Do you ever feel real emotions for someone you've met on here?

I really cared for someone on here. It was the closest thing to love that I had experienced in a long time. He wanted me to be a secret and I shamefully was okay with that. He disappeared and I’ve since learned it wasn’t because of me. Still hurt though.
I now have a Dom who prefers to be discrete. But I’m a smitten kitten. I break my own heart wanting more than the boundaries we clearly set together.
 
Vicki and I would not continue a long term relationship with people here without some emotional and physically connection.
 
It’s happened. It is happening now and will likely happen in the future.

Lit is a good escape for many of us. I’ve developed some really good friendships. Some real emotions and even taken it further where emotions of love have emerged. Once it happened to me and once someone else fell for me.

I try to keep it lighter now. Just have some fun and connect w others whether it be sexual, fun or just talking about our interests and life.

Being ghosted sucks, but I’ve come to realize it’s lit and it happens.
 
If the title of the threat means, "here on Lit" and not just this thread or section, then yes, I've developed strong feelings for a couple or three women that I've been chatting with. I'm quite sure I will never meet them in person, and they could disappear in the blink of an iPhone. But for now, I'm enjoying an emotional connection that goes beyond the dirty talk and whimsical fantasies and ludicrous plans for the future. And I believe that they care for me, too.

Beats just jerking off...
 
Not all the time, but when I do it can run the gamut: Anger, Frustration, Intrigue, Happiness, Lust. The list goes on. It
It's very similar to the range of emotions I can feel with someone I might meet in person.
 
Just confessed my love to a wonderful woman on here. And received a lovely, if not completely equal response. Just hoping it doesn't make things weird between us going forward.
 
I think that given the fact that so much of what enthralls and entices most of us on here is mental, and usually well before physical imagery (or other sensory stimulation) adds to the deliciousness of the moment/interaction/individual appeal; it is reasonable to develop feelings attached to allllll the things that are good and naughty and exactly what we seek and want.

Should we… maybe not.

But, I am of the opinion that the pleasure found is all the more intense and satisfying when I am invested in the moment and person I lose myself to in orgasmic euphoria…
 
Of course, it's nearly impossible to not feel something for someone. The more you talk, the more the connection builds, it's like any online or offline relationship. Most of the time the best connections here are slightly slow burn, because you can't always respond to a pm or message.

It may not be the best thing, but without that connection, it's not generally worth it. So, damn it, I'll keep connecting and hopefully my life will be better for it.
 
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