Wand3rlust
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Yes.
Do you ever feel real emotions for someone you've met on here?
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luv2custrip
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Yes but all goes nowhere.
AngelColleen
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Yes, I have. Twice. After the first time I told myself I wouldn’t let it happen again. Well, it did but going great now.
It’s an uplifting feeling..kind of miss it....
You tried to resist your inner self and fantasies. Yet meeting and sharing yourself with her has opened your mind and heart To the experiences and pleasures you both can share and enjoy...love you babe
❤
NightOfPassion2
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Yes. Short answer but yes.
Absolutely yes. The difficult part is knowing that it’s reciprocated or just someone playing with others. I think there are as many fake people as kind and loving on these sites.
Wand3rlust
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Yep feelings.
Slight disdain.
A little meh.
Some snark.
All the feels.
Slight disdain.
A little meh.
Some snark.
All the feels.
We definately are baby...
silkysweet9
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Sure have. We don't talk much now but he's left a lasting impression for sure
Dirtyoldhornyman
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Sure
Anytime you are talking to someone about your most intimate sexual things, it’s going to happen. Sexual feelinfs are the most enjoyable and personal subjects in a persons life. When you share them, usually deeper and in more detail all the time, you connect. You get feelings. Also, very hard to separate sexual fantasy from sexual reality…
Anytime you are talking to someone about your most intimate sexual things, it’s going to happen. Sexual feelinfs are the most enjoyable and personal subjects in a persons life. When you share them, usually deeper and in more detail all the time, you connect. You get feelings. Also, very hard to separate sexual fantasy from sexual reality…
Photog1rl
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Everyone knows my answer is all the yeses. Sometimes I share them publicly and sometimes I don’t.
I need the connection to enjoy my time here but I don’t need to let them control me. It’s a balance, remembering Lit should be fun and bring joy and that all I can control is how I react. I think I have a handle on this…at least for now.
I need the connection to enjoy my time here but I don’t need to let them control me. It’s a balance, remembering Lit should be fun and bring joy and that all I can control is how I react. I think I have a handle on this…at least for now.
LostHorizon
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Yes, my emotions have gotten the better of me here and it didn’t end well. That was early on before I knew better.
So I have learned over the years how to keep my head in order and a handle on this.
Of course my other head still gives me a run for my money sometimes.
Hipshot1554
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Some connections are strong, and last.
Hipshot1554
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I'm sure there are others here that have made connections with someone that needed to get through a bad time in their life. Then, if they do get through it, they are able to move on. It's happened with me. I'm glad I could help, but I miss them.
Photog1rl
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I don’t deny this and this is a true gift. Unfortunately almost all of my closest and seemingly deepest connections have gone up in flames and burned hotter than a California wildfire. I’ve come to the conclusion that I either expected too much, gave too much or was too much.
I now tightly control how much of myself I share and limit how much i give away.
Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.
Anastasia1999
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Hipshot1554
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The ones that have lasted the longest (years in some cases) have evolved into friendship as well. Some conversations are about what is going on with our lives. Sex doesn't enter into these.
SPARTAN047
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Yes. And it's not just here, I've developed feelings for the people I met in other chat sites sometimes.
I won't be giving details of what and where, sorry, I'm just venting.
It's really difficult to find someone sexy enough and understanding enough of your deepest, darkest desires. I've started to find out that there are a LOT more people with my fetishes, so it's not a lost cause.
However, it doesn't match the feelings you get from people who you built a connection with, of course. I found it very hard to let go of all of them, but in most cases there was no choice. They made it clear they weren't interested, or I felt that they'd been leading me on due to circumstantial evidence and so on.
It's my own fault in a way and I take full responsibility for that. No one owes you anything at all, not even your parents. I've always been too soft since childhood and while I've learned to become much more guarded about my feelings in life, since I've been hurt by all genders at some point, it's very easy to get into my inner circle as I have almost nobody that close. The hookup partners obviously don't count.
My parents are like this too, over-sensitive to most situations and my siblings are too. We let people into our world very easily and are upset when they don't want to stay.
Confession time: It's not just about me, of course, I'm pretty sure I've also had people contact me sometimes and I didn't respond to them often as I wasn't that interested, or busy. There have been a lot of them and I'm honestly regretful I did that. Perhaps I deserved what I got in some ways, but that's the circle of life.
I won't be giving details of what and where, sorry, I'm just venting.
It's really difficult to find someone sexy enough and understanding enough of your deepest, darkest desires. I've started to find out that there are a LOT more people with my fetishes, so it's not a lost cause.
However, it doesn't match the feelings you get from people who you built a connection with, of course. I found it very hard to let go of all of them, but in most cases there was no choice. They made it clear they weren't interested, or I felt that they'd been leading me on due to circumstantial evidence and so on.
It's my own fault in a way and I take full responsibility for that. No one owes you anything at all, not even your parents. I've always been too soft since childhood and while I've learned to become much more guarded about my feelings in life, since I've been hurt by all genders at some point, it's very easy to get into my inner circle as I have almost nobody that close. The hookup partners obviously don't count.
My parents are like this too, over-sensitive to most situations and my siblings are too. We let people into our world very easily and are upset when they don't want to stay.
Confession time: It's not just about me, of course, I'm pretty sure I've also had people contact me sometimes and I didn't respond to them often as I wasn't that interested, or busy. There have been a lot of them and I'm honestly regretful I did that. Perhaps I deserved what I got in some ways, but that's the circle of life.
