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try burrowing
There's already a lot of good stuff here. I agree with the above suggestions about getting in a position where you can watch her closely (and manipulate nipples). If you let her reactions guide you, you're already most of the way there. Plus it's an incredible, blessed thing to watch her -- her climax and everything leading up to it -- so that will also cinch the part about you loving it.
The only other thing you'll need then is a variety of moves to try. Here's just one that I haven't seen mentioned yet. Her sensitivity of different parts -- especially the clitoris -- will change during the event. At least with some women, it's pretty sensitive at first, to the point that you have to avoid direct contact. As her level of arousal rises, you'll want to try firmer strokes (still talking tongue). And then at the end, after teasing her to the brink several times but backing away, put the tip of your tongue right on her bud and push down harder while wiggling, like you're trying to burrow in under the hood.
Sends my wife through the roof. I suspect part of her reaction is psychological -- the surprise, or maybe the nastiness of it? So I wouldn't use this every time.
But have fun and communicate. If you do, you'll see it's a wonder, and you'll find your own things to recommend. Come back and share.
There's already a lot of good stuff here. I agree with the above suggestions about getting in a position where you can watch her closely (and manipulate nipples). If you let her reactions guide you, you're already most of the way there. Plus it's an incredible, blessed thing to watch her -- her climax and everything leading up to it -- so that will also cinch the part about you loving it.
The only other thing you'll need then is a variety of moves to try. Here's just one that I haven't seen mentioned yet. Her sensitivity of different parts -- especially the clitoris -- will change during the event. At least with some women, it's pretty sensitive at first, to the point that you have to avoid direct contact. As her level of arousal rises, you'll want to try firmer strokes (still talking tongue). And then at the end, after teasing her to the brink several times but backing away, put the tip of your tongue right on her bud and push down harder while wiggling, like you're trying to burrow in under the hood.
Sends my wife through the roof. I suspect part of her reaction is psychological -- the surprise, or maybe the nastiness of it? So I wouldn't use this every time.
But have fun and communicate. If you do, you'll see it's a wonder, and you'll find your own things to recommend. Come back and share.
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I LOVE eating pussy. Let's start with that.
Now, that being said, I think that what has made me successful in that is that fact I truly love going down on a woman, so much so that I have actually had orgasms while providing my partners with pleasure.
A woman can certainly tell if you are down there out of a sense of obligation or if you are there to provide her with pleasure.
With a new partner two things have to happen to me for it to become a magical experience for the both of us. I have to want to eat that pussy like there was a shortage and it was becoming extinct and my partner has to feel that I am there to provide pleasure for her, not just to get her wet so I can stick my cock in there and get me off. Know what I mean?
I start with exploring, coming down for her mouth to her breasts, paying attention to her sounds, her breath, does it change? Dot is catch when you nibble or suck? Every woman is different and you must take the time to sense what is turning her on, after all this is the reason why you are doing this in the first place.
I linger there and start to kiss her belly and ribs, underneath the breasts and trace my way down, leaving a very small trail of wetness, until I reach her tights. Now I kiss the thighs and breath upon her sex, but do not touch it yet. I always tray to ensure that when I actually touche her lips, she will have been not anticipating it. Your warm breath on her labia and clit as you softly lick and kiss the surrounding area will definitely get her attention (at least it seems to work for me).
Take the time to sense what is going on with her as I said before her breathing and sounds are very important to get an understanding of what state of arousal she is in. Once I feel that she is ready the I start to kiss her labia, parting the softly with my tongue, while may hands are caressing her hips, thighs, stomach. I NEVER attack the clit first, instead I probe her folds to get her attention and interest and then I dip my tongue in her core, as I taste her wetness, something happens to me and I feel some real primal shit. The hairs on the back of my neck stand and if that happens, then I know I am ready.
From her wet entrance I trace my tongue up to her clitoris and softly start to lick it, moving my wet tongue around her hood and slowly start to expose her nub to my mouth. As as I start to sens whether she is liking this or not (To me this is the most important part) I start to either go a little hard or softer, all depends on the woman. I am there for her pleasure period, if this is not the reason you are down there stop. there is nothing worse that giving a woman bad head.
Once I sense what she likes as far as clit play goes then i start to focus there while I start to play with my hands and explore her pussy. Some women like fingers other don't. Try softly, I can't imagine most women will like for you to ram your fingers and she is feeling the soft sensations of your tongue on her clit. The feeling should augment that sensation not take away from it. I have found that an well placed finger at her entrance will really get her going as you kiss, lick and lightly suck on her nub.
Once she is very wet and arouse, I look for indications that she is ready for an additional finger. the movement of her hips her breathing, the wetness. once she is, I will introduce another finger and will turn my hand so that as I am fingering her I can make a come hither gestures with the fingers and touch the sensitive walls of her vagina. I look for spot a few inches above her opening that is usually engorged by now and feel like a bump. As my fingers go in and out I try to make sure that they always reach that area and massage it gently.
Now, here you should have your partner really worked up by now, but since no two women are alike, take the time to understand what she wants, more forceful finger play, more internal massaging? it varies from woman to woman. once I have found what makes her tick, I will continue to do just that until I sense a need to change form her or until she grabs my head and start to grind her pussy against my face and eventually has an orgasm. That is my goal to provide pleasure.
after her orgasm, I again try to sense, does she want more? is it too sensitive and she wants a break? More then I go for what I know she liked. Too sensitive the I shower her pussy with soft kisses, and tiny licks here and there until she comes down from her endorphin high.
This seems to work for me, but you mileage may vary
By the way I was taught by an older mentor at a very young age.
Now, that being said, I think that what has made me successful in that is that fact I truly love going down on a woman, so much so that I have actually had orgasms while providing my partners with pleasure.
A woman can certainly tell if you are down there out of a sense of obligation or if you are there to provide her with pleasure.
With a new partner two things have to happen to me for it to become a magical experience for the both of us. I have to want to eat that pussy like there was a shortage and it was becoming extinct and my partner has to feel that I am there to provide pleasure for her, not just to get her wet so I can stick my cock in there and get me off. Know what I mean?
I start with exploring, coming down for her mouth to her breasts, paying attention to her sounds, her breath, does it change? Dot is catch when you nibble or suck? Every woman is different and you must take the time to sense what is turning her on, after all this is the reason why you are doing this in the first place.
I linger there and start to kiss her belly and ribs, underneath the breasts and trace my way down, leaving a very small trail of wetness, until I reach her tights. Now I kiss the thighs and breath upon her sex, but do not touch it yet. I always tray to ensure that when I actually touche her lips, she will have been not anticipating it. Your warm breath on her labia and clit as you softly lick and kiss the surrounding area will definitely get her attention (at least it seems to work for me).
Take the time to sense what is going on with her as I said before her breathing and sounds are very important to get an understanding of what state of arousal she is in. Once I feel that she is ready the I start to kiss her labia, parting the softly with my tongue, while may hands are caressing her hips, thighs, stomach. I NEVER attack the clit first, instead I probe her folds to get her attention and interest and then I dip my tongue in her core, as I taste her wetness, something happens to me and I feel some real primal shit. The hairs on the back of my neck stand and if that happens, then I know I am ready.
From her wet entrance I trace my tongue up to her clitoris and softly start to lick it, moving my wet tongue around her hood and slowly start to expose her nub to my mouth. As as I start to sens whether she is liking this or not (To me this is the most important part) I start to either go a little hard or softer, all depends on the woman. I am there for her pleasure period, if this is not the reason you are down there stop. there is nothing worse that giving a woman bad head.
Once I sense what she likes as far as clit play goes then i start to focus there while I start to play with my hands and explore her pussy. Some women like fingers other don't. Try softly, I can't imagine most women will like for you to ram your fingers and she is feeling the soft sensations of your tongue on her clit. The feeling should augment that sensation not take away from it. I have found that an well placed finger at her entrance will really get her going as you kiss, lick and lightly suck on her nub.
Once she is very wet and arouse, I look for indications that she is ready for an additional finger. the movement of her hips her breathing, the wetness. once she is, I will introduce another finger and will turn my hand so that as I am fingering her I can make a come hither gestures with the fingers and touch the sensitive walls of her vagina. I look for spot a few inches above her opening that is usually engorged by now and feel like a bump. As my fingers go in and out I try to make sure that they always reach that area and massage it gently.
Now, here you should have your partner really worked up by now, but since no two women are alike, take the time to understand what she wants, more forceful finger play, more internal massaging? it varies from woman to woman. once I have found what makes her tick, I will continue to do just that until I sense a need to change form her or until she grabs my head and start to grind her pussy against my face and eventually has an orgasm. That is my goal to provide pleasure.
after her orgasm, I again try to sense, does she want more? is it too sensitive and she wants a break? More then I go for what I know she liked. Too sensitive the I shower her pussy with soft kisses, and tiny licks here and there until she comes down from her endorphin high.
This seems to work for me, but you mileage may vary
By the way I was taught by an older mentor at a very young age.
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Sweet_Pea24
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LoL I know! Shes' beautiful! I can remember when I was like in middle school though sneaking into my parents room sneaking daddy's porn and seeing her in movies that looked like it was in the early 80s, even 70s. lol
Maybe makin luv really is the fountain of youth. lol
That statement needs to be put to the test. But for it to be put to the test, half the people are gonna have to give up sex altogether!
Also, the ass on Nina...it's fantamaziwesome!
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A good thread will always make a cumback
Sweet_Pea24
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LoL I know right? She either works reallllyyyyyyy hard, or pays realllyyyyy hard for that butt lol.
Whatever it takes, that ass is a massterpiece.
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Why are people BUMPING a thread which was created on 11-04-2003 that is 7 fucking years ago! By this time, the OP would even have re-married 3 times
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Trust me listen to thease guys here on LIT they have some AMAZING advice and if they dont know they sure know where to refer you to...I know trust me because my husband sucked at eating pussy now thanks to my LIT family he is AMAZING!!!
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This thread is ancient, like Nina Hartley.
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1. You gotta really love doing it. The taste, the aroma, all of it. You gotta love it.
2. Foreplay. Sure, there ar occasions when diving right in is approriate, but they are rare. Nipple play is especially important. Nipples are hard wired to a woman's pussy.
3. What you do exactly depends on her. Her body, her reactions, tell you what's working for her. Some gals like you to explore their pussys with your fingers while you lick their labia and tease their clit - others want tongue only. When all else fails, try asking her!
4. Both of you should be having fun!
2. Foreplay. Sure, there ar occasions when diving right in is approriate, but they are rare. Nipple play is especially important. Nipples are hard wired to a woman's pussy.
3. What you do exactly depends on her. Her body, her reactions, tell you what's working for her. Some gals like you to explore their pussys with your fingers while you lick their labia and tease their clit - others want tongue only. When all else fails, try asking her!
4. Both of you should be having fun!
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MAKE HER BEG!
Most girls will give very explicit directions, if you just don't do what they want long enough.
Get down there. Nuzzle. Kiss. Explore.
It's not a race, it's all about having fun.
Look at it. Blow on it. Peel it open and look at the goodies inside.
Check the thickness and clarity of her juices. Have a taste.
Lick her thigh.
Rest your lips over hers and hum "Air on a G String"
Stick your tongue out just the tiniest bit, touch her clit, then retreat back to her thighs.
At first, all this will turn her on. Eventually she will want more direct stimulus. When that time comes, believe me, she'll let you know.
Most girls will give very explicit directions, if you just don't do what they want long enough.
Get down there. Nuzzle. Kiss. Explore.
It's not a race, it's all about having fun.
Look at it. Blow on it. Peel it open and look at the goodies inside.
Check the thickness and clarity of her juices. Have a taste.
Lick her thigh.
Rest your lips over hers and hum "Air on a G String"
Stick your tongue out just the tiniest bit, touch her clit, then retreat back to her thighs.
At first, all this will turn her on. Eventually she will want more direct stimulus. When that time comes, believe me, she'll let you know.
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so it's an old thread
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I'm not sure I understand the problem with commenting on an old thread. I for one don't like having to read a new thread on the same topic over and over again. If it's an interesting topic (and pussy eating techniques qualify) then keeping all the comments in a single thread seems appropriate. Sure the OP may be gone but it's the topic itself that generates comments, not the OP. IMHO. Is rule here that if you want to talk about a topic, even if there are a multitude of similar threads, you should start a new thread to give your .02?
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I'm not sure I understand the problem with commenting on an old thread. I for one don't like having to read a new thread on the same topic over and over again. If it's an interesting topic (and pussy eating techniques qualify) then keeping all the comments in a single thread seems appropriate. Sure the OP may be gone but it's the topic itself that generates comments, not the OP. IMHO. Is rule here that if you want to talk about a topic, even if there are a multitude of similar threads, you should start a new thread to give your .02?
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I think you might find this video informative. I really like the 2nd guys way of doing his thing. Just see how wet his face is and you will know he is doing something right and loves it too.
http://fantasti.cc/videos/permalink/tnaflix/How-to-eat-pussy-like-a-champ/790807/
http://fantasti.cc/videos/permalink/tnaflix/How-to-eat-pussy-like-a-champ/790807/
+1 on that; she's a great guide to that area.
What I like is me on my back and the girl lowing herself on my face. That way, she can position herself onto me how she likes it - and not trying to give directions "up, no that's too far, down, down a little more..." which makes me irritated. Also, if she's recently showered and paid attention to her ass, don't be afraid to rim her a little - I've gotten this response from everyone: "wait... what the hell are you doing.. .sto..... ohhhhhhhhh yeah...." I think it's funny.
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how my guy does it (and it's really difficult for me to cum, most of the time, but this does the trick in a matter of minutes):
first he fingers me, touching me, teasing me. then he slides one finger, then two fingers inside of me, moving them in and out very slowly and gently.
then he puts his mouth on me, his whole mouth, sucking gently, while flicking my clit with his tongue.
it drives me wild, and has me cumming in minutes.
Bingo. The only thing I'd add to this is while fingering, bend your finger in sort of a "come hear" motion. This will stimulate the g spot and if doing this while licking her clit, it will drive her nuts. This is my personal favorite.
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Sorry, I read and posted before I realized it was old, but I have to agree with rthnck. Who cares if it is an old thread. I don't know about others but I read the information and rarely check out the date the thread was started. If the information is interesting and I feel like commenting, who am I hurting? The people who constantly bitch at others for bumping old threads should really find something more productive to do. There are quite a few comments on this thread from the current year, so it's obviously an interesting topic to some.
Well, this is how I do.
Get Her Warmed Up
-Kiss her and play with each other's tongues
-Lick and suck her ears slowly
-Suck and lick on her neck gently and slowly
-Whisper the shit she wants to hear in her ears
-Run your fingertips in gentle circles on her sides as you suck and lick her tits
-Continue teasing her with your fingertips until they reach her thighs and continue
The Actual thing
-Suck on her inner thighs as you slowly massage and tickle her feet and outer thighs
-Rub the outside/inside her asshole gently as you begin sucking and licking her inner lips(use the other hand to continue rubbing her foot and outer thigh).
-Don't just go for her clit, that kind of kills it...dude....Tease her for a while
-Start rubbing her clit as you suck her inner lips(don't forget the outer labia) and continue slowly rubbing her asshole
-Then, start licking and sucking her clit and all the rest of the vulva (You can chance the pace you lick on her clit if you have to).
-Keep using your hands throughout the whole process and have fun with it.
If this doesn't help you, man...I don't know what would.
Get Her Warmed Up
-Kiss her and play with each other's tongues
-Lick and suck her ears slowly
-Suck and lick on her neck gently and slowly
-Whisper the shit she wants to hear in her ears
-Run your fingertips in gentle circles on her sides as you suck and lick her tits
-Continue teasing her with your fingertips until they reach her thighs and continue
The Actual thing
-Suck on her inner thighs as you slowly massage and tickle her feet and outer thighs
-Rub the outside/inside her asshole gently as you begin sucking and licking her inner lips(use the other hand to continue rubbing her foot and outer thigh).
-Don't just go for her clit, that kind of kills it...dude....Tease her for a while
-Start rubbing her clit as you suck her inner lips(don't forget the outer labia) and continue slowly rubbing her asshole
-Then, start licking and sucking her clit and all the rest of the vulva (You can chance the pace you lick on her clit if you have to).
-Keep using your hands throughout the whole process and have fun with it.
If this doesn't help you, man...I don't know what would.
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