Does your spouse know?

[Tasha7]

Does yours?

He knows I'm on Lit, but he doesn't know about the conversations I have.

 

[pointless]

cucumbers have spikes on them. i have to believe that's on purpose.

 

[Fala]

olives are a bitch to harvest, because of the thorns, but that's what prevents the deer from getting them. a perimeter of olives might anchor a fenced hops field. i've been through hops fields in austria. they grew them up wire attached to poles. so beautiful. the vines seem to go on forever. easily 20-30'. i pass through the hill country several times a year. we will have to touch base.

OMG, I guarantee you that my husband would LOVE to meet you just as much as I would!

You've got me so excited Neci! I would totally love to meet you. Let me know if/when you are heading this way.

No need for hotel...you can stay here and I can take you out to the latest hippest/hottest places since you were last here!

 

[Tasha7]

Hmmm. A noob who's authored three naughty threads in only 21 posts?

I think someone recently discovered that it "feels good to touch yourself down there."

Haha...i was just wondering. Believe me...not new to masturbating

 

[Fala]

Nice irony in a thread about hiding illicit activities from your spouse

"Conferences" and 'Classes"

Oh poo on ya, Johnny! hahahaha. That sort of thing is NOT his style.

That is only a small attribute to the character he is that I wanted by my side for life.

 

[neci]

Oh! to add! the property we bought has a home on it...we mainly use it for our offices. It's only a half mile from our home...but out in the country on a really cool "off the beaten path" compound with only 5 homes.

Our next door neighbor there just notified us he is selling his place soon...we've sent notices to every place in the compound offering to buy their properties. He know's we're good for it and I expect that we will take over his place when he sells.

This compound is up on a hill over the Onion Creek. Otherwise, it's completely surrounded by land owned by a very wealthy woman who has vowed to leave her land to a conservatory. We are thrilled about that, obviously. It's beautiful open field that she runs her cows, goats and donkey's on. Beautiful land. Dotted heavily with pecan trees.

There are so many other awesome features to this place...but the best part is...it's totally hidden...only one road in/out. It's truly a "compound". Very private and out in the country.

that sounds amazing. i love private and country and compound. if she's growing pecans, you definitely have the water for hops or anything else you want to grow. those bad boys will drink up the water like no one's business, and for them to become established, they need moist land. talking of this reminds me i need to put in a fall seed order. i only have a little over an acre in a smaller town, but i am slowly trying to eradicate sticker burrs with native grasses and flowers. so far it's been a five year bust. i have new plan of attack for this year. it's going to cost just a little bit more, but if the reward is greater, it will be worth it.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

No need for hotel...you can stay here and I can take you out to the latest hippest/hottest places since you were last here!

Translation: I'm going to take you to my local swingers' club and slut your deliciously voluptuous ass out to be used as a whore for everyone's lust.

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[neci]

 

[doowdniw]

olives are a bitch to harvest, because of the thorns, but that's what prevents the deer from getting them.

It also takes about 15 years from planting to first harvest.

 

[Fala]

that sounds amazing. i love private and country and compound. if she's growing pecans, you definitely have the water for hops or anything else you want to grow. those bad boys will drink up the water like no one's business, and for them to become established, they need moist land. talking of this reminds me i need to put in a fall seed order. i only have a little over an acre in a smaller town, but i am slowly trying to eradicate sticker burrs with native grasses and flowers. so far it's been a five year bust. i have new plan of attack for this year. it's going to cost just a little bit more, but if the reward is greater, it will be worth it.

Neci, when we meet up, I am sure my husband can give advice on the sticker burrs. I'm serious...he's met with world renowned experts on pests, weeds, etc.

Hang onto your piece of heaven there a bit longer. It sounds lovely.

I can't wait to show you our place out here. I'm sure we have some of the same problems you have there and how we are dealing with them.

 

[Fala]

Translation: I'm going to take you to my local swingers' club and slut your deliciously voluptuous ass out to be used as a whore for everyone's lust.

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m7bzrhkGb51qavlkw.gif

Hah! Zumi!

No way....we're not into that.


...not since I fell from the chandelier and injured myself.

 

[neci]

i am openly verbal and personally prude.

there's also a knee injury, but that's legit.

 

[BiTodd]

I was married when I joined lit so long ago. I was married for 12 years and had 3 kids. I also thought I could handle what comes from posting here as a female.

I am no longer married to that person. So yea, I know a lot about this topic, thanks.

So do I. But I don't point fingers and make broad generalizations. When I quit smoking 17 years ago I promised myself not to be one of those vindictive ex smokers.

Granted many marriages are flawed and not everybody is in a secure spot where they can afford to rock the boat. I believe alot of mariages wind up having a discrepancy with the sexuality of both partners. One wants more the other wants less. And alot of partners do not feel comfortable sharing their fantasies when they know the rejection they will incur.

Great if a person is such a strong person that they can and will always level with their spouse whether it means they might break up a family and destroy their childrens lives.

I am now divorced. I tried to make it work but realized i couldn't ,but i also know that some couples that aren't always completly honest with each other ,still have a relationship that might be fulfilling in many other ways. Especially when family is involved.

I wish everyone could be happy and not so judgmental about the issues they are sensitive about.

 

[neci]

i have learned that when i want to suck dick, all i have to do is ask.

 

[Tasha7]

No, my husband does NOT know. He is very possessive of me. He would be shocked, mad and probably ultimately ashamed of some of the things I've posted on here. I've had what some would probably call a "checkered past" and I've confessed waaaay more on here about it than I ever have to my husband. But I don't feel like I'm hiding anything from him. He honestly doesn't want to know "everything" and has said many many times he loves me for who I am not who I was.

Yes, it is a bit of a thrill to have so many secret naughty friends. I've actually told him about some of the "friends" I've met on here as if I met them at work or like they're friends of other people I know. If we ever get to the point of wife swapping parties or anything like that I might eventually tell him about LIT, but until then this is my dirty little secret and I don't mind being judged about it.

I feel the same way. Because I'm on here doesn't mean I don't love him. It just brings out new ideas or experiences that I would normally not have.

 

[Misshotndeep]

So do I. But I don't point fingers and make broad generalizations. When I quit smoking 17 years ago I promised myself not to be one of those vindictive ex smokers.

Granted many marriages are flawed and not everybody is in a secure spot where they can afford to rock the boat. I believe alot of mariages wind up having a discrepancy with the sexuality of both partners. One wants more the other wants less. And alot of partners do not feel comfortable sharing their fantasies when they know the rejection they will incur.

Great if a person is such a strong person that they can and will always level with their spouse whether it means they might break up a family and destroy their childrens lives.

I am now divorced. I tried to make it work but realized i couldn't ,but i also know that some couples that aren't always completly honest with each other ,still have a relationship that might be fulfilling in many other ways. Especially when family is involved.

I wish everyone could be happy and not so judgmental about the issues they are sensitive about.