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PORNO KINGSTA

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Can anyone give me tips on how to get a girl off while I eat her pussy? How can I make her enjoy it a lot?
 
Explain to me why you chose that login name, and I'll give you hints on good eatin'.
 
Not good enough. I mean that name suggests 'gangsta', but apparently 'gangsta' wasn't good enough.. you had to be 'kingsta'.

I suggest that if you want to become proficient at pleasing a woman, you drop that ... I don't know what to call it.. ego? Immaturity? Those caps locks? ... leave that at the door.

Pleasing a woman is serious business, as fun as it is. When in an intimate situation, it should be the only thing on your mind.. why? Because if you do it right, you don't have to worry about her wanting to.. begging to, please you. That's just how it works. So forget about your raging hardon, and dive right in.


I always like to begin with feather-soft kisses on the thighs (that is, after I've kissed, nibbled, and licked my way down from her mouth)... I drag my hair over her soft skin, my fingers running over her thighs and under her knees, and my breasts pressing against her body gently... I like breath-play, so I do some deep out-breaths, letting the hotness of my mouth gently waft over her sex, and then I gently, softly, feather-softly begin to lick her outer labia... sometimes, I'll drag my hair along the same course my mouth takes, other times, I'll touch with nothing but the tip of my tongue. My hands, however, are always busy.. whether playing with her breasts, or running fingernails gently over the sensitive slope of her hips... something, keeping her skin electrified... and as she gets more turned on, more excited, so do I, and I get more involved, licking, maybe, with more of my tongue, or pushing my tongue deeper into her sex... now running along the inner lips, now flicking over her lovely cherry...



It really helps if you LOVE doing what you're doing.
 
This is perhaps the most common tip when you eat pussy: use your tongue to trace the letters of the alphabet on her clit. Some people swear by it. Personally, I don’t recommend it. I don’t think it’s a good technique. Also, it’s too much of a distraction, and if she catches you humming the Alphabet Song under your breath, you’re busted. You should be paying attention to her, not what comes after Q._


For real professional tips check this link
www.cunnilingustutor.com/eat-pussy.shtml

:D
 
Avery_Chisholm said:
oooh la la vixen:rose:
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I'll second that! Nicely done, vixen! I feel the sudden urge to practice.... :eek:

Cheers!
 
vixenshe said:

I always like to begin with feather-soft kisses on the thighs (that is, after I've kissed, nibbled, and licked my way down from her mouth)... I drag my hair over her soft skin, my fingers running over her thighs and under her knees, and my breasts pressing against her body gently... I like breath-play, so I do some deep out-breaths, letting the hotness of my mouth gently waft over her sex, and then I gently, softly, feather-softly begin to lick her outer labia... sometimes, I'll drag my hair along the same course my mouth takes, other times, I'll touch with nothing but the tip of my tongue. My hands, however, are always busy.. whether playing with her breasts, or running fingernails gently over the sensitive slope of her hips... something, keeping her skin electrified... and as she gets more turned on, more excited, so do I, and I get more involved, licking, maybe, with more of my tongue, or pushing my tongue deeper into her sex... now running along the inner lips, now flicking over her lovely cherry...

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Yes. Oh HELL YES!


Just a personal thing for me: I like my clit to be sucked. However, that is sometimes too sensitive for a lot of women.
 
I'm not sure I agree with immediately attacking someone based on their screen name, but I do have to give vixenshe kudos for a great response. All of it was well-phrased.
 
I always prefer to start licking along her thighs, then working my way up and combine licking with nibbling. Then I get to her lips, and run my tongue up and down between them, very lightly at first, then get a little harder as my tongue moves faster. By this time she's usually pretty wet, so I start on the clit, licking it both up and down and back and side to side. I then like to suck on it, and flick it with my tongue while it's deep in my mouth. I might give it an occasional nibble, depending on how sensitive she is.

I usually repeat this whole thing for at least twenty to thirty minutes. Usually, she's wanting my cock inside her before long ;)
 
The above suggestions are good but I will tell you the 2 most effective thing I do when eating pussy:

1. Encourage/Empower the lady to give suggestions and guidance and be expressive.

and most importantly

2. Listen to her. Not just her words, but her breathing, her movments, everything.
To be honest, I usually take my cues from her belly - watching a woman's breathing and muscle tension in her belly can be a great indication of what works and what doesn't.

Just remember - focus on how best to eat the particular pussy you are sevicing not everything works for everybody
 
Great advice so far! Slow is good. Deep is great. Don't be afraid to explore outside of the clit...you may find a special spot in her box that rocks her world. You may begin with a finger or two to get the feel of the land and how she responds to you as you explore her. Then slowly lick your way to greatness, filling those spots with your tongue where your fingers once were when she moaned "Oh GOD..." Most of all, listen to her feedback. If the feedback is positive then you are doing something right. Whatever you do, DON'T stop! If she is quiet she is most likely wondering, "What the hell is he doing down there?" If that happens, stop and tell her your goal is to please her and ask her to help guide you with what feels good to her. The key here is constant feedback and communication between lovers.

:rose:
 
vixenshe said:
Not good enough. I mean that name suggests 'gangsta', but apparently 'gangsta' wasn't good enough.. you had to be 'kingsta'.

I suggest that if you want to become proficient at pleasing a woman, you drop that ... I don't know what to call it.. ego? Immaturity? Those caps locks? ... leave that at the door.

Pleasing a woman is serious business, as fun as it is. When in an intimate situation, it should be the only thing on your mind.. why? Because if you do it right, you don't have to worry about her wanting to.. begging to, please you. That's just how it works. So forget about your raging hardon, and dive right in.


I always like to begin with feather-soft kisses on the thighs (that is, after I've kissed, nibbled, and licked my way down from her mouth)... I drag my hair over her soft skin, my fingers running over her thighs and under her knees, and my breasts pressing against her body gently... I like breath-play, so I do some deep out-breaths, letting the hotness of my mouth gently waft over her sex, and then I gently, softly, feather-softly begin to lick her outer labia... sometimes, I'll drag my hair along the same course my mouth takes, other times, I'll touch with nothing but the tip of my tongue. My hands, however, are always busy.. whether playing with her breasts, or running fingernails gently over the sensitive slope of her hips... something, keeping her skin electrified... and as she gets more turned on, more excited, so do I, and I get more involved, licking, maybe, with more of my tongue, or pushing my tongue deeper into her sex... now running along the inner lips, now flicking over her lovely cherry...



It really helps if you LOVE doing what you're doing.
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Well said Vixenshe. It is good to see that a man is not scared to ask what pleases us.
 
Talk to the girl about it.

Everyone has preferences. Talk to her about what she enjoys. Let her show you what feels best on her.

And line everyone else says....you HAVE to actually love doing it or it's never gonna be good for her.
 
Well I was new at doing it this year and so was my g/f... we have found though that if my hand is holding hers while i'm down there,,, she can give my hand a squeeze when I hit the right spot for her. Be careful though... if your don't let go b4 she's about to climax your hand gets crushed :D
 
how my guy does it (and it's really difficult for me to cum, most of the time, but this does the trick in a matter of minutes):

first he fingers me, touching me, teasing me. then he slides one finger, then two fingers inside of me, moving them in and out very slowly and gently.

then he puts his mouth on me, his whole mouth, sucking gently, while flicking my clit with his tongue.

it drives me wild, and has me cumming in minutes. :D
 
I agree with Vixen and try my best to follow that line. But I believe you have to WANT to please your lover. If the desire isn't there you will subconsciously sabatoge any attempt. And a woman WILL notice. All women are different and what works on one may not work on another. One may like biting whereas another may knock the hell out of ya if you bite her! Her pleasure must be your only concern. While your doing whatever ask her if she likes it. She'll let you know by either telling you or subtle body movements. Sometimes not so subtle.....which is definately what your looking for ;)
 
PORNO KINGSTA said:
Can anyone give me tips on how to get a girl off while I eat her pussy? How can I make her enjoy it a lot?
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Now here we go! All I've seen up until now were dick sucking threads, which are fine but there need to be some threads to return the favor, ya know?

OK! Like I said in the throat fucking thread, the hardest thing it seems like for men to remember is that a woman's entire body can be an erogenous zone, as opposed to just her chi chi's and pussy! If you can remember that little rule you'll be doing better than some.

I saw one post about the A-B-C's. That's not bad actually, but you can do the same thing just by being creative with the way you move your tongue. Like he said, concentrating on the alphabet will be a distraction, what you want to pay attention to is her body language - and don't be afraid to ask if she likes it or how she likes it.

And don't be fooled, not every woman screams like a porn star! Remember, those women are pulling down some pretty big bucks for faking and looking like they love everything he does. When a man goes down on me the sound he wants to listen for won't be "AHHHH!" Not unless he's bitten something, but oooooooo or ahhhhh lol.

But before all that - Speaking for myself, the road to orgasmic bliss is foreplay!!! I just can't stress that enough. If I put on some lingerie - or some kind of costume and take the time to get made up for you, I don't want you to just rip it all off right away! I want you to take some time, and enjoy the effort I put into looking good!

Knowing she looks good for her lover is something that I would venture to say turns any woman on. I know we make it hard on a guy sometimes but have some control! :mad: That's like the SEXIEST quality a man can have baby! That's just something that makes a man ALL MAN in my opinion. :eek:

Now that's not to say we don't have our moments where we'd like you to just come in from work all sweaty and dirty and just ravage us from time to time, but there's also sometimes when you want to teeaassseeeeee her.

You want to make your lover climb the WALLS! Right? Claw at her thighs for you! Just like she wants you to do for her. God sometimes my husband can make me beg him to just let me kiss it lol.

And THAT'S when you want to throw her on the bed and get ready to go down on her! Again though - control!

Tease it! LoL If she wore sexy panties for you, don't jerk them off her. I like to wear really skimpy ones for my man - He seems actually to have a silk fetish. Sometimes he'll take me dancing or to a movie and just start rubbing me up under the table or in the dark...We've seldom ever made it through an entire movie with out some making out and heavy petting.

But! when he gets me home, he'll pick me up, throw me down on our bed and just tease everything through the wet silk. Warm wet silk conforms to the shape, and I can tell you it traps heat. Hell just tease me like that until I'm begging - then pull them over, spread my lips and just OMG bloowwwwww! :eek:

It's usually around this point I start calling him "daddy" lol.

But he'll pay special attention to everything. Nibble the lips up and down really slow. Push my knees into the mattress so my hips are off the bed and I can watch every move he makes! He's got this thing he does, where he'll like lift the skin above the hood so that lil pink swollen button pops out. Then just let the rough flat of his tongue move up between my lips and let it run it's length along my clit, then use the tip of his tongue on it...Just the verrryyyy tip of the bud.

Sometimes he'll take it between his lips and squeeze it. Then tease the tip with the tip of his tongue and I just...God!

Hoo! Anyway, just remember to use some control and not go for the good stuff right away. Make her feel special, make her feel pretty. And remember! Please remember always! No matter how heated and passionate things are, theres such a thing as rubbing her clit/pussy to hard!

If she goes numb down there - You'll never get her off! :mad:

And she just might have to knock you in the head with something. :devil:
 
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