Your observation was accurate.Thanks for sharing. What is it about the metal heel stuff you mentioned that turns you on?
You being into those suggestions surprised me a little as you definitely seem more like a dom. I would imagine that you would prefer the guy to be blindfolded and handcuffed. What is it about YOU being in that position that turns you on?
Still, those two opposites are both present in me, I think, and they are difficult to disentangle.
Why would I want that?
Because I want to feel helpless. And I want to be used.