Do you ever feel real emotions for someone you've met on here?

[steelyblue73]

Yes. There are two men here who I care deeply for, and they know it. I love my 'real life' boyfriend, but love is complex, and emotions and can't simply be ignored or turned on and off.

...Agree with the last part of that last sentence.
Without further explanation, yes I have felt real emotions. I think I'd worry about myself if I didn't.

 

[draconus_infernus]

I’ve Made some good friends here, people I would go out of my way for. And I’ve had people I’ve been burned by. The good has outweighed the bad.

 

[Ok_Queen]

Yes. There are two men here who I care deeply for, and they know it. I love my 'real life' boyfriend, but love is complex, and emotions and can't simply be ignored or turned on and off.

Hey, I love you Sarah! Yer my gurl!

 

[lustfulraj]

Oh yes!

Do you ever kick yourself for it?

I do. Both. I don't let people in easily. I'm guarded. Very.

I think I need to be more guarded. Lol

Yes I do feel real emotions for someone that I have met on here. I also fell in madly in love with her too; I love her almost to death!! I don't feel like kicking myself for it! A connection like that is a fantastic experience, from the inside to the outside ... well it started from the outside (physical) and went inside (emotional). I don't feel the need to be guarded, I let things flow. If it leads to connecting at that level then there must be a reason for it, regardless of how it turns out in the end.

 

[quietlylooking]

I've definitely had real connections with men that I have met on Lit. It can happen. The important thing to remember is that usually one or both sides have reasons not to make it "real" or permanent relationship. Which means: it is good to maintain a bit of a guard, keep expectations modest, and have fun.

 

[vibes]

I've definitely had real connections with men that I have met on Lit. It can happen. The important thing to remember is that usually one or both sides have reasons not to make it "real" or permanent relationship. Which means: it is good to maintain a bit of a guard, keep expectations modest, and have fun.

Very true! Maybe a little sad or frustrating at times but a necessary measure to avoid ending up scarred

 

[therearenowords]

Hey, I love you Sarah! Yer my gurl!

Right back at you K

 

[ArabianNights]

I have been lucky to have built some amazing friendships on here, two sadly passed away without being able to say goodbye. Others have dropped off for whatever reasons, and others you catch up with as time permits. Its always amazing when you just click with someone.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I have and whether it is as friends, or more. Emotions always seem to get involved. I tend to love and care deeply. I don't know how to keep them in check and it always overwhelms people and scares them off. Once they become a good friend here, they are introduced (for lack of a better word) to my family at home. But there are only a few that have been able to tolerate me for the long haul and I love them to death. I'm needy and greedy and it takes a strong person to ride the roller coaster of moods that I am. But most times I've taken any vacation from here, it's because I lost someone I really cared about, or something turned into drama that I didn't need or want.
Lit always sucks me in though.

 

[yellowrocket]

I have and whether it is as friends, or more. Emotions always seem to get involved. I tend to love and care deeply. I don't know how to keep them in check and it always overwhelms people and scares them off. Once they become a good friend here, they are introduced (for lack of a better word) to my family at home. But there are only a few that have been able to tolerate me for the long haul and I love them to death. I'm needy and greedy and it takes a strong person to ride the roller coaster of moods that I am. But most times I've taken any vacation from here, it's because I lost someone I really cared about, or something turned into drama that I didn't need or want.
Lit always sucks me in though.

Most of us wouldn't keep coming back if it didn't fill some need.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Most of us wouldn't keep coming back if it didn't fill some need.

Well obviously that is true. Most of the time, I feel less alone.

 

[13Fantasies]

Yes. I think it's only natural, especially when you connect with someone on more than one level

 

[Misha_Davis]

I've felt really strongly for a couple of people I've met on Lit. One more so than others, but the feelings weren't returned

 

[icandothis]

Please Don't Judge . . .

When I was pregnant with my first baby I kept an online journal here on Lit. When I go back and read some of the entries I'm surprised at how open I was.

Though I loved and still love my boyfriend (now husband) dearly, there was one person here on Lit that I seemed to connect with during that time. We exchanged texts, sextexted, talked often on the phone, and a few times had phone sex. During my pregnancy, my hormones were out of control and I was in a constant state of arousal, masturbating to thoughts of my boyfriend, and sometimes thoughts of my Lit friend . . . hell, I even remember sending him one of the nude pics my boyfriend had taken of me toward the end of my pregnancy, that's how close we had become.

It was a good time and experience. I will always remember him, his thoughtfulness, patience and encouraging words.

 

[frmtutanota]

I've felt really strongly for a couple of people I've met on Lit. One more so than others, but the feelings weren't returned

that's a real bummer... I know how you feel, but like others have said, the good has outweighed the bad

 

[Chasingdreams]

Yes I’ve felt real emotions and no I don’t regret it.

 

[Slutbunnie]

I haven't been on here long but I have connected with someone. I am not quite sure what kind of feelings they are but I do feel something towards him. I may have screwed it up and now he won't reply to my messages but such is life I suppose.

 

[Lothario1956]

I have yes. and its wonderful!

 

[13Fantasies]

I've felt really strongly for a couple of people I've met on Lit. One more so than others, but the feelings weren't returned

Ditto

 

[LadyJS]

I did, and I got fucked over because of it. I've resigned myself to the fact that 99+% of the guys on Lit (those who are available, meaning not married, engaged or in any other way involved with someone else to any degree) are here just to satisfy their physical needs and nothing more. And if that's what they want, then that's fine. Just leave me out of it. Find someone else to get you off, because it won't be me!

 

[MasterSnatch]

I have known quite a few people here over the years, and cared? Sure I have. Speaking to them, hearing their stories, knowing what makes them tick, having access to their most inner thoughts and fears. You want to do what you can to help them if you can. In time everything fades away, such is the nature of things, especially forums.

 

[followmenow6969]

Both my Hubby and I have made dear friends on LIT, he's met a few women and loved them dearly, I've met 2 who I loved we both wish they where still online, one pops in once a year, 2 have passed away ... sadly

 

[GhostFeather18]

It's happened to me a couple of times.

 

[justashygirl]

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[midwestdude]

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