Discreet Bi Women...

[nici]

Hey Nici

Thank you for that. I learned something new today! YAY! hehehe (I'll call it my b.d. present! hehe)

I am not married but do live with someone. So I guess I should stay away from gay bars? I hadn't realized that it was disrespectful. I'm just at the point in my life where I don't know where I belong anymore. I thought that by looking around I could figure it out... guess not.

Maybe like you, I'm also a lipstick lesbian but I really can't say for 100% certainty. I think if anything being bisexual is more confusing and frustrating that anything else. If only I could experience being with a woman just once, then I might finally know... or maybe I'm just being naive.

Being single but living with someone is really hard to say. In a sense you do have a relationship ongoing, but how serious it is, only you two know.

My major point is having an ulterior motive. If you don't have one, are attached and not looking, but want to be involved in the scene... then why not? Go out network, have fun, make friends, and enjoy. There is absolutely nothing wrong with married bisexuals and straight women mixing and networking in the lez scene. LOL, there's even a scene slang word for straight women who cater to gay men as friends. They're called fag hags.

If you're questioning if he is the real deal, or if you might be more queer than straight, then for god's sake, do go out and find out first before committing! There's tons of older lesbians in the scene who first married, had children, went through the whole traditional breeder scene before realizing that they were not happy and could not continue living that way.

 

[sassylilthang]

Looking.......

no longer looking

 

[Minouners]

Being single but living with someone is really hard to say. In a sense you do have a relationship ongoing, but how serious it is, only you two know.

My major point is having an ulterior motive. If you don't have one, are attached and not looking, but want to be involved in the scene... then why not? Go out network, have fun, make friends, and enjoy. There is absolutely nothing wrong with married bisexuals and straight women mixing and networking in the lez scene. LOL, there's even a scene slang word for straight women who cater to gay men as friends. They're called fag hags.

If you're questioning if he is the real deal, or if you might be more queer than straight, then for god's sake, do go out and find out first before committing! There's tons of older lesbians in the scene who first married, had children, went through the whole traditional breeder scene before realizing that they were not happy and could not continue living that way.

Yeah, I thought what I was doing was harmless but you never know. Some people just get the wrong idea about me. Maybe I care too much about what other people think... I should really work on that.

Don't worry, I'll make sure to make sure that I know what I want before I commit. I've seen people get married for the wrongs reasons and regret their decision. I don't want to go through that.

Who knows... maybe all of this is just in my head and I'm exaggerating for nothing... (see, being negative again.... arggghhh)

 

[TitilateMe]

I just now admitted to a woman that I used to have a crush on her. She told me that she had an erotic dream about me last night! I am just so glad that she wasn't dismissive... I didn't tell her to have any kind of affair with her, which she knows. She's also bi, but pursuing relationships with men at the moment.

 

[Macy02]

Has our little thread died? I hope not. I've been busy for weeks and the computer was in the shop but I miss checking in with you all. So I hope everyone is well.

Macy

 

[sassylilthang]

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