Fat people can be HOT!

[bisexplicit]

Pretty consistently I find people who are a little bigger than normal more attractive than people who are thinner than normal.

And I think people tend to be attracted to, basically, people who fall within normal ranges. However, recently it seems, the thinner you are, the sexier you are.

And despite what may be popular, there are plenty of people who are just built that way. Even at my thinnest, I still was quite curvy - big ass, big tits, wide hips. That sortof thing just can't be diet-ed away.

Anyway, the point of my little rant was - yay for people of all shapes and sizes, nay for people who encourage super thinness.

 

[Biorgium]

Even at my thinnest, I still was quite curvy - big ass, big tits, wide hips.

In other words, made in God's image. The curvier, the godlier

 

[TBKahuna123]

In other words, made in God's image. The curvier, the godlier

Hmm..... I think I like it!

 

[Cade Is Here]

A lot about fat people tonight!!

 

[deliciously_naughty]

I'm a bbw and I've never had trouble getting guys.

 

[boston_bbw]

I'm a bbw and I've never had trouble getting guys

Your lucky then... you obviously have the great personality and confidence they are attracted to as well.. I am still working on the confidence part.. although am currently subscribing to the fake it till you make it theory. I am 35 and single and am hoping to put myself out there a little more and meet someone special. Currently my snuggle buddy has a budda belly as he calls it, hardly anything if you ask me but I love it, obviously he dosn't

 

[deliciously_naughty]

Your lucky then... you obviously have the great personality and confidence they are attracted to as well..

It really isn't luck. When I was single I put myself out there. I risked rejection (and got rejected because of my weight plenty).

My self esteem sucked until I met the right friends, and even then I used men and sex as my self esteem meters. If men wanted to fuck me, or did fuck me, it meant I was attractive. If they didn't, I wasn't.

That was in no way healthy.

I also pretended interest in subjects, like kayaking, that I hated to keep guys, which was not healthy either.

I found Mr. Right when I stopped playing games and just presented me as myself. I had gotten rid of a toxic friend (who's voice outshouted my other, healthier, friends in my head) 4 months before and was surrounded by friends who reassured me that I was worth being with-and more importantly, I began believing it. I didn't pretend to like football, I didn't wear clothes I'd never wear otherwise, I didn't strut around in high heels for the first four months. I was myself warts and all. And within 5 months we were living together (a first) and within 18 months we were married.

To be fair, I would never have looked at Mr Right if I'd imposed all the same judgements that were being thrown at me. He weighs 20 more lbs than I do, is shorter than a lot of guys I'd dated, and lacks a few social skills. He's also brilliant (literally-MIT undergrad and grad), caring, and exciting. If I hadn't been open to seeing the real him, I would've gotten stuck on the stupid stuff and never gotten to the good stuff.

 

[eyeretinaeye]

It's all about whats in your head and not on your flesh, forget about the models and ones that keep looking in the mirror. Give me a lady that likes doing it and knows where to touch me. Size does not matter and that includes fat, thick, heavy and on and on. BBW can be more fun then 36 24 36.