Does weight really matter to you?

[virgin_not]

Yes..in deed it matters to me.Im lucky that Im not really gaining that much,its not in our genes. If ever I'm gaining just a couple punds only. My weight is ranging from 110 -125 lbs only and I dont lose that mich also..my lowets is 100 lbs With my man,I don't want my man to be fat with big tummy as well.I preferred my man just a standard weight with sexy muscles and body posture

 

[higherlevel4u]

It matters to me, unfortunately .... I've always been fairly slim and reasonably well-toned, but I have to work at it .... it doesn't come naturally!

I cannot understand how anyone who is grossly overweight can say they are "happy" with the way they look .... if they say they are, then I'm afraid I would say they are lying to themselves ..... if they could snap their fingers and suddenly become slim and attractive, you think they wouldn't?

Unfortunately it's not as easy as that .... and that is of course what prevents a lot of people doing it .... it takes willpower and effort, as well as changing their lifestyle .... NOT easy to do ....

Okay, off the soapbox, Higher ....

But you did ask ....

 

[hotsxylady]

Difficult question to answer with a simple yes or no. I am slim have always been slim I have to work at it though and the older one gets the more work it takes because being over weight would affect my self confidence. However several of my partners have been a little over weight and it honestly doesn't bother me. Physical attractiveness is important but sex appeal isnt just about size. Personality sense of humour intelligence are on my part more important and make everyone unique in their own way.

 

[Guest]

I can honestly say that other people's weight does not matter to me. I am a big girl. Bigger than I would like to be. I know how cruel people can be. Men don't want anything to do with you when you are big. The ones that do want anything to do with me are not my type at all. Too old, or just plain creepy. I hang around people of all different sizes. I really wish that people would stop judging each other on weight and appearance. The guy that I like right now is a beanpole and he likes his skinny girls. It pisses me off because most (not all) of the ones he meets are fake. He tells me that I have a great personallity but that I am not his "type". Which I know means that I am not skinny. God this sucks. My weight matters to me and that is why I am doing my damndest to lose a shit load of it.

thank you so much for your post

 

[Guest]

thank you all for you posts.

 

[thump]

Weight does not matter to me, there are alot of things that makes a lady sexy and how much they weigh is not one of them. I have been with slim ladies that looked very nice, but their pussies smelled like ashtrays. That is not sexy!

 

[ForeverHisAngel]

Weight is not really a factor. Its who they are inside that counts. I am larger than I want to be. My fiancee is a skinny thing. But it doesn't bother him that I am bigger than he is. Although I am loosing the weight, I am doing so for my own health. And I feel better about myself.

 

[sxylilslut]

I voted other. It depends; if she's sickly thin or overly obese, then yes. And not because I would be less attracted to her but because I would be worried about her health. And it surprises me everytime someone asks if weight matters people automatically assume "too fat"; but isn't there a "too thin" too? When I see her rib cage or her hip bone, sorry but it turns me off.

 

[MrFantasyMan]

Weight doesn't matter!...It seems to me that almost all the women think they are too big...or to something...extremes are one thing but the person you are isn't defined by how much you weigh...I can accept who you are...now if you lie about it...that's another story...

 

[BeachGurl2]

I've looked at this thread several times and finally decided to speak up. I voted maybe. I'll admit it. I'm shallow about that. But my perspective has more to do with health and activity than just shallowness. Like Higher, I like being active. I have about 10 extra pounds myself right now - which I'm working at getting back off, but they don't keep me from being active. I'm 5'2" and petite, so even 5-10 extra pounds makes a big difference to me. I like a man who is equally active - not someone who sits on the sofa watching football and drinking beer all weekend. But at the same time, I know that men in my age group - like women in my age group - have a harder time keeping as in shape as they did when they were younger. So a few extra pounds won't turn me off, as long as he's active.

 

[Guest]

at least you are being honest as to what you like and look for......most say they look for someone who's in shape to keep up with them and so, i don't believe thats being shallow.

what is shallow is saying cruel and hurtful things to someone based on what they look like without finding out who they truly are.

 

[Valia]

no weight it does not matter ...

most people complain how much been tease about the weight cuz are over weight but its everywhere no matter how much u have u can be over or under weight ...

i am thin and used to be even more and i have heard so many bad things about my self i came to even hate myself a lot anyway to make this story short is no matter what u are if u love yourself the way u are am sure are many that will like how u are...

but be over weight and under weight not good for your health so u need to worry about this not about looks ..

 

[Emes]

I, like Blue, have suffered from low self esteem for a very long time. Now, thanks to Master and the lovely comments made by others on His pic thread of me, i am beginning to accept that, while i may not be perfect, i am me, Yes i could change a few things but i will not just to either please others or so that people call me as 'normal'.


Size to me doesnt matter....what matters is the person inside. I have met some arrogant, horrible skinny people and some lovely larger people. Inner beauty is much more important to me than what size a person is.