Does jealousy turn you on?

[alice_underneath]

God knows, I'm too fucking dizzy these days to remember a Byzantine web of lies which I was raised to tell.

OK, that me laugh so hard that my dog jumped up in alarm!

How classic - I know exactly what you mean!

 

[FurryFury]

OK, that me laugh so hard that my dog jumped up in alarm!

How classic - I know exactly what you mean!

LOL!

I'm glad someone does.

*hug*

Seriously though if I turn my head too fast, my vision swims. It's like being on morphine almost only I'm not itching and I'm a little more grounded, just a touch.

Fury

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

LOL - true!

Yes Alice will you stop worrying dammit !!! Your making me nervous and that means I must drink Champagne ............and its only 11.12am and thats bad ........laughs

 

[Caitlynne]

He is not a fan of jealousy, and will not tolerate it past a certain point, most often that being unreasonable jealousy. Perhaps why he can tolerate a smidgen at times, and even finds it attractive at those times is because he has also felt it himself and knows its power in the moment. When we first started he said he absolutely would not tolerate it and that it was a bad thing...the usual message..but as we have grown individually and as a couple we have been able to acknowledge and deal with it through honesty, realism, and talking about it, why it exists, if there is foundation for it, and what we can do together to remove it. It doesn't happen often, but when it does it is not my problem or his problem, it is our problem and we both deal with it together. Helps tremendously knowing each of us can not bear the thought of life without the other, and with the exception of death will not allow it to be a possibility.

Catalina

Yes, this would be the best case scenario from my POV as well. Jealousy is not a good thing in a relationship, it implies that trust issues exist, but upon occasion, it can be triggered. Communication to clear the air, learn, etc.. is a good and useful tool in my opinion.

 

[DVS]

Welcome back...long time, no see!!

Catalina

Look! She's a virgin, again! I didn't iknow that was possible.

As for jealousy? Is that as in your woman liking another guy and making you jealous or you lilking another woman and making your's jealous? Or, just jealousy in general?

Well, the only way I can see it even being close to erotic (and that's a stretch) is when my woman is jealous of me liking another woman. But, I like to look and that's just going to happen. But, when she's being the submissive I crave, that's all I do is look. I take all of my deviousness home to her.

Now, if it's her looking at another guy...I don't mind. I guess I don't get jealous as long as she only looks. The same as with me...as long as she comes home to me for her beatings, she can look all she wants.

Now, jealousy in general? I think it's kind of over rated. It's something I don't care for in a mate and if I see it in my sub and I know it's not necessary for her to be jealous, she might get some extra smacks on the ass, later on.

Oh, I guess it's cute and all that she is guarding her property, so to speak, but if she gets overly upset about me looking, or another woman looking at me...I don't find that erotic at all, and I might see if I can beat it out of her. I subscribe to the idea that everybody can look all they want. It's the touching that is a no-no.

 

[Slutacus]

Now, if it's her looking at another guy...I don't mind.

What about if the aliens abducted her and gave her an anal probe? Would you be jealous of them?

 

[FurryFury]

Not even a hug or trailing finger tips on an arm while talking???

Fury

 

[DVS]

Jealousy isn't a turn-on, ever. Long ago, i got jealous of the individuals with wives that drifted in here looking for a way to get their clueless husbands to put their burners on high. Now, i just laugh at them for not getting past igniting the pilot light.

The only person for whom i hold any jealousy can be found here.

Woo Hoo! Now THAT'S how to fuck somebody in the ass! Well the only thiing I mght change would be to put her body over something so she doesn't bounce up and down so. Then, there's less wear and tear on my back and I have a lot more control over how deep and how hard things....happen.

but, all in all, that's a VERY nice little video. I'd like to see her face duing that,

 

[DVS]

What about if the aliens abducted her and gave her an anal probe? Would you be jealous of them?

You mean the Mexicans?

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I find that a lot of negative emotions can serve as aphrodisiacs for me, jealousy being a prime culprit.

Anyone else experience this?

I find that only words with vowels in them turn me on.

Oh my look at all the vowels in "negative emotions."

 

[Slutacus]

You mean the Mexicans?

No, no, NO! As in bug-eyed Quints.

 

[alice_underneath]

Yes Alice will you stop worrying dammit !!! Your making me nervous and that means I must drink Champagne ............and its only 11.12am and thats bad ........laughs

Champagne.... mmmm.... ooooo....

Of course.... my sister recently introduced me to sparkling Burgundy from Australia.....

Dry, of course....

mmmmmm

apologies for the brief hijack, Marquis

 

[Black666kitten]

=)

yes

 

[graceanne]

Know what I don't get? Women who get pissy when their SO's mention their ex's. That's just ridiculous. K, when we first got married, would NOT talk about his ex's. He eventually figured out I could care less.

Another thing I don't get is women who get mad if they see their guy looking at a pretty chick. I caught my ex boyfriend look, briefly, at this really pretty chick. I asked him about it and he lied. I rolled my eyes and shrugged and said 'just cause we're dating doesn't mean you don't have eyes. She's really pretty.' He was shocked. Me and K had a similar discussion, and he's now relaxed. I mean I'd be pissed if he was staring, but just noticing doesn't bother me at all.

 

[FurryFury]

Yeah, we tend to talk together about the chick's we see, particularly the ones we'd both like to fuck. I've always done that talk with my bf's even when I didn't realize I wanted to fuck em.

What I do dislike is who his Mom brings up the only ex gf she knows about. LOL! I know it's no thang but she seems to think it's worth bringing up. Of course she is one of those who has lived the same place all her life and loves to talk about everyone she knows, most of whom I don't. From the sounds of it I don't want to know them. LOL. I have a whole different perspective having moved around so much.

Fury

 

[DVS]

No, no, NO! As in bug-eyed Quints.

OH, you mean Canadians!

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Was that DVS?!?

Nah, i think DVS has the equivalent of "the Club" if i'm not mistaken.

Woo Hoo! Now THAT'S how to fuck somebody in the ass! Well the only thiing I mght change would be to put her body over something so she doesn't bounce up and down so.

Ahh, but therein lies the point. Watch how her legs continue spreading until he's frog fucking her into the mattress. Imagine the stretching/retracting going on in her pelvic muscles/tendons as she takes that relentless pile driving fuck. We're talking anal pain, pelvic pain, grinding her into dust pain. i realize some like hard fucking, and some like ass fucking, but when you can combine the two like this, and then get that rooting to the bowels of her soul endurance response the model provided ... ahh.

Then, there's less wear and tear on my back

Stretching might provide interesting foreplay.

and I have a lot more control over how deep and how hard things....happen.

i'll check to see if i have the rest of the clips from this. The couple actually start off rather slow and loving. What you're seeing here is the "chase, climax, denoument" i believe.

I'd like to see her face duing that,

And why they make those free standing mirrors that tilt. i have one in my bedroom. Put it in front of you both during and she gets to see the look on your face as well, which just might make the whole shebang a trifecta win.

 

[FurryFury]

Woo Hoo! Now THAT'S how to fuck somebody in the ass! Well the only thiing I mght change would be to put her body over something so she doesn't bounce up and down so. Then, there's less wear and tear on my back and I have a lot more control over how deep and how hard things....happen.

but, all in all, that's a VERY nice little video. I'd like to see her face duing that,

That's what my husband said, the face thing.

You know what I don't get? How come I fuck him so much better when I'm sick? What's up with that?

Fury

 

[catalina_francisco]

Know what I don't get? Women who get pissy when their SO's mention their ex's. That's just ridiculous.

LOL, I agree. Sheeesh his ex is still sending e cards and the occasional email after all this time...of course she addresses them to both of us though I think perhaps she is waiting for things to go bust with us so she can try to get him back as that was how the recontact started before she knew I existed. He was mean and sent her a link to our neglected website which has some explicit pics on..maybe because we have been neglecting it she thinks perhaps we are finished already. I did email her and tell her we could chat online but she never shows up on my screen.

Catalina

 

[shy slave]

Know what I don't get? Women who get pissy when their SO's mention their ex's. That's just ridiculous. K, when we first got married, would NOT talk about his ex's. He eventually figured out I could care less.

Another thing I don't get is women who get mad if they see their guy looking at a pretty chick. I caught my ex boyfriend look, briefly, at this really pretty chick. I asked him about it and he lied. I rolled my eyes and shrugged and said 'just cause we're dating doesn't mean you don't have eyes. She's really pretty.' He was shocked. Me and K had a similar discussion, and he's now relaxed. I mean I'd be pissed if he was staring, but just noticing doesn't bother me at all.

Well I am not so bad, i don't get jealous about ex's and never had that type of mentality.

Atfter all they are 'ex' right.

I also work on the premise that we often choose similiar types of people. I liked all my ex husbands ex partners (except one, who had her head far up her own ass), after all he chooses nice people to be with, therefore i must be ok too. A strange logic but it makes a warped sort of sense to me.

In Andantes case we met after his wife died. What kind of person would I be if I struggled when he talked about her & missed her? How can you be jealous of somone who is no longer living yet loved him, as he did her?
I would worry alot more if he didnt talk about her or miss her.

As for him looking at other women, no that doesn't bring out jealousy in me either. He can't help but look at womens asses as the wiggle past
I was driving one day and he was clearly watching three women on the other side of the road. My eldest son suddenly realised and blurted out 'Are you looking at those birds??' His reply 'Yep' I almost wet myself laughing. I am glad he is not discreet or furtive about his watching and admiring, after all its only looking.

My jealousy comes from a complex mix of conversations and very close friendships he has with women, whom I don't know. But it is lessening.

 

[Quint]

OH, you mean Canadians!

*sob* What have I ever done to YOU?!

As to the original question, jealousy is a conditional aphrodisiac. T is very rarely jealous, but if it manifests itself in the way of glowering, beating his chest sort of possession, then yes indeed it turns me on. However, retreating inward and brooding sullenly is just likely to exasperate me.

The reverse is kind of true as well. I found recently that although I have very, very rarely been jealous of T's lust for other women, I almost went nuts the other day when we were dog-sitting and he was giving the bitch commands and telling her "Good girl!" when she did them right. It sure made me want to prove how much better I could obey, which was actually quite a turn-on as well.

 

[landcruisergal]

Don't do jealousy. I think it is damaging to my self esteem. Its something out of my control anyway. I see it as a waste of energy.
My bestest friend in high school offerred herself to and fucked my then b/f in front of me..I was mildly annoyed but we competed at everything. I would have been as irritated if she got a better mark in the math exam..
I was bridesmaid at her wedding and am godmother to her daughter.
She even tried to seduce my husband, lol, some years later ( and he was an even worse lover,I think he was intimidated by her. )
I didn't fancy hers at all so didn't bother.

We are still best friends and they are all long gone.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Know what I don't get? Women who get pissy when their SO's mention their ex's. That's just ridiculous. K, when we first got married, would NOT talk about his ex's. He eventually figured out I could care less.

Another thing I don't get is women who get mad if they see their guy looking at a pretty chick. I caught my ex boyfriend look, briefly, at this really pretty chick. I asked him about it and he lied. I rolled my eyes and shrugged and said 'just cause we're dating doesn't mean you don't have eyes. She's really pretty.' He was shocked. Me and K had a similar discussion, and he's now relaxed. I mean I'd be pissed if he was staring, but just noticing doesn't bother me at all.

Both stunts get quick slapdown.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

You know what I don't get? How come I fuck him so much better when I'm sick? What's up with that?

Fury

 

[graceanne]

My jealousy comes from a complex mix of conversations and very close friendships he has with women, whom I don't know. But it is lessening.

*hugs* I understand. As I've said elsewhere K cheated on me. We established boundaries since then, and if I thought he was developing a relationship with another woman I'd be upset.

But in your case, he obviously still wants to sleep with you. And I'm a big believer of not punishing one man for another's crimes. But I'll be you tell yourself all that all the time. It's probably easier to say than to do. lol So far it's not an issue with me, I'm not punishing him for another man's crimes. If something (God forbid) happened to him, and I got in another relationship, I bet I'd be where you are.