Does weight really matter to you?

[Guest]

i wanted to see how many people love big women as every now and then someone comes along and feels the need to create a thread solely for the purpose of saying they don't like fat women.

so, what it comes down to is this.......does the weight of the person really matter?

 

[rcfstl]

i wanted to see how many people love big women as every now and then someone comes along and feels the need to create a thread solely for the purpose of saying they don't like fat women.

so, what it comes down to is this.......does the weight of the person really matter?

sexy is sexy

 

[Guest]

sexy is sexy

thank you

 

[rcfstl]

thank you

you are welcome....

 

[Guest]

you are welcome....

 

[Guest]

bumping this up for others....

 

[DrunkenSatyr]

It's All Tude and how you Carry yourself!!

 

[itsanalias1000]

sexy is sexy

Would agree with that, sexy has very little to do with weight.

 

[Guest]

It's All Tude and how you Carry yourself!!

very much so

 

[wild_0ne]

true beauty is seen with the heart not with your eyes....all woman are beautiful if you know how to open the eyes in your heart

 

[Guest]

true beauty is seen with the heart not with your eyes....all woman are beautiful if you know how to open the eyes in your heart

that is a very true and nice comment

 

[BadBombshellBabe]

i've always carried a few extra pounds on my butt...and although it's never affected how sexy i feel, i noticed that society was more rejective when i was at my heaviest (after having a baby).

when i'm not looking in the mirror, i feel sexy and fantastic. i forget that the general consensus is that i should be thinner...and i wish i was.

so for me personally, weight matters...although it doesn't define or create who's sexy and who isn't. sexy is a state of mind.

 

[Guest]

i've always carried a few extra pounds on my butt...and although it's never affected how sexy i feel, i noticed that society was more rejective when i was at my heaviest (after having a baby).

when i'm not looking in the mirror, i feel sexy and fantastic. i forget that the general consensus is that i should be thinner...and i wish i was.

so for me personally, weight matters...although it doesn't define or create who's sexy and who isn't. sexy is a state of mind.

thank you for your post

 

[whspr]

My weight matters to me...and to a few men I've ran across. Some men don't even want to get to know you if you are heavy. On the other hand, I've had several men tell me that they find me very sexy. The bad thing is...when I'm heavy I don't feel sexy. Now that I'm losing weight...I have several men paying attention but if they couldn't get to know me before...then they don't need to know me now.

 

[Guest]

thanks for your post

 

[Guest]

Yes my weight matters to me and I am seriously dieting at the moment but not allowing that to rule my life.

My self confidence has always been pretty low and hearing nasty comments made about yourself never helps. But along came my Am-Pic thread and alot of that changed. We have a graffiti wall at home and in a drunken low mood some months ago I wrote "I want to be slim and sexy by the time I am 40". The next day I crossed out slim and wrote "damn it I AM sexy already". Last Friday night I was at a friend's 40th birthday party, dressed up and feeling great when some stupid little twat aged about 13 said "look at the arse on that!" I so wanted to turn round and point out just how many people love to do, in all it's naked glory on the world wide web!!!!!!!!

That is what my am-pics thread has done for me. As for the trolls on the GB that pick on us Big Beautiful Women, they aren't worth shit!!

 

[Guest]

Yes my weight matters to me and I am seriously dieting at the moment but not allowing that to rule my life.

My self confidence has always been pretty low and hearing nasty comments made about yourself never helps. But along came my Am-Pic thread and alot of that changed. We have a graffiti wall at home and in a drunken low mood some months ago I wrote "I want to be slim and sexy by the time I am 40". The next day I crossed out slim and wrote "damn it I AM sexy already". Last Friday night I was at a friend's 40th birthday party, dressed up and feeling great when some stupid little twat aged about 13 said "look at the arse on that!" I so wanted to turn round and point out just how many people love to do, in all it's naked glory on the world wide web!!!!!!!!

That is what my am-pics thread has done for me. As for the trolls on the GB that pick on us Big Beautiful Women, they aren't worth shit!!

thanks for sharing

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

i wanted to see how many people love big women as every now and then someone comes along and feels the need to create a thread solely for the purpose of saying they don't like fat women.

so, what it comes down to is this.......does the weight of the person really matter?

I would hope weight wouldn't be the issue as much as how it is distributed. Even that is in the eye of the beholder as they say. Before dieting and other crap royalty was hefty and that showed that they had status. They could afford to be curvy and didn't have to starve. Funny how things have changed.

I would hope how someone treats others would be higher on the list than what someone weighs.

 

[Guest]

I would hope weight wouldn't be the issue as much as how it is distributed. Even that is in the eye of the beholder as they say. Before dieting and other crap royalty was hefty and that showed that they had status. They could afford to be curvy and didn't have to starve. Funny how things have changed.

I would hope how someone treats others would be higher on the list than what someone weighs.

you'd think so but not on Lit. people always feel the need to make threads about what they don't like about someones looks....and sometimes their attitude.

for me...weight is not important neither are looks. if you'd seen some of my boyfriends, that would give you some indication.

 

[pink]

This is kind of a tricky question. my weight matters to me, sometimes more then others. i would love to lose a few pounds but i still feel my own sex appeal very strongly. As to whether others feel it and are open to it i can't say. They certainly seem to beable to sense it on the board.

Sex appeal comes in all different shapes and sizes, not just beauty.

 

[Guest]

This is kind of a tricky question. my weight matters to me, sometimes more then others. i would love to lose a few pounds but i still feel my own sex appeal very strongly. As to whether others feel it and are open to it i can't say. They certainly seem to beable to sense it on the board.

Sex appeal comes in all different shapes and sizes, not just beauty.

thanks for your post beautiful

 

[babydoll_73]

I can honestly say that other people's weight does not matter to me. I am a big girl. Bigger than I would like to be. I know how cruel people can be. Men don't want anything to do with you when you are big. The ones that do want anything to do with me are not my type at all. Too old, or just plain creepy. I hang around people of all different sizes. I really wish that people would stop judging each other on weight and appearance. The guy that I like right now is a beanpole and he likes his skinny girls. It pisses me off because most (not all) of the ones he meets are fake. He tells me that I have a great personallity but that I am not his "type". Which I know means that I am not skinny. God this sucks. My weight matters to me and that is why I am doing my damndest to lose a shit load of it.

 

[liv2lik]

its true! sexy is sexy. I've dated fat women and thin women and all in between. Good times are not measured by the pound. That being said, I seriously lust after women who are curvy in the right places.

 

[justme1059]

Yes weight matters unfortunately. A great personality goes a long way, but in my case as well as many other women, men love having sex with a passionate bigger woman, but its hard to find someone to date and commit to you if are not of a certain weight or look.

I am losing weight but only to be fit. At this stage of life, if men don't want me for the person I am, its their loss. Sure I get lonely but hey we all age, and none of us is going to look young and skinny for the rest of their lives.

I once told a guy recently that he should stop looking for just petite girls, cuz a lot of them are bitchy and once he is married and settled down most will end up not so petite anymore. He would do better with someone that was sweet and fat, at least he wouldnt end up with a fat bitchy woman, he would end up with a sweet one....

And please, I know there are wonderful girls and women out there that are petite, small, etc. that are wonderful. My sister happens to be one of them. Just stating an opinion about my experiences with men and people in general...

 

[ZombieMaster]

I'd have to say weight matters to a point. I've never really dated a big girls, but had one-nighters with a few fluffy chicks. As far as lust goes, there are a few things more important to me than a woman's weight.

1) Nice hair. In high school I had a crush on a girl in my class that would probably be considered big compared to the rest of the teenage beanpole girls. Her body didn't even figure into my crush, it was her long beautiful blonde hair that had me staring at her all through English class.

2) Nice skin. That same blonde that had me staring all through class also had beautiful milky white porcelain skin like many big beautiful divas. I always wondered how sweet she must have tasted.

3) Nice smell. Somewhere inbetween too much perfume and the smell of irish spring is that womanly smell that lingers in the air when she walks by. A mild aromatic perfume is an instant prick hardener.

4) A brain. If she wears glasses even better. I like the conservative librarian or accountant types, because if you can get them to open up, they can get pretty wild.

Although I'm not as shallow about weight as some men, I do have limits. Being too heavy is not healthy, and someone who has too much extra padding wouldn't be able to keep up with some of my hobbies. Not that I'm athletic or anything, but a romantic walk is not very romantic when your partner has to stop every 2 minutes for a 5 minute break. It's also difficult to commit to someone who is too overweight when you think about the medical trainwreck they are liable to become in the future.