Do you ever feel real emotions for someone you've met on here?

[nbsucked]

Out of all of the places, I am very lucky to have found somebody here I feel soo deeply connected, so much in love. A beautiful journey with somebody you might only dream of, real emotions, very strong emotions. For all those that found their soulmates, matches, pears , it's not where you look for it, it's when you are meant to have it! With joy and luck, thank you lit!

 

[PassionsFlame]

Yes. It's very possible.

 

[Deadfreak]

All of my emotions are real, even the irrational ones

 

[PersonalFavors]

Define “real emotions”.

 

[Deleted member 6353684]

I think it's hard to avoid if you strike up a genuine connection.
Once that connection is made well, a really great adventure can begin.
I can understand how people can get upset if it goes pear shaped.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

Unfortunately

 

[Dishrag]

Definitely

 

[AlwaysDancing]

Yes

 

[Masters_slutpussy]

It's the absolute worst

 

[MiaBabe23]

Probably answered this already, but yeah, of course
Deep, genuine, giddying, passionate, maddening emotions for one
And all kinda feelings for others too - like, affection, warmth

 

[Hipshot1554]

Quick answer...yes.

 

[Nicefella]

Absolutely. And it is soul crushing when it’s more of a casual rub and run than it is for you.

 

[PersonalFavors]

I've had the blast of endorphin rush lots of times, it generally wears down in a few days or maybe a week or so. True feelings yes, when I was a little younger I hit it off amazingly with a woman who was unhappy in her marriage.

Things were so awesome, I figured she'd be sleeping with her husband and all as I would my wife...equal footing I guess.
Then she left him and began talking about other conquests and I was very uncomfortable, not angry like jealous but just bummed out because I knew it would never be me.

Long story short it messed with the dynamic to a point where it was ruined for me. I guess the situation going into things was the situation I was comfortable with, and couldn't cope with the change. I've talked to others who were dating people when we first began talking and I've never had an issue with it.

You learn and move on.

Yep. Online dating sites used to be fun. Now they are all owned by match. So the social network aspect is removed. Forcing you to pay if you want to communicate. As result there are very few women on the site anymore. Even tinder is a bust.
I never expected I would meet a match and did not. But damn I had a good time along the way. That casual connection seems to be a memory. Meetoo and then covid happened.

 

[Hodes101]

I've had feelings on more than one occasion. There was one, whilst I would never have done anything, her voice every day in my inbox was a ray of sunshine whilst it lasted. But then something changed. I still don't know why.

I still think of that special person every day.

 

[happyhouror2]

Definitely...I have

 

[SensualGerund]

100 percent yes

 

[Stromer]

Way back under my first user ID, I had a long running thread on AMPICS and got to know two woman very well. Not romantically, but as friends. One of them got married and the honeymoon was a week long motorcycle trip. The last leg was to Skyline Dr. which is about an hour from us, so we agreed to meet them and ride with them for the day. We all became fast friends and we would all get together several time a year.
Mrs. Stromer and I were moved when we found out Michelle was ill, and devastated when her husband called us to let us know she had passed peacefully in her sleep. Needless to say we made the two hour trip for her funeral with heavy hearts.

The other woman lived out in Colorado and actually married some one here from Lit.. We only had online conversations, but eventually Mrs. Stromer, who never posted on the thread, and her became internet and phone buddies, as did I. Years later it was a sad day for us when her husband let us know she too had passed. We couldn't make that funeral but spared no expense for the flowers we sent.

RIP Rita and Michelle. We miss you.

 

[AlwaysDancing]

Yes.