Do you share your fetishes with your partner?

[pumperguy191]

It involved another man.

 

[m_and_em_stories]

I’m incredibly lucky to have a husband who is open sexually with me, and encourages me to be open with him. We’ve talked a lot over the years about our past experiences, our likes and dislikes and fantasies, and they have been the basis of most of my stories. We don’t talk as much nowadays, after 15 years together we know each other pretty well but occasionally something new will be mentioned that spurs another round of discussion and exploration.

This is in many ways what my wife and I are working towards.

We've shared some fantasies in the past, but I am now writing what we've shared and others I haven't shared into stories she's reading and editing (she loves editing which sparked this idea). I'm taking her new suggestions and turning them into stories too although that's more of a 'going to do' than doing.

Ideally I want everything open between us. What you described is my ideal I think. New things come up and are shared and discussed.

I'm not interested in a hidden or closed life anymore and she is willing and excited with this direction. Open to advice and suggestions on navigating this.

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

I’m incredibly lucky to have a husband who is open sexually with me, and encourages me to be open with him. We’ve talked a lot over the years about our past experiences, our likes and dislikes and fantasies, and they have been the basis of most of my stories. We don’t talk as much nowadays, after 15 years together we know each other pretty well but occasionally something new will be mentioned that spurs another round of discussion and exploration.

Sounds like us with 30 years together. On occasion, we'll be watching some kinky off the wall home porn and see something we hadn't thought about doing and her or I will say "that looks interesting."

 

[Elliott62]

Some..not all. I love to eat her pussy and without reciprocation. I love to lick her asshole..she says it feels weird..but she doesn't mind . She knows when she's away..I like to sleep in her sexier lingerie..and steal her panties..what she doesn't know is that I use her Magic Rabbit to fuck my asshole..or that I have a desire to suck another man's cock and be sucked..as in a 69.. May be even let him fuck my asshole. We had discussed a 3 some with another woman ages ago..but neither of us could figure out to go about it . it's still in the back of my mind...my wife's a BBW..so I would want another BBW or even an ssbbw. I've also mentioned a desire to have her piss on me.again..ages ago ..but she sorta pushed it aside because she has a 'shy' bladder...and I would love to have her sit on my face.... I've gotten so much kinkier..for me that is..and my Mrs is..quiet...she just goes along .she likes what we do...but she's not vocal

 

[LMTPA]

I've shared a few. But she's never shared a single one, so I stopped.

 

[Elliott62]

I've shared a few. But she's never shared a single one, so I stopped.

Aww man .that sucks. I'm sorry for you..had Mrs has never mentioned any of her own.. but she's at least been okay with me discussing mine..

 

[curiouschattycouple]

It is hard to share. It took a long time for me to bring up kinks with my wife and I shook like a leaf. She was taken aback by it but we'll talked for hours and found some intersections with things she was interested in too. However, I feel like she still hasn't told me everything, but that's ok. I think she is worried about how I will react and maybe one day when the time is right she will bring it up.

 

[tammyrose27]

Yes we have regular discussions about our kinked and fetishs. We never embarrassed or to shy to explore and discuss them. We both have lots to explore and as the opportunity arises we delve into them..

 

[amigayorbi]

not at all so far!

 

[m_and_em_stories]

Several stories shared and one definitely inspired our actions earlier.

Not a bad start.

 

[CurvyMomSlut4u]

I have shared some with my hubby but certainly not all