Don't find men attractive - but want cock !

[conntom2002]

Straight guy - I class myself as that as I dont find men attractive (in the least). But the thought of a cock pounding my virgin ass is a huge turn on, second only to sucking a cock dry.

Anyone else out there with (either currently or previously) with my dilemma ?

Would love to know the outcome - was it a phase that passed ? - Did you try and now are "converted" ?

If anyone will know the good people of the Lit. forum will know.

totally agree totally never acted on unless dildos count minus the butt stuff tho

 

[diver86]

I agree

This is a cool thread and a great topic! I love pussy, but the sight and feel of a hard cock gets me off everytime. I fantasize about eating pussy while getting done up my ass. I 'm hard now just reading these posts and thinking about it. I go to clubstroke chat and share my fantasies too.

 

[captain_rewind]

I am 19 and I fantasize about sucking cock and taking it in the ass all the time, sometimes I heat up sausages so they are warm and deepthroat them, trying to imagine what it's like. I get so hard I'm dripping with precum without even touching my cock!

I also like to use alot of lube and use anal toys, and wonder what it would be like with a real cock but I'm not attracted to guys either and the thought actually turns me off.

but I really want to take a big hard cock in my mouth and ass and suck it until it blows deep in my throat. Is that weird?

 

[Bi Curious guy]

I am bi curious and every time that I fantasize about sucking a big hard hairy cock I never have the face of my lover in mind. I don't look at men in real life in that way either. All my mm fantasies are from the waist down.

 

[Kryocide]

I don't get turned on by men at all, but do get turned on watching a girl suck a a cock or get gangbanged. My girlfriend experimented on me with a dildo, when I was about 17, and I enjoyed it a lot! I've experimented, alone, sucking a dildo while masturbating and found it just as satisfying as plain jacking off. I also discovered that dripping a little of my cum (not pre-cum) onto the dildo and sucking it somehow sends my mind into another world of sexual bliss. I love the taste of my cum! Wish my cock was long enough to reach my mouth without much effort, because I'd love to gulp a hot load down my throat. I'd probably never need anyone else again... I also noticed that gagging/choking on a dong and having it touch the back of my throat makes me insanely horny and makes me want to cram the whole thing down my throat. VERY strange! Enjoyable, but strange!

Yeah, anal sex feels great via a dong. Something about insertion/penetration is VERY pleasurable! I know I'll never have the real thing unless I find a truly beautiful-looking shemale, because a woman's body is just so incredibly arousing and sensual to me. Enjoy sex whichever way you can! If you really feel like you're missing something, cross over to the other side and try it. You might not be gay, but I imagine you might get addicted to warm, flesh and blood hardons in your ass and mouth. Be careful...

 

[DarkAurora]

I don't believe any guy is just attracted to cock and not men. I think they are still in partial denial about being bi or gay. I know this because I used to feel the same way when I was in the closet about being gay.

 

[VinnieMeatball]

I don't believe any guy is just attracted to cock and not men. I think they are still in partial denial about being bi or gay. I know this because I used to feel the same way when I was in the closet about being gay.

I don't want to judge anyone or generalize, but it was exactly the same for me. I always told myself I was not attracted to guys, just cock. It took awhile, but I realized that for me, at least, those two attractions were definitely not separate.

 

[conntom2002]

I don't want to judge anyone or generalize, but it was exactly the same for me. I always told myself I was not attracted to guys, just cock. It took awhile, but I realized that for me, at least, those two attractions were definitely not separate.

Are the two of you suggesting that everyone will folow the same path or have the same urges.

For some, I am sure your experiences would be similiar but I am convinced some are just what they cliam. Turned on by dick but looking to have a BF. Some of us LOVE girls and girl parts too much.

PS. I would think that generalizing about people would be something that gays would know best NOT to do

 

[Kryocide]

I don't believe any guy is just attracted to cock and not men. I think they are still in partial denial about being bi or gay. I know this because I used to feel the same way when I was in the closet about being gay.

Well, that's where you'd be wrong. To me, men are ugly and a turn off (not even an initial turn ON.) When I watch porn, if there's no woman, there's nothing happening that I care to see. I always hate those movies where they keep flipping back to the guy's face, when I'd rather see the woman's face.

I experimented with a boy when I was 13, and I physically puked when he kissed me (I was blackmailed into doing it by a 17-year-old). Also, I've tried watching a few gay porns (just so see if there was bi-potential in me), and all the clips totally repulsed me. In my case, no denial at all, just disgust for men (as romantic prospects.) The male body just does not turn me on. Just seeing a cock doesn't turn me on. Seeing a woman sucking a cock does. From her pleasure triggers my arousal.

Women rock my world!!!! My shallow theory is that I know how great it feels to see a woman pleasured, and I think I'm very curious to experience what sensations she's going through, so I want to try it (with her help or my own...) As for anal...hell, it just feels great, plus it allows me to understand what might also feel good when I do it to her! Sometimes I wish my girlfriend was a herm!

Whatever floats your boat. We are all the same yet very unique and individual in many ways. You shouldn't make such broad assumptions.

 

[VinnieMeatball]

Are the two of you suggesting that everyone will folow the same path or have the same urges.

For some, I am sure your experiences would be similiar but I am convinced some are just what they cliam. Turned on by dick but looking to have a BF. Some of us LOVE girls and girl parts too much.

PS. I would think that generalizing about people would be something that gays would know best NOT to do

No, I am absolutely not making that suggestion. In fact, I was very careful in my word choice to say it was that way for me as it was with the previous poster. Everyone is different, I know that. But from experience I also know that some of these people don't know it yet, but will probably end up following my path. Sorry if I offended anyone.

 

[none2_none2]

Well, that's where you'd be wrong. To me, men are ugly and a turn off (not even an initial turn ON.) When I watch porn, if there's no woman, there's nothing happening that I care to see. I always hate those movies where they keep flipping back to the guy's face, when I'd rather see the woman's face.

I experimented with a boy when I was 13, and I physically puked when he kissed me (I was blackmailed into doing it by a 17-year-old). Also, I've tried watching a few gay porns (just so see if there was bi-potential in me), and all the clips totally repulsed me. In my case, no denial at all, just disgust for men (as romantic prospects.) The male body just does not turn me on. Just seeing a cock doesn't turn me on. Seeing a woman sucking a cock does. From her pleasure triggers my arousal.

Women rock my world!!!! My shallow theory is that I know how great it feels to see a woman pleasured, and I think I'm very curious to experience what sensations she's going through, so I want to try it (with her help or my own...) As for anal...hell, it just feels great, plus it allows me to understand what might also feel good when I do it to her! Sometimes I wish my girlfriend was a herm!

Whatever floats your boat. We are all the same yet very unique and individual in many ways. You shouldn't make such broad assumptions.

Your comment about all the same yet very unique... is very true. In a small way we are the same. Seeing a cock doesn't turn me on at all. (If I look at one its out of penis envy on size or how far it can shoot.) Every where else we are polar opposits. I want to see the man's face or ass pleasuring someone or something. I don't care if its man, woman, or object. I want to see him craving to please others. Still few men turn me on. I want them hairy, muscular, manly and a few other things. If they aren't hairy, they better be even more muscular. I couldn't imagine not kissing a guy or not fucking one. If they don't like those things it would be like a str8 man complaining about being with a woman who was fridged. I may not have sex with women, but I don't consider any group of people UGLY. I just may find some people not sexually attractive. Some women actually turn me on; I guess I don't have a strong enough urge to make a big change.

No, I am absolutely not making that suggestion. In fact, I was very careful in my word choice to say it was that way for me as it was with the previous poster. Everyone is different, I know that. But from experience I also know that some of these people don't know it yet, but will probably end up following my path. Sorry if I offended anyone.

Vinnie, from my experiences with MANY gay married/bi men in the past, you really are correct at describing a good share of the guys. It's probably not true for all, but there is a lot of that out there that fit that description. I noticed it mostly with middle age men and older. From MY experiences, usually as the guys get older a lot of the extreme comments about what is gross and what they would never like tends to mellow out. Another difference with age, is your cock gets to where it gets hard from what really turns you on, not just from hormones screaming at you to get off doing anything. At that point if a male body does turn you on, or kissing a man turns you on, you aren't going to argue the point. Rather, you are going to embrase it and be thankful that there are still things out there that can get you really turgid as when you were younger.

 

[aconsenter]

Been there, done that. Have been with a handful of guys and their looks have to be decent, although that's not what turns me on. A couple of guys i play with kiss each other all the while we are fucking, but when they try and kiss me, I turn away.... One other guy i was with, while i enjoyed hugging him and kind of cuddling with him, he too tried to kiss me, no way.

It is all about the cock for me, for sure.

I fantasized about it for years and finally tried it and I love it, sex with men, that is. Oral for the first few years and then anal after finding the right guy(s). I wouldn't turn down a hard cock, but it is hard to find my type; married, average build and a little dominant. Usually I can find one a year to play with, although recently I went about 19 months without. It's okay as I still love to fuck my wife. Jacking off in the shower imagining sucking on a hard cock will usually cure my urge for a while.

 

[wantingitnow]

I agree with most of the posters here. I do not find men attractive but I want to try cock in my mouth and ass.
I fantasize sucking all the cock that I can then taking anel the same.
now where to find a guy for my first time

 

[drewan]

thats how i feel also.. I love cock..LOVE IT but dont want to have a guy. I want to meet a guy who just wants me to come over, suck him dry then maybe do my ass then after i get off i go home and we dont have to hang out, talk, be pals... I love the glory holes but i usualy end up inviting him into my boot because i love to run my hands up and down his legs and ass and grab his nuts and i love it when a guy grabs my hair while i suck him off.
drew.

 

[DarkAurora]

Are the two of you suggesting that everyone will folow the same path or have the same urges.

For some, I am sure your experiences would be similiar but I am convinced some are just what they cliam. Turned on by dick but looking to have a BF. Some of us LOVE girls and girl parts too much.

PS. I would think that generalizing about people would be something that gays would know best NOT to do

OK then, name me one woman who only likes pussy and doesn't find women attractive at all.

Generally in society, two women together is considered sexy but two men together is considered disgusting. They say they like just cock because really they don't want to be attracted to men because of the society stigma but thier hormones get the best of them.

 

[curious26TX]

interesting thread. I'm generally the same way. Not attracted to men at all but very curious what a woman goes through when sucking a cock. I know I would try it if certain things where to happen but I don't think they ever will. If I'm hanging out with a guy we would have to be either talking about it and him whip it out and I think I might try it. It would be way more comfortable if I were to meet a m/f couple and the woman would help me out. Hell I would even try it if I met a couple guys as long as there was another person there to help me out. But I don't think this is ever going to happen

 

[kitwinn]

im the same like to look at girls but when i see nude male with a hard cock i want him. Love to kiss him all over take his juices, when I was younger thought I was STR8 but now prefer hot randy guy. if u visit spain pm me

 

[Sycamore]

Good thread with lots of interesting views.

For the last few years I have 'admitted' to myself that I like seeing cocks in normal m/f porn films but never really thought about it any further. Aside from that I was just an 'average straight' guy.

Then I discovered cross-dressing!

Started off with wifes panties, looked at a few sites on the net and then dressed more, looked at more sites, tried some make-up, looked at a few sites and on it went.

I am now at the stage where I love seeing 'shemales' or other CDs wearing sexy feminine clothing. This really, really (and far more tham i ever imagined) turns me on and fires my imagination. However, to see a cock in isolation or two guys together not dressed in lingerie etc. just doesn't do that much for me. Some people may say I am just in denial but women turn me on and guys dont. An erect cock is undoubtedly a great sight but only when otherwise appearing as a women does that person really excite me.

As another progression I love speaking on chat rooms to other CDs where the sucking and wanking of panty clad cocks is 'enthusiastically' discussed. Definite fantasy material for now and who knows what the future holds!

As someone else stated on this thread, as we get older we do become more liberated and I am thoroughly enjoying this unexpected, and at times surprising, voyage of self-discovery.

S.

 

[THE_GENTLEMAN]

I had my first experience with a man and my wife last night. I had tried it before with her for 2 minutes with a 10" black guy. I didn't like it that time, it was too big. This guy had a nice 6" one. He was nervous and couldn't get it up for to fuck my wife. However I sucked him and got him real hard. Wife was getting jealous caus I was taking over her MMF, the first real decent one we had despite this guy not being able to get hard. He said he psyched himself out on the way over worring about performance and a cortizone pill for his foot was also interfering.


She wasn't mad really, just a tad jealous caus I couldn't keep my mouth off this mans cock. It was uncut and it was weird sucking the skin until the head popped through. He sucked me too with my wife and I almost blew in 30 seconds. Thankfully I had taken a percoset to get some energy prior since I had been up till 5am the past 2 nights doing an upgrade at work. So the percoset helped me from cumming to fast.

I have to tell you, I sucked this guy for almost 1.5 hours total. He was having trouble at first staying hard until I figured out what the good spots were and asking him if my teeth were hitting. He said no and said it felt so so good. Anyhow I was doing it for like 20 minutes straight in total ectasy. I felt him firm up and let out a noise. Next thing I knew he was dumping large ammounts of cum in my mouth.

Now he wasn't real stiff so it wasn't like shooting ropes it was just like several dumps of cum. He probably pumped like 10 spurts of cum into my mouth. I was swallowing as fast as I could. I then deap throated him and clenched my lips at the base of his cock, drawing them up to the head to suck out the last drops. Let me say this. I can not stop thinking about this.

This was by far one of the hottest things I've ever done.

G-MAN

 

[kerraz069]

Very interesting

This is an aeesome thread guys. Exactly what I was looking for tonight.

I am married to the most amazing cock sucker ever. She loves it and I am a very lucky guy for it.

I often wonder if I could do it, and it comes to mind more and more as I read various stories in Lit. My problem is the same as what some other fellas are saying. I don't like the concept of the man attached to the cock, I just wanna see if I can do it.

I am also nervous of the big swallow. That is when my fantasies develop into just jerking someone off, and giving them the benifit of my experience. Even as I wrote that though, my mind keeps jumping over to -

" I wonder what a hard cock would feel like on my tongue, in my mouth and tight inside my lips".

me=confused

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

For me, too, it was first liking the cock and not liking men.
I didn't want to admit that MEN actually turned me on.Just men fucking women.Girl on girl porn never got me off(for me it's too passive besides the good bodies and the orgasms ) and when I started to think about it, always in porn I liked the scenes where there was a cock(and a pussy or mouth ).
So I started thinking that maybe I was just liking the view of a cock.
I kept that idea for a while cause like most of the people, I thought that if I liked guys it would mean I was gay.Luckily that was just for a while, and then I tried watching gay porn/bi porn.I saw that it turned me on.even when guys kissed.So I just accepted that and my bisexuality with it.
I think it's more pleasurable being with a guy/girl you like, than being with a guy/girl you don't like.So except for the cock, appearance must mean something to you.
Nobody's saying you're gay, but you may accept your being bisexual, with a preference for women.
I can't quite understand the: "I love cock, but not men"..It sounds weird.
I understand not liking having a relationship with a man, but I think not liking men sexually also means not wanting to do naughty things with them.
But again it's just my opinion.
PS:I'm bi and it's still not good to generalise..Ok, conntom2002?And the same goes for straight people.You sounded a little offensive there..

 

[Muff Love]

With you all the way with this one. Fantasised about it for ages. Really would love to suck a big cock before being taken. I suppose by this I'm Bi curious.

 

[hockeypimp]

eh, i dont really find men attractive, but remember this:

they are what is attached to the cock. gotta take what you can get. if not stick to the toys

 

[Kryocide]

BTW, if you're really itching for a hot load down your throat, you can buy a real-feel penis extension (be warned, there are some crappy--and VERY tiny--ones out there) and create a hole through the head. Then you can slip your cock inside, get into a good self-sucking position, suck away, and the cum will burst out through the hole you've created. Those of you with 9" cocks probably don't need to do this, though. Lucky bastards!

 

[none2_none2]

BTW, if you're really itching for a hot load down your throat, you can buy a real-feel penis extension (be warned, there are some crappy--and VERY tiny--ones out there) and create a hole through the head. Then you can slip your cock inside, get into a good self-sucking position, suck away, and the cum will burst out through the hole you've created. Those of you with 9" cocks probably don't need to do this, though. Lucky bastards!

Oral doesn't do much for me -- nothing like fucking a hairy guy's ass. Thus, even self-suck doesn't float my boat. However, I was once around a group of guys talking about self suck. From that discussion, I learned that it isn't so much the LENGTH of a guy's cock as it is the length of his spine. Most people that can self suck are short waisted (short back, long legs) as opposed to long waisted (long back, short legs). When you have a real long back, your cock is just too hard to reach. However, if you don't have a long back, it isn't as hard to reach it when your back is bent.