earing your red wings

[Etoile]

Re: Re: Re: Re: earing your red wings

Thank you, Etoile. You are always right on the money. Some people have a serious aversion to blood, and that should be taken seriously. I can't even have my blood taken at the doctor's office without nearly panicking. However, how many times have we all cut our fingers and immediately stuck it in our mouths to stop the bleeding? Just because (minimal amounts of) blood comes from a woman's vagina automatically makes it repulsive and disgusting??? That's misogyny if i've ever heard it...and yes girls, you too can be misogynistic. I'm not sure what you guys think happens when women are on their periods. We don't exactly *gush* blood. And if i was having a very heavy period, i probably wouldn't be in the mood for oral sex anyways. Why are women supposed to relish drinking semen when men (and women) on this board are allowed to use such insulting language regarding menstrual blood? I didn't say it was for everyone or that men should like it or they're chauvinist pigs, but stop being so fucking paranoid!!!

Exactly! People don't understand what goes on during a woman's period. And you're right about the double standard. You put this post very well.

 

[restuart]

I recently went down on my fiance` during the crimson time. I started out just sucking and nibbling her clitoris, then dipped my tongue inside. It wasn't bad. In fact i spent an extra 10 - 12 minutes down there. I figured, my tongue has been in her ass, how bad could a menstrating vagina be. It was kind of awesome.

 

[burrish]

ok i am sorry i did not mean to start an agrument among members here, but i thought that there would be more guys out there that liked it or excited from it and how did the women go about it.
about the cheating, well i also agree with everyone of you but i can't seem to get it out of my head that it was part my fault, well i know it was but now i am trying to be the person that i wasn't so that my husband won't stray again or anything. more sex or sex when he wants it is just a step toward that i am hoping. and he has done me while i was on my period before so it wasn't like i was going to get him down there and then surprise him, nothing like that at all.
sorry about the confusin and or debate question!!!

 

[Guest]

Personally I think if you care enough about someone you aren't gonna get freaked out over this. I have done it and got my lover off. Now mind you I didn't just bury my entire face in her crotch..........



Ok, nevermind but let's just say she enjoyed herself and I enjoyed the fact she was happy that it didn't ick me out!!!




And oh but oh did I enjoy the reciprocation!

 

[Guest]

And to add to this those men out there that get freaked out over sexing they're lover's during this time are just selfish and totally screwing themselves. That's a totally hard time for a lady and to get some really is awesome and helps out a great deal for alot of women.

Lord knows, they tolerate our football, cartoons and Three Stooges marathons, I think it's the least we can do

 

[Etoile]

ok i am sorry i did not mean to start an agrument among members here, but i thought that there would be more guys out there that liked it or excited from it and how did the women go about it.
about the cheating, well i also agree with everyone of you but i can't seem to get it out of my head that it was part my fault, well i know it was but now i am trying to be the person that i wasn't so that my husband won't stray again or anything. more sex or sex when he wants it is just a step toward that i am hoping. and he has done me while i was on my period before so it wasn't like i was going to get him down there and then surprise him, nothing like that at all.
sorry about the confusin and or debate question!!!

burrish, you're new here. Eventually you'll realize that we frequently debate topics. There's no reason for you to apologize for anything. I am getting a sense that you have a major guilt issue. You don't need to apologize for provoking a discussion, and it isn't your fault that your husband cheated on you. I hope I can convince you of the first point, but it sounds like you are set on believing the latter for now. Hopefully your therapist will convince you of the latter this Friday. *hugs*

 

[Mstrskey]

First off, Burrish*hugs* for you sweets, sounds like you could use some about now.

 

[James G 5]

A woman's menstral cycle is a completely natural thing. A guy should be GLAD when she has her period, because that usually indicates his woman's reproductive system is healthy. And that's a very, very good thing.

S.

Hell, it shows she's not pregnant & I'm REAL grateful for that

 

[James G 5]

BTW folks, even if a guy can't handle the idea directly, there're 2 ways for him to approach oral during a woman's period with little chance of blood encounter...the lady in question can insert an "Instead" and wash, or she can slide in a fresh tampon, trim or tuck the string, and wash
The "Instead" would allow digitial & oral penetration, the tampon just clitoral stimulation but either way he can go down & not get messy, if he's the type to stress about it

And if you're wondering, no, I'm not the type to...ME, pass up free blood? HELL no!

 

[Mstrskey]

GRRRRR....DAMN COMPUTER GREMLINS!!!

OK, now then, what I wanted to say about Red Wings, they ain't crap w/o Scotty Bowman coaching them! ...ooops you didn't mean the hockey team didja? My fault. Seriously though, while I personally have only had the experience a time or two, I've been on both sides of the fence with the men in my life. Quite a few were repulsed at the mere thought of it. I listened to their rationale that putting their mouths down by a bloody vagina was just disgusting and what kind of nasty was I etc. etc. I stayed sweet and calm but then reminded them that they had no problem sticking their cocks up my ass and then expecting me to lick them. Now why then was it OK for me to lick the organ that had just been firmly rooted in my body's waste factory but for them to consider tasting a little menstrual blood was out of the question?
One was OK once he actually realized that it wasn't a continuous flow of blood down there and that the chances of him actually getting himself bloody were slim and none. Another had no problem with intercourse during my menstrual cycle, in fact he actually liked the warmth and slickness of my vagina better then, but refused to perform cunnilingus until it was over.
With my husband I asked how many times had he sucked on the blood of a cut to stop the flow, and then asked why mentrual blood was different. It's still not his favorite thing to do, but now that he knows more about how the menstrual cycle really works he doesn't get sick at the thought.
Like Etoile said, alot of it comes from ignorance about a womans body and how it works. A lack of understanding about the menses. Maybe if men understood our bodies a little better we could avoid all this superstition and silliness.

 

[James G 5]

I stayed sweet and calm but then reminded them that they had no problem sticking their cocks up my ass and then expecting me to lick them. Now why then was it OK for me to lick the organ that had just been firmly rooted in my body's waste factory but for them to consider tasting a little menstrual blood was out of the question?

Good point...My psycho ex always appreciated me going down on her during. One time when she was flowing fairly heavily, she was riding me on top & after she came she hopped off & finished me orally, despite much more blood than I would encounter from going down on her. She said she figured turn-about was fair play & I wasn't going to argue

 

[Mstrskey]

Now see that's my point! To many men expect a woman to partake of something she finds sexually distasteful without question but won't wear the shoe on the other foot. Virtually every man I have ever been with has eventually had to learn that what was good for the goose was also good for the gander or they had to hit the road. I mean at least try it!! If you give it a shot and find you truly can't stomach it I'm a hell of a lot more likely to accept that then if you simply refuse to even see if you might enjoy it.

 

[ldlarry52]

I have gone down on my wife several times while on her period. I enjoy going down on her any time as long as she is clean. As for the blood issue, I have encoutered very little. When she is flowing the heaviest she is not receptive to me going down on her or fucking.
Now, if she wanted me to lick her pussy and give her what we call the tickle (licking the clit till she cums), even during her heavy flow I would give her the loving she wanted.
As for not wanting to do it when you once did and enjoyed it. Sexual desires change, and that needs to be respected by both.
However, withholding a sexual pleasure to punish or get even is wrong.
LDLarry52

 

[Etoile]

However, withholding a sexual pleasure to punish or get even is wrong.

I'll make the obligatory kinky BDSM person comment:
It's not always wrong! Sometimes it's part of the relationship.

But yeah, in vanilla relationships, i guess it would be unfair. Especially if the punishment/getting even is because of the period, which is not controllable by the woman.

 

[James G 5]

I'll make the obligatory kinky BDSM person comment:
It's not always wrong! Sometimes it's part of the relationship.

You beat me to it on this one

 

[Etoile]

You beat me to it on this one

You could beat me in exchange if you like... http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/handcuffs.gif

 

[James G 5]

You could beat me in exchange if you like... http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/handcuffs.gif

Tease
What's your Daddy's e-mail, so I can ask permission?

 

[StoneTheCrow]

Huh.



Good job, dude! You have admirably succeeded in making yourself look like an intolerant, immature little boy who is still worried about whether or not a girl has cooties.

I'm impressed. Seriously.

S.

Oh you're very welcome If I seem somewhat immature because I think it is repulsive to get a woman's menstrual flow in their mouth then so beit. I do agree with the to each his own philosophy, but I thought that we were entitled to our own opinions, not be chatised by the righteous sick fucks that find the idera of "earning your red wings enticing"

 

[burrish]

i am somewhat dumb when it comes to termenology but what is vanilla relationships

 

[Guest]

You could beat me in exchange if you like... http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/handcuffs.gif

That lil handcuff thingie is cool, howja' do dat?

 

[James G 5]

i am somewhat dumb when it comes to termenology but what is vanilla relationships

Etolie & I are both kinky types, frequent posters on the BDSM forum, and active in real life in our communities
Us kinky BDSM types tend to refer to non-BDSM'ers & non-BDSM relationships as "vanilla"

 

[SkyyAngel]

i am somewhat dumb when it comes to termenology but what is vanilla relationships

It's just your regular so-called "typical" relationship...no kinks or fetishes....plain...like vanilla ice cream.

At least that's how I've had it explained to me.

 

[James G 5]

That lil handcuff thingie is cool, howja' do dat?

It was an inserted image
Like this:
http://www.lockupyourbossday.com.au/images/large/handcuffs.jpg

 

[Guest]

Well I know it was inserted but how!!! C'mon MAN, specifics! Whatta ya thinkin', I'm edumacated er sumthin'!!!
Oh nevermind, don't go to any trouble. Just thought it was cool!


And what would vanilla with some chocolate sprinkles be called? I think that best describes my relationships lol!

 

[James G 5]

Well I know it was inserted but how!!! C'mon MAN, specifics! Whatta ya thinkin', I'm edumacated er sumthin'!!!
Oh nevermind, don't go to any trouble. Just thought it was cool!


And what would vanilla with some chocolate sprinkles be called? I think that best describes my relationships lol!

Ok...you find a pic somewhere on the web
Then you copy the web address for that pic
Up at the top of your new post or reply, there's a button that says "IMG"...insert the address for the picture in the box that pops up when you hit the button

And I think you described it very well
Nothing wrong with 'nilla & sprinkles
I just happen to live Rocky Road