I do agree
with the poster about having a history of posts just so people can get a peek into who you are. My perspectives are as follows:
- I Do think sexting type DMs have their place. There are people on here solely for that purpose so more power to them. Live and let live.
- While the general opinion is that this site skews towards men, I actually think there are a lot more women on here than we know. Sitting on the sidelines for fear of being bombarded perhaps.
- Even if you reach out, that note might be one of many so the chances of getting a response and connecting are pretty low IMHO
- But the chances of having a long lasting, casual, intelligent conversations are slim to none. Think it has more to do with people being on here just as an outlet than a genuine desire to connect. Wish it weren't the case but

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