Chrissi
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Even if women have to invent the reasons... And we do, in order to get ourselves off. Sort of like the women that men invent that just fuck, in reverse.
Although I tend to prefer my porn served up with some emotional context, a lot of women writers show the most abysmal idea of how men might possibly think. Honestly, most men fuck because they like fucking.
The gay male couples that I know and talk to
1) Tend to be barely monogamous (although someone might be a jealous asshole at times) and love tearooms and random ally-way orgies-- fucking around has very little impact on the relationship.
2) fell into bed first and then became a couple (as opposed to having to get to know each other and trust each other before they could get tot the nasty-- sex is not a matter of trust for guys.)
3) do not consider anal sex a penis-in-vagina analog for crissake.
4) If they do a lot of anal sex, usually the guy with the smaller dick ends up topping.
I like some emotional context with my sexing, but i do get tired of the idea that men are weepy, clingy, girly-girls when they fall in love with each other, as the worst of slash suggests. For one thing it makes girly-girls show in an equally bad light.
Haha, funny Stella...
1) Check, except for the random alley way stuff, we like to keep it somewhat non-anonymous.
2) Hit the nail on the head
3) OMG thank you for understanding...instant turn off when we hear female anatomy references to our holes.
4) well, not true for us, I am not unblessed if you know what I mean, but my BF is what we call XL and, well, he is definitely the top in our relationship.
Topher
