Does an erotic writer know shit?

[CharleyH]

thats a great game!


Charles:
i learned that being safe...being sane...being consensual is the basis for all my beliefs be it in the bdsm arena or otherwise. i sought out techniques and learned what i liked...how about you?

Totally, but that hardly relates to writing

 

[cloudy]

I've written outside my comfort zone at least once. What I don't know, I don't have any problem asking about. And, thankfully, there are some wonderfully helpful people here (Colly and Lucky, namely).

 

[Colleen Thomas]

I've written outside my comfort zone at least once. What I don't know, I don't have any problem asking about. And, thankfully, there are some wonderfully helpful people here (Colly and Lucky, namely).

All I can say is it's a damned shame it's outside your comfort zone

With apologies to Dran

 

[CharleyH]

All I can say is it's a damned shame it's outside your comfort zone

With apologies to Dran

All I can ask is: What's yours?

 

[cloudy]

All I can say is it's a damned shame it's outside your comfort zone

and that, I believe, is one of the nicest compliments I've ever received.

 

[CharleyH]

and that, I believe, is one of the nicest compliments I've ever received.

Oh this was a serious thread, yet GO FOR RUIN! (jesus)

 

[Colleen Thomas]

All I can ask is: What's yours?

I don't know. I was comfortable writing modern les tales at first. then I found I was equally comfortable with period pieces. And then with Fantasy and sci-fi. I was way out of my zone with Tee-time, but despite the racist shelling and the "i hate cheating wives" crowd hand grenades, i thought it was pretty good and may try another striaght piece.

Most recently, I finsihed a 22 lit page work that is mostly transgendered in theme. It's submitted, but hasn't been accepted yet.

So I guess my comfort zone is expanding as I push the bounds.

 

[Guest]

Does an erotic writer know shit?

Well, brinnie certainly knows her shit.


(Oh - sorry - serious thread?)

 

[BlackShanglan]

*brandishes crucifix, knocks on wood, and whatever else is customary*

 

[CharleyH]

Well, brinnie certainly knows her shit.


(Oh - sorry - serious thread?)

LOL LOL SHUSH! I need to answer Colly!

 

[Guest]

Totally, but that hardly relates to writing

disagree.
it has everything to do with what i write. how can what you know or believe not color what you write?

 

[Guest]

Do we writers know enough about fetish as writers or do we stay, as authors, in a realm of our somewhat vanilla or cultural experience, and never venture forth beyond traditional BDSM and fetish?

It's a terrific question, Charley.

I am more comfortable in writing about what I know. If the story contains something I haven't yet tried, at least I've read other stories on the topic, fantasized about it, daydreamed over it, planned to include it in the near future??, etc.

Hey Charley - ya wanna cyber?

 

[oggbashan]

Which shit?

Are you referring to the fetish for eating faecal products?

Or the various fetishes for the loved one's faeces?

Or golden showers?

Please define your terms.

Og

 

[CharleyH]

I don't know. I was comfortable writing modern les tales at first. then I found I was equally comfortable with period pieces. And then with Fantasy and sci-fi. I was way out of my zone with Tee-time, but despite the racist shelling and the "i hate cheating wives" crowd hand grenades, i thought it was pretty good and may try another striaght piece.

You wrote loving wives? Not good unless you are a loving wife into fucking around and then saying : OH MY GOD, I have a husband, and what a big dick he has"

 

[Guest]

*brandishes crucifix, knocks on wood, and whatever else is customary*

I know. My apologies.

I know we shouldn't speak the name as it invokes the evil.

Spank me. I deserve it.


No, really!

 

[CharleyH]

*brandishes crucifix, knocks on wood, and whatever else is customary*

LOL

 

[CharleyH]

Are you referring to the fetish for eating faecal products?

Or the various fetishes for the loved one's faeces?

Or golden showers?

Please define your terms.

Og

I - at least - am certain I may have talked of Klismaphilia without bringing it up in a Roman fashion?

 

[CharleyH]

It's a terrific question, Charley.

I am more comfortable in writing about what I know. If the story contains something I haven't yet tried, at least I've read other stories on the topic, fantasized about it, daydreamed over it, planned to include it in the near future??, etc.

Hey Charley - ya wanna cyber?

Have I NOT asked that for a year, love?

 

[BlackShanglan]

Spank me. I deserve it.


No, really!

It's a painful duty, but I think I can just bear it.

 

[Guest]

Have I NOT asked that for a year, love?

 

[Colleen Thomas]

You wrote loving wives? Not good unless you are a loving wife into fucking around and then saying : OH MY GOD, I have a husband, and what a big dick he has"

Not loving wives. I entered it in interracial. the loving wives cat gives me hayfever

 

[Guest]

It's a painful duty, but I think I can just bear it.

 

[lucky-E-leven]

Do we writers know enough about fetish as writers or do we stay, as authors, in a realm of our somewhat vanilla or cultural experience, and never venture forth beyond traditional BDSM and fetish?

I feel comfortable writing things I don't necessarily have first hand experience with, so long as my knowledge base supports what I'm trying to write.

I don't feel the need to investigate fetishes in person or in research that I have no need to portray in a story. Why would I seek to know more about pony play or scat if it's not something I plan to indulge in personally or weave into a story?

 

[CharleyH]

Well, brinnie certainly knows her shit.


(Oh - sorry - serious thread?)

ROFLOL - Where is your IM? LOL - LOL.

 

[CharleyH]

It's a painful duty, but I think I can just bear it.

A crop might be better in your case.