Does everybody love anal ?

[hardgrader]

i really don't like it. but fingers i don't mind. thats just my opinion.

It's a nice doversion--but doesn't seem "better" to me...fingers are a good way o go, yo can control more. Personally, i love having my ass played with, but the idea of letting my woman do my ass with a strap on doesn't fly, because I'm not sure sh'e have the feedback/know what to do with it--at least with a finger she can figure and adjust...

 

[2likis2luv]

Even before I experienced lovemaking for the first time I knew I'd love anal. my first sexual experience was going around the world on a high school girlfriend who certainly got very turned on. Over the course of a fairly wild life I've found roughly 1/3 of my lovers have enjoyed a tongue or finger or both in their ass, and about 1/5 like anal penis penetration with several actually requesting. One of the most erotic things I've experienced in initial heavy petting is getting a finger in down the back of the panties while French kissing. This gets me really hard and usually means I can go for hours. For sure if my lover enjoys anal I can extend the experience for as long as they are open to being re-tongued and then entered.

Finding the right anal friendly lover has been a slow process but richly rewarded, and my long term relationships have evolved around it.

 

[SirLeo]

I love giving anal. m is totally trained and can open for me with nothing more than my tongue and her pussy juice for lube. she loves being on the recieiving end, mind blowing orgasms. On the other side, I love to get rimmed and get My prostrate massaged while getting oral. But don't really have an interest in being a bottom....

 

[leatherbottomboy]

i absolutly LOVE anal sex, so much i do everything i can to ensure i get it on a daily basis. There is nothing i love more than ending the day on my elbows and knees getting plowed by my Top's big stiff tool. Being a submissive bottom i love it not just because it feels so good but also because it is the ultimate form of being Dominated, at least for me,even more so than the bdsm or the D/s aspect of our relationship.

 

[Bill3250]

i absolutly LOVE anal sex, so much i do everything i can to ensure i get it on a daily basis. There is nothing i love more than ending the day on my elbows and knees getting plowed by my Top's big stiff tool. Being a submissive bottom i love it not just because it feels so good but also because it is the ultimate form of being Dominated, at least for me,even more so than the bdsm or the D/s aspect of our relationship.

I understand and share your feelings about anal sex. I love having my knees pressed against my shoulders while my asshole is being stretched by a masterful cock. My own hard cock aiming toward my panting mouth, dripping precum on my lips with each powerful thrust. And then coming, my cum spurting into my mouth and over my face as his orgasm erupts into me.

Later, if I have been good, he will allow me to rim him.

Bill

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

I love anal sex. The decadence, the naughtiness, the intimacy, the excitement, the sense of being taken, but also sharing something so loving but crude. The sensations of it, the feel of it, is gorgeous too. My anal orgasms are wonderful.

 

[Bill3250]

I love anal sex. The decadence, the naughtiness, the intimacy, the excitement, the sense of being taken, but also sharing something so loving but crude. The sensations of it, the feel of it, is gorgeous too. My anal orgasms are wonderful.

Oh!....Julie-in-the-north,

I can picture you lying face down, perhaps with a pillow beneath your belly to elevate your behind. I kneel between your parted kegs and lean forward over you gazing at the dusky furrow of your lovely ass. I spread your cheeks and gaze at the puckered flesh of your anus. (Can you feel my breath brushing you?) I touch your anus with the tip of my tongue. You shudder. I open you with a finger I've dipped in lube. Then a second finger and a third to prepare the way for my aching, throbbing erection. You moan softly as you feel my fingers being replaced by cock. Oh, feeling your sphincter clutch my cock as I slowly fuck you to an orgasm. You coming just as my cum spurts into the darkness within you.

Bill

 

[rbone04]

Anal is "so damn popular" because, I think, most people do have a kinkier side. Not that I think anal is so kinky, but it is a bit taboo and undoubtedly naughty! For most people, it seems as though anal is kind of the "limit" for pushing their sexuality. That is... it's degree of kinkiness is the highest many are willing to consider. This might either be because it is simply the most risque sex they could possibly be turned on by or because something even more so is something they might fear having judgment passed on them for. Take porn, for example. Damn near every mainstream scene these days involves anal at some point. It's just not a big deal to see it on screen anymore. Likewise, anything more (like BDSM, cuckolding, fisting, etc.) is very specific. Although there is an abundance of porn containing these practices, it is almost always labeled as some sort of fetish.

For those who are very in touch with their body and have taken the time to properly learn how to have anal sex/stimulation, it has become more commonplace because both men and women can receive not just intense physical pleasure, but emotional as well. At least for me, that certain level of trust I must allow my partner when taking control of that part of my body in such an intimate way carries a need for a deeper connection than just purely physical. Not that I can't have a discreet, loveless one night stand with a man or woman that involves me (or them) being anally penetrated , but I am selective about with whom I am willing to experience anal with. I try to get a feel for just how in touch he or she is with their sexuality through conversation and even through foreplay before I let it happen. Granted, some people aren't this way but that's just me.

For those who are not so in touch with their body and sexuality, I have learned that these people are usually not yet capable of deriving the same pleasure from any kind of sex... especially anal and more. Even when it comes to "conventional sex", these people may say they love sex and might even be great lovers, but they are still limited as to their potential for something they might very well find unbelievably pleasurable but are not ready to experience. They might not ever be ready to experience these things because not everyone is willing to understand how to allow themselves to forget the "norms" and be sexually adventurous. Not everyone is willing to allow themselves to just do what feels good physically and emotionally.

 

[homunculus]

don't get it

I don't have sexual sensations in my rectum or my anus. There are sensations, but they aren't at all the same as sexual sensations. And anal sex is dirty in the direct sense--one poops from the anus, obviously. I liked the naughtiness of the act the few times I participated one way or another, but isn't anal sex in a way conceding the 'sex is bad and dirty' stuff to the christian fascists? Isn't that turn-on really just playing into their messed up nonsense... Maybe a liberated approach is to take back hetero pleasure from those who want to return sex to guilt and furtiveness and self-loathing (all those refs. in Lit to 'cleaning up' cum from a woman's tits by licking it off, and clinical refs. to 'precum' -- what in the world is sexy about that term?)... I mean, 'ram' and 'stuff' your lovers' bottoms all you like, but, I don't know, would you really want to caress an anus?

 

[WestMich69]

rbone04......................Amen

 

[nitoc88]

I have never had another person take me in the ass, but I really want it. Would love a woman with a strap on to do me. I have used a dildo and some other items before. It felt incredible. Now I want another person to do me as I love to have my ass played with.

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

I don't have sexual sensations in my rectum or my anus. There are sensations, but they aren't at all the same as sexual sensations.

It probably comes down to personal wiring. I *do* experience sexual sensation from my anus. In my rectum, it's more of a, less acute, but very satisfying, sense of being filled and slightly stretched. But very much each to their own - and my pleasure may derive from the psychology of it. I can certainly see why it doesn't work for everyone.

And anal sex is dirty in the direct sense--one poops from the anus, obviously. I liked the naughtiness of the act the few times I participated one way or another, but isn't anal sex in a way conceding the 'sex is bad and dirty' stuff to the christian fascists?

Depends on what you're into. Yes, poo comes out of our anuses, and anal sex can *sometimes* be a bit smelly and icky. That's not part of the appeal for me, and it's surprisingly clean most of the time - which I actually prefer. It's more a caveat that the incentive.

I mean, 'ram' and 'stuff' your lovers' bottoms all you like, but, I don't know, would you really want to caress an anus?

Again, that's down to personal taste. I prefer anal sex to be slow, gentle, tender, and loving: I'm not in to force or aggression - and I don't think I'm alone. For me there's something very positive and empowering for both partners, a symbol of love - that you're prepared to share and enjoy each other's bodies in their sexual entirety.

 

[GaySage]

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[Eager2TRYRU]

I was always surprised by the number of women I've been with that have been interested in anal. It's a topic that I never bring up first, but in the process of getting to know someone sexually, exploring your partner's body... every woman (except for one) has expressed a strong desire for anal sex. The only woman who didn't told me about a bad experience with a previous boyfriend so... that was certainly understandable.

I was never interested in having attention paid to my ass until recently, when I started to wonder why all of the women I've been with has asked... and some even begged... for anal sex. At first I agreed to my wife's finger... then she used a vibrator around the outside of my anus, eventually stuck the head in (which lead to a gusher of an orgasm for me) and we eventually graduated to her using a strapon vibrator on me on a regular basis. For me it was a natural progression of exploring our sexuality together and finding new activities that provide us both with pleasure.

 

[homunculus]

Good

The joke when Clinton denied that Monica L's giving him blowjobs was sex was that maybe she was doing it wrong. Could be that way with me and anal sex. So maybe I have something to look forward to... But, here's the interesting thing-- no woman has EVER begged me for anal sex, or requested it, or even brought it up except as a joke or tease... I have had anal sex with a few women and one said she thought it was good and she wouldn't mind from time to time. That's all--not that she loved it or anything of the sort. What's interesting, even more interesting than the fantasy of women begging to have their bums fucked, is the desire to blurt out this fantasy on the internet. And so many extravagant, clearly not so true fantasies are bandied about on Lit... It's like so many people are looking for an atom bomb of raunchy to the max confession--licking another man's cum from the wife's ass sort of thing-- and why? Why not confess love? Longing. Maybe even boredom or frustration...

 

[Bill3250]

When I went in to awaken Jena this morning she was lying face down, uncovered and naked, her firm young ass a temptation for a dirty old man like me. I crept onto the bed and gently parted the cheeks of her ass to gaze at the cutest little anus imaginable. I leaned toward it. I exhaled a soft breath over it. She awoke. She raised her ass toward me. I tickled her anus with the tip of my tongue. She purred, then uttered a tiny "Oh!" as my tongue pressed at her tight ring.

As usual, the illicit nature of tonguing an asshole had my cock throbbing with excitement. I reached into the drawer of the nightstand for the ever present tube of lube and applied it to my rock hard cock and Jena's ass, working one finger, then two, and finally a third finger into her. I was tempted to fist her, but the demand of my cock was too insistent. I removed my fingers and pressed the knob of my cock to her anus until her sphincter relaxed and my cockhead popped inside, then with a slow, steady pressure, I inched my entire cock into Jena's asshole.

All the time my cock was pushing to her, Jena was sighing softly. When it was fully buried in her ass, she whispered: "Fuck me! Fuck me hard!" I did. But my first few thrusts were gentle. Then I started to pile drive my cock deep into her ass, driving into her and then withdrawing slowly. It was the way she liked it, and also the way I wanted to take her, but it got me too hot, too soon, and Jena had barely begun to come when my cum started to spurt into the darkness of her ass.

When I had finished coming and I had pulled out and had rolled onto my back, Jena crept over me, her knees on either side of my head. As she lowered her pussy to my lips and tongue, she took my cock into her mouth and sucked me clean.

Bill

 

[bi200069]

I was talking to my friend Hayden the other day on the phone. He's a gay man living with his boyfriend outside the U.S. We started discussing our sex lives and he couldn't believe that I, a woman, liked anal sex !!!


He wondered what I got out of it, since I had no prostate to stimulate. I told him that I loved the feeling of being penetrated, of feeling full and also, sweet surrender to the man I love.


Apparently, Hayden and I had similar tastes.


All over the world, men and women seem to be discovering their back doors.


Some men are asking their girlfriends to "give up the booty".


A few women are debating how to ask their boyfriends to try "strap on play".


What a world !


Why is anal sex so damn popular ?

Why is anal so popular? Us men love the way an ass grips the cock with its double ring......so hot and tight. There seems to be no difference between a male and a female ass.
As for receiving it, I love being stretched and filled and the way his cock throbs when he cums in me. I sometimes get soft with a cock or dildo in me but I get hard again right away.

 

[tenderpood]

Anal, Oh Yeah!

I love anal sex! The awesome feeling as another guy enters me is breathtaking!! I always have the most intense orgasms ever when another guy is fucking me! I use to stroke myself while taking it up the ass, but not anymore, the orgasms are longer, and so, so intense if I just keep my hands on the bed, or on his chest depending on the position we're in.

 

[EbonyGoddess1987]

i like anal sex just fine.

 

[Elisabetha]

Well, I love anal sex. It took me some years of regular sex to get interested in it, and to gather the nerve to ask him for it. Then we had some trouble getting it to work. But when it finally worked WOW. However, as he is not really into it I don't get a lot of it. It just isn't a big turn on for him.
I have recently tried to do him with my fingers, and he liked the feeling, but not so much that he wants me to do it often. Which is a shame really.

 

[GaySage]

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[valeriuscatullus]

For me there is no sensation more amazing than anal sex. Giving or receiving. I love both! I started off taking it and later learned that I loved giving it as well. I thought I was gay when I was younger and transitioned to bisexual after a female friend convinced me to try anal with her in college. there is no other way to so completely give yourself to a lover. And to this day I enjoy doing girls anally FAR more than I enjoy pussy. In fact, I'd love to fsomeday find a girl who prefers it in the ass so we could do it all the time.

 

[smooth-boy]

That's exactly the type of girl I'm looking for; and Dominant.

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

And to this day I enjoy doing girls anally FAR more than I enjoy pussy. In fact, I'd love to fsomeday find a girl who prefers it in the ass so we could do it all the time.

When I was younger, and slept with men - looking back, I think I always preferred anal sex to vaginal. Even today, I still have phases when I want anal more than anything else. It's just an integral part of my sexuality. For me, my anus is a sexual organ.

It's interesting that you much prefer taking women anally than vaginally - can you put into words why that might be?

 

[SirLeo]

When I was younger, and slept with men - looking back, I think I always preferred anal sex to vaginal. Even today, I still have phases when I want anal more than anything else. It's just an integral part of my sexuality. For me, my anus is a sexual organ.

It's interesting that you much prefer taking women anally than vaginally - can you put into words why that might be?

Waiting to hear his response....... hehe