Best Edging Techniques

[Don_private]

So, how do you actually do that? I can't keep it going for that long. I either get off, or I lose arousal and interest.

Do you really manage to stay near the edge for that long?

100% ABSOLUTELY …(except when I have to take a pee break)…have you tried everything listed?…1/4 chip of Viagra, small bowl of ‘sativa’, at least 3 tabs of your favorite porn sites to switch between, private alone uninterrupted time? If you do the techniques, YOU will last. Currently my 3 sites I’m using are XNXX, XHamster, XVideos…when I get close to cuming, I stop…move to a different tab and look for my next videoclip…I keep a different category on each tab…for instance…on XNXX I might have up ‘blonde teen solo’ to watch masturbation clips, on XVideos I have up ‘Gay College Dorm Sex’ to watch some Gay sex, and in XHamster I might have up ‘Wife sharing’…I find an interesting looking clip…edge to the the precum stage…then switch tabs and search for the next clip…as the categories always change…I get a new exciting clip that is different from the last one…I’m also saving some clips into my category folders for possibly my final orgasm clips. After 5 or 6 clips from THAT category I will change the category …example…I’ll change from Gay College Dorm sex to ‘Beautiful Trans Girls’, and watch a few from that category in rotation…changing categories on each tab over the 3 to 4 hours.
When I was having sex with women, men and couples…I could always last at least an hour of sex…building up to orgasm and then switching positions or thinking about something else to stop myself from cuming…same thing with edging.
1 more thing…just like any sport or hobby…PRACTICE makes perfect…I’ve been practicing this hobby for a few years now…so I can step right up to the edge and know when to switch tabs. In THIS sport/hobby…the ‘practicing’ is more fun than any other hobby or sport I’ve had to practice!!

 

[Don_private]

. I hit a landmine in my edging session today!!
I had a 3 hour session all set up…smoked my bowl, had my porn tabs up…took a tiny piece of Viagra …everything going perfect for the first hour, had a nice solid hard on…THEN I HIT THE LANDMINE, …and I committed the worst thing an Edger can do…I came across an extremely HOT clip of an amateur hot wife getting gangbanged while talking to her husband in 4k…AND I LINGERED TOO LONG!!!…the worst thing an Edger can do!
A ROOKIE mistake!! Every Edger knows ‘when to stop or back off’ when it gets so close to orgasm…but I was high and enjoying the clip…and she was so hot and into it…I just kept watching and listening…and then I felt the approaching surge…I tried stopping but TOO LATE…so I went back to jerking and exploded with a fantastic orgasm!…just TWO HOURS TOO EARLY. I usually have this happen maybe once a year…but not so early into my session!
Well fellow Edgers…lesson learned…I will be more on guard in future sessions!
What a waste of two more hours that I could have been Edging…but I was able to save that video clip in my porn folders on that site.…for future sessions

 

[Don_private]

I love edging... I love how edging corrupts my mind into an even more perverted rabbit hole.

Since im a family man, its hard to find time for constant edging, som most of my edging comes from jerking off a few hours each day without cumming. the number of days depends on the time i got but it can be all from 3 to 30 days which is my maximum days without cumming..

My longest nonstop edging was a weekend when the wife and kids where on a trip.. I did a 21 hour nonstop edging - that was intense

Ever try it high?…smoke a little Sativa first?

 

[hulmule]

Ever try it high?…smoke a little Sativa first?

When that buzz is on ... feels good

 

[The_inspector_and_the_fish]

I'm not sure it's strictly edging because I'm not touching myself much, but on WFH days with few meetings I'm watching porn in and off, getting hard then taking a break, until I'm ready to cum. It certainly generates an impressive amount of precum!

 

[Shanes_OralOrations]

So I do a few different kinds of edging in a way. And no, I don't use any drugs with any of them.

First- facial prep edging. If there's a good chance I'll be getting a blowjob with a facial ending from my wife within the next 4-5 days, then I do everything I can to maximize the load, and the biggest part is edging. Whenever I get a chance I'll watch a little porn (or our homemade porn) stroke to near the edge, then put it away for a while. If it's short notice for BJ, I'll do this a few times an hour for much of a day. Works well to get that load up. The bluer the balls come BJ day, the bigger the load for her!

Second- multi-day edging. I do this if I'm just horny, but do not have a long break in time to dedicate to edging. Basically regular porn or erotica, with some stimulation, letting my overall groove build over a few days till I want to blow. Pretty similar to #1 I guess, but without the end goal. I like this because I'm harder overall, and enjoy the experience more since I'm at a higher aroused level than if I just jerk off to completion each time.

Third is the dedicated multi-hour session. Doesn't happen as much as it used to and usually just 2-3 hours, but I'll still sometimes do an all nighter. Back in the day I had some sessions that were almost 24 hours. No I'm not fully hard the entire time, but some amount of arousal throughout. I obviously can't stroke that long and last (or avoid "rug burn"), so long sessions are usually switching between watching vids while I stroke (or use a vibrator of some type), and then less hands free activities. This includes editing my own porn vids and mixes, writing erotica, chatting online, sharing our homemade erotica, etc. Stuff that keeps me aroused and my seat covered in a steady flow of pre-cum, but doesn't involve direct stimulation. Nothing like a quick meal break while you throw on some more porn while you eat too!

I'll also mix up stimulation beyond just stroking or vibrating. Nipple stimulation, urethral tip rubbing, ball tickling, butt plug (sometimes with a vibrator), squeezing my cock between my thighs, or just rubbing one tiny part of my cock head till it's super sensitive are all different stim techniques I use to vary the pleasure and prevent a rapid build to orgasm.

Fun stuff- I'll have to find time for another one soon!

 

[CWM1819]

100% ABSOLUTELY …(except when I have to take a pee break)…have you tried everything listed?…1/4 chip of Viagra, small bowl of ‘sativa’, at least 3 tabs of your favorite porn sites to switch between, private alone uninterrupted time? If you do the techniques, YOU will last. Currently my 3 sites I’m using are XNXX, XHamster, XVideos…when I get close to cuming, I stop…move to a different tab and look for my next videoclip…I keep a different category on each tab…for instance…on XNXX I might have up ‘blonde teen solo’ to watch masturbation clips, on XVideos I have up ‘Gay College Dorm Sex’ to watch some Gay sex, and in XHamster I might have up ‘Wife sharing’…I find an interesting looking clip…edge to the the precum stage…then switch tabs and search for the next clip…as the categories always change…I get a new exciting clip that is different from the last one…I’m also saving some clips into my category folders for possibly my final orgasm clips. After 5 or 6 clips from THAT category I will change the category …example…I’ll change from Gay College Dorm sex to ‘Beautiful Trans Girls’, and watch a few from that category in rotation…changing categories on each tab over the 3 to 4 hours.
When I was having sex with women, men and couples…I could always last at least an hour of sex…building up to orgasm and then switching positions or thinking about something else to stop myself from cuming…same thing with edging.
1 more thing…just like any sport or hobby…PRACTICE makes perfect…I’ve been practicing this hobby for a few years now…so I can step right up to the edge and know when to switch tabs. In THIS sport/hobby…the ‘practicing’ is more fun than any other hobby or sport I’ve had to practice!!

We seem to have a lot in common! . During a lengthy affair my S.O. and I took turns keeping the other on edge. One day her turn next time my turn! She was amazing. Stories for another time!

 

[Don_private]

Been a few weeks…looking forward to a nice 3 hour edging session tonight…almost as exciting as getting ready for a date that you know will end in sex…3 hour edging session and extremely high is very VERY satisfying

 

[StirlingMorty13]

I'm saving myself for a hot date night with the wife Friday, but couldn't help to have a little edge play this morning

 

[PegMahone]

I like to attach a harness to a couple pillows and ride on large toys with a magic wand on my cock. I can go for hours. On stims, 3 days straight. I can’t get enough anal sex. When I’m edging on my saddle i turn the vibrator off before I cross the line and continue riding until I need the wand again and repeat till I can’t. After getting close four or five times I can usually bounce my way hands free with no wand right into a powerful anal orgasm.

 

[Funsexguy]

Just found this Forum, I know its older, but don't know how I missed it! I love Edging and it is a huge part of my sex life. I am also bi and now in my late 50s. I was trying to think about when the first time was, I heard the term "Edging". I have been doing it since my late teens, 19 or 20. Back then, when I had the house to myself, before it was all internet, it was with my large collection of Penthouse magazines and later gay porn magazines laid out to view my favorites. I can remember challenging myself to say hard all day. Back then just getting naked made me hard LOL! I used to call them, in my mind, solo sessions because one of my buddies and I were getting together for great sex all the time and I had a girlfriend. It was and still is a time for me to just explore all types of sexual situations, whatever turns me on. I will have some shorter sessions at home sometimes and hour or two, but the best is when I am away for the distractions of the house in a nice, rented condo, our hotel room. I know that I have gone all night many times, starting in the evening and ending close to sunrise. I love edging because as a bi guy I enjoy cum and with edging I get to enjoy hours of precum! I was cumming in my own mouth long before I had sex with other guys. With edging the orgasms at the end are so amazing and after a really long session I usually walk around for days in a kind of mellow bliss. I find that after about four weeks I need another long session and If I can get two days in row, even better. I like the hotel room because I don't have to be worried about someone coming home to break up the focus I am in or the buzz I am on. I bring the adapter and hook my computer to the big screen in the room and put in blue tooth ear buds. I also love being nude, so I love the private space. For long sessions I break it up, sometimes I start on Lit chatting then some of my favorite gay porn. I will also sometimes spend an hour or two on a cam site. Cam sites can be fun, and I have found that if I am open with guys and just ask if they are up for chatting and stroking, we can get into some great conversations about what they like about sex with guys, or they may be into posing in different positions. Guys can be so fun! I really like the list that was shared in this forum of how to prepare. I prepare sometimes days in advance for these sessions. I like to be well groomed, fresh haircut and trimmed nails, feet and hands. I also bring my favorite cologne, so the room has a sent I like. I douche my ass really good, so I am clean and no bowel moment is going to interrupt the session. I shower before I start, shave my legs and give myself a really good rubdown message with coconut oil. I always have plenty of snacks and I like big glasses of water around to stay hydrated. I also bring my cock ring and dildos and lots of lube, so that I can act out the scenes that are going on in the gay porn, be the bottom or the top, this is a fun turn on! It also gives me the great feeling of a hard cock in my mouth or ass. I have had many anal orgasms doing this and the precum flows like crazy! I can't wear the cock ring the whole time or the head of my cock would explode or feel like it will. I have tried stroking with coconut oil the whole time but have found the sometimes I end up raw for a few days, so I usually will save the oil or lube for the very end. I also like thigh high stockings sometimes, so I bring a few different pairs and thongs, they just feel sexy to me. I have never worn them with a guy before, but I do like posing in front of the mirror in them with my bubble butt. Mirrors are always great addition to these sessions, if they are there. I will move a chair in front of the mirror for a great view of my hard cock or get a great view of the dildo fucking myself in different positions. I like rooms that have a couch and extra living room chairs to get into different positions on. I think what keeps me going so long is mixing it up, trying different things and switching up the types of videos. I also move around a lot, standing lying and posing. Having to pee always happens, but in a hotel room I just stand in the shower or tub and wash it down. I am not into pee play at all, but peeing with a rock-hard cock is a whole other sensation. I feel I have a great sex life without edging but love the solo time to explore!!

 

[Flickinghardbeans]

Love peeing with a hard cock that was on the verge of exploding. I edge daily and sometimes weekly

 

[Flickinghardbeans]

Love my own cum, love stroking with guys and hope to meet in real life soon.

 

[cutebak3r512]

Agree…but one edible and I’m stoned for 6 to 7 hours…but with flower I can be high for 1 hour to 12 hours…I determine the length of the high…what is your usual edging routine?

Oh I may have to try the plug idea w my next partner

 

[Midnight_Voyager26]

I can do it for hours. You just have to learn to take pauses at the right time, slow your stokes, and prevent the build up past the point of no return.

Everyone has their own method, but I do agree you need to stay lubed up.

 

[ICantLeafYou]

Being stoned really turns me on and I love to edge while high. The more I edge, the harder I cum and the more times I'm able to cum in a row.

I like to roll a digital d20 to dictate how many edges I have to do before I'm allowed to finally cum. And there's a twist with that: If I roll a 1, I'm not allowed to cum at all that day but I can edge as much as I want. If I roll a 20, I can cum whenever I please.

 

[hulmule]

So times when im nice and horny, oiled up and have a nice buzz going on its nice to get close and work back down then work back up. Chatting sometimes workes good with edging. I got a buzz on tonight

 

[Midnight_Voyager26]

Being stoned really turns me on and I love to edge while high. The more I edge, the harder I cum and the more times I'm able to cum in a row.

I like to roll a digital d20 to dictate how many edges I have to do before I'm allowed to finally cum. And there's a twist with that: If I roll a 1, I'm not allowed to cum at all that day but I can edge as much as I want. If I roll a 20, I can cum whenever I please.

https://rolladie.net/roll-a-d20-die

 

[ICantLeafYou]

https://rolladie.net/roll-a-d20-die

I just Google roll d20 and a result instantly pops up.

 

[Don_private]

Being stoned really turns me on and I love to edge while high. The more I edge, the harder I cum and the more times I'm able to cum in a row.

I like to roll a digital d20 to dictate how many edges I have to do before I'm allowed to finally cum. And there's a twist with that: If I roll a 1, I'm not allowed to cum at all that day but I can edge as much as I want. If I roll a 20, I can cum whenever I please.

Curious why women edge?…if I could have unlimited orgasms like women…I would just masturbate and cum until my hand got tired or my clit got sore…I’d be interested to hear the difference between a woman edging and a guy?

 

[Don_private]

Just found this Forum, I know it’s older, but don't know how I missed it! I love Edging and it is a huge part of my sex life. I am also bi and now in my late 50s. I was trying to think about when the first time was, I heard the term "Edging". I have been doing it since my late teens, 19 or 20. Back then, when I had the house to myself, before it was all internet, it was with my large collection of Penthouse magazines and later gay porn magazines laid out to view my favorites. I can remember challenging myself to say hard all day. Back then just getting naked made me hard LOL! I used to call them, in my mind, solo sessions because one of my buddies and I were getting together for great sex all the time and I had a girlfriend. It was and still is a time for me to just explore all types of sexual situations, whatever turns me on. I will have some shorter sessions at home sometimes and hour or two, but the best is when I am away for the distractions of the house in a nice, rented condo, our hotel room. I know that I have gone all night many times, starting in the evening and ending close to sunrise. I love edging because as a bi guy I enjoy cum and with edging I get to enjoy hours of precum! I was cumming in my own mouth long before I had sex with other guys. With edging the orgasms at the end are so amazing and after a really long session I usually walk around for days in a kind of mellow bliss. I find that after about four weeks I need another long session and If I can get two days in row, even better. I like the hotel room because I don't have to be worried about someone coming home to break up the focus I am in or the buzz I am on. I bring the adapter and hook my computer to the big screen in the room and put in blue tooth ear buds. I also love being nude, so I love the private space. For long sessions I break it up, sometimes I start on Lit chatting then some of my favorite gay porn. I will also sometimes spend an hour or two on a cam site. Cam sites can be fun, and I have found that if I am open with guys and just ask if they are up for chatting and stroking, we can get into some great conversations about what they like about sex with guys, or they may be into posing in different positions. Guys can be so fun! I really like the list that was shared in this forum of how to prepare. I prepare sometimes days in advance for these sessions. I like to be well groomed, fresh haircut and trimmed nails, feet and hands. I also bring my favorite cologne, so the room has a sent I like. I douche my ass really good, so I am clean and no bowel moment is going to interrupt the session. I shower before I start, shave my legs and give myself a really good rubdown message with coconut oil. I always have plenty of snacks and I like big glasses of water around to stay hydrated. I also bring my cock ring and dildos and lots of lube, so that I can act out the scenes that are going on in the gay porn, be the bottom or the top, this is a fun turn on! It also gives me the great feeling of a hard cock in my mouth or ass. I have had many anal orgasms doing this and the precum flows like crazy! I can't wear the cock ring the whole time or the head of my cock would explode or feel like it will. I have tried stroking with coconut oil the whole time but have found the sometimes I end up raw for a few days, so I usually will save the oil or lube for the very end. I also like thigh high stockings sometimes, so I bring a few different pairs and thongs, they just feel sexy to me. I have never worn them with a guy before, but I do like posing in front of the mirror in them with my bubble butt. Mirrors are always great addition to these sessions, if they are there. I will move a chair in front of the mirror for a great view of my hard cock or get a great view of the dildo fucking myself in different positions. I like rooms that have a couch and extra living room chairs to get into different positions on. I think what keeps me going so long is mixing it up, trying different things and switching up the types of videos. I also move around a lot, standing lying and posing. Having to pee always happens, but in a hotel room I just stand in the shower or tub and wash it down. I am not into pee play at all, but peeing with a rock-hard cock is a whole other sensation. I feel I have a great sex life without edging but love the solo time to explore!!

Glad you enjoy this thread…it definitely has become a great hobby for me that I get excited about in anticipation …have you ever gotten high before edging?…smoking one bowl and then edging sending the edging to a whole new level…being high and watching the porn clips…you can feel like you are there!…and, the orgasm at the end when high lasts a very long time!…I don’t get the same with a gummy, I think it’s too strong…but smoking a bowl is always PERFECT! I am also Bi…so as u stated…the categories that I can edge to are doubled…I can easily move from hetero gangbang to gay gangbang and enjoy both the same. I even have another folder that I keep clips of women and men that look very similar to the women and men I’ve been with…when I’m super buzzed, I absolutely see them as my past lovers…if you haven’t tried getting high…try it…but use SATIVA…Indica will relax you too much to keep a hard on…Sativa energizes you

 

[ICantLeafYou]

Curious why women edge?…if I could have unlimited orgasms like women…I would just masturbate and cum until my hand got tired or my clit got sore…I’d be interested to hear the difference between a woman edging and a guy?

I'm one-and-done if I don't edge. And I cum much, much harder if I edge.

 

[bookworm69]

I'm one-and-done if I don't edge. And I cum much, much harder if I edge.

Quality over quantity apparently applies for women, too.

 

[Don_private]

I'm one-and-done if I don't edge. And I cum much, much harder if I edge.

Do you edge to porn?…if yes…what is your ‘go to’ category or categories?… fingers only or do you use a toy?…even edge with one in your butt and one in pussy?…come on…us guys would love to hear your favorite routine!?

 

[ICantLeafYou]

Do you edge to porn?…if yes…what is your ‘go to’ category or categories?… fingers only or do you use a toy?…even edge with one in your butt and one in pussy?…come on…us guys would love to hear your favorite routine!?

I read erotic stories while edging, yes. I start with fingers and move on to dildos and clit sucking toys.

I live blog my edging sessions [and shorter masturbation adventures] in the thread linked in my signature. Here is the start of my most recent edging session.