Why Lit? Why are you here?

Came for the stories, found the forum and stayed for the people. Life took me away for a number of years and I've recently started visiting again. It's been nice to reconnect with friends from the past, still trying to find my way in this "new" Lit world.
 
The biggest takeaway about Lit, at least for me, is that so many of us have no real desire to uproot our lives but we do seek out another branch of our lives. Some of the funniest and most passionate people I know are here....

I also admit that I have at times forgotten that there are people on the other side of the screen. It's not that I'm being a bitch (although I most definitely can be one). Rather, if some of you knew the insanely creepy PMs I get.... I mean a lot of you do.... I've never lashes out but I'm often left starting at my screen wondering what kind of person would say "that?"

Still. I love this place and all it's quirks, it's weirdos, it's amazing people and the topics we can choose to discuss.

Just don't bring politics or religion here. Lol I mean, do you, right? But just don't direct that at me. 😂
 
I came for the stories, then I realized I wanted to use the “favorites” feature and had to register, then I wanted to contact one of the authors and ended up on the forum, where I got hooked on something and stayed.
 
The biggest takeaway about Lit, at least for me, is that so many of us have no real desire to uproot our lives but we do seek out another branch of our lives. Some of the funniest and most passionate people I know are here....

I also admit that I have at times forgotten that there are people on the other side of the screen. It's not that I'm being a bitch (although I most definitely can be one). Rather, if some of you knew the insanely creepy PMs I get.... I mean a lot of you do.... I've never lashes out but I'm often left starting at my screen wondering what kind of person would say "that?"

Still. I love this place and all it's quirks, it's weirdos, it's amazing people and the topics we can choose to discuss.

Just don't bring politics or religion here. Lol I mean, do you, right? But just don't direct that at me. 😂
It fun and a distraction from the world around us.
 
I came here on a friend's recommendation to publish my erotic stories in an international community. I'm also planning to offer a version of my texts in my native language and another in English.

I'm also here to build beautiful friendships with anyone who wants to, because I love people and I love discovering new cultures and personalities ☺️
 
I am here cause I am addicted. I found this place in the early 2000’s just reading. About 2010 i found my self in the forums i did not know existed i read but never participated, i think I created my first user name shortly around there, i dont even remember what it was.

When I got married i did not stop. I was addicted. The social, the sex. The fun games in the forums, that just left some interaction.

I have come snd gone, sometimes due to personal and conviction, other times I need a break from certain members. I have seen a trend. I am starting to learn it.

I dont mind this place, while I would not up root and move. There are connections and friendships made. Some sexual, some not so much. But it allows me to be me and live a life I would not otherwise get to live.
 
I’m on Lit to make up for the lack of sexual experiences in my real life. I want some kink in my life but my wife is plain vanilla so I read and fantasize about things I have missed out on.

I also use Lit to vent about my wife’s infidelity
 
A friend told me about lit so I looked over the stories a bit but since I don't read a lot of erotic stories I would seldom visit but during one visit I discovered the lit forums and that interactivity with other like minded individuals is why I enjoy it so much.

The flirting, getting to know each other, sharing and accepting each other's fantasies without feeling judged is what keeps me here.
The chat rooms are super fun too
 
I came here because I am horny.

Initially, it was the stories and I would read them and get off. Then I discovered the forum and would read them and look at the pics and get off. I loved reading all the different kinks and sex and how I was not alone for the ones I enjoyed.

And now that I have been here for a while and don’t leave is because I am still and always horny.
Always horny is a good thing
 
I’m always horny and wondering things but to meet people I don’t usually reach out first unless u just feel bold , because i don’t know who’s bots and who’s not
 
I’m always horny and wondering things but to meet people I don’t usually reach out first unless u just feel bold , because i don’t know who’s bots and who’s not
Simple. A real woman won’t send you messages telling you immediately how horny and wet you make her and what she wants you to do to her. A bot will.

For relationships to build here, find someone who engages across threads and has established themselves here already. Then dm them and let the conversation flow. Some women I’m sure love to sext and R.P but usually it comes after some time engaging and talking and getting to know one and other.

Another tip is to see what they’ve posted, how long the account has been running. It’s using and engaging common sense when it comes to bots here.
 
Simple. A real woman won’t send you messages telling you immediately how horny and wet you make her and what she wants you to do to her. A bot will.

For relationships to build here, find someone who engages across threads and has established themselves here already. Then dm them and let the conversation flow. Some women I’m sure love to sext and R.P but usually it comes after some time engaging and talking and getting to know one and other.

Another tip is to see what they’ve posted, how long the account has been running. It’s using and engaging common sense when it comes to bots here.
A big part of this as a guy, I find too is coming to lit when you're in a curious mood rather than at the point where you're essentially replacing porn with lit for the last 5 minutes of your alone time. Relationships take work and there's a real human behind every screenname that's worth talking to.

(That or "The HandjobMaster" really did get wet at the thoughts of making me cum multiple times in an hour, even after I told them I was more of a one and done type 🤔)
 
Simple. A real woman won’t send you messages telling you immediately how horny and wet you make her and what she wants you to do to her. A bot will.

For relationships to build here, find someone who engages across threads and has established themselves here already. Then dm them and let the conversation flow. Some women I’m sure love to sext and R.P but usually it comes after some time engaging and talking and getting to know one and other.

Another tip is to see what they’ve posted, how long the account has been running. It’s using and engaging common sense when it comes to bots here.
I was refered to Lit by a friend I made on another site. She was hot and she didn't need to tell me. You remind me of her.
 
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