, and I still fantasise about it.
With another girlfriend, it was started by her on night in a restaurant, we had a very attractive waitress, in a sheerish white blouse. A, my girlfriend pointed her out, and asked would I find her attractive, I of course conceded she was just all right, not really my type, while my eyes followed her round the room.
Later that night in bed in full flow, she whispered into my ear, ' would you like to see me suck the waitresses tits?' this was so way out of character, and also she never would have normally used the word tits, it was a huge turnon. The conversation went on about A licking the waitress out, while I fucked her from behind, and me coming in A with the waitress getting a cream pie. I later could sometimes guess at what was coming in bed when she said, 'look at that girl there,' or thats a good looking couple.
On one occasion, I read the situation slightly wrong in asking about her last fuck, and the details, when the girl in question pushed me off, sat up and asked in a voice loud enough to wake the house,
'Are you trying to get off on another guy fucking me?' I didnt really recover the momentum from that one.
Please share your thoughts.
I often go to sleep at night with a smile on my face just because of that.....I gotta give her a call 
