Feedback on the "feeldoe"

[Etoile]

As for pulling out. We've been over this.. both need a harness for anal play. (though I have friends who say that they can manage without the harness with the feeldoe) The feeldoe's bulb being pulled has to have a different sensation than the Nexus I would think. But rather than wonder.. I'm asking you.

Oh yes! It would certainly feel different. I can state that pretty definitely because I get fisted all the time, so that's kind of like the Feeldoe's bulb. When a dildo is pulled out, it just sort of slips right out. It slides and there's very little resistance. But the bulb (or a fist) takes a little more tug, and then it just goes POP and comes out. Also, as opposed to tugging, it can be pushed out by the woman taking it. I do this all the time - just a little push and it pops out. It's a very different feel, absolutely, between a dildo and a bulb/fist.

 

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Thank you

I'm not sure I want to equate the bulb to a fist..... 1.5" diam vs... ?? 4"?? One I can take the other scares me big time.

THANK YOU for at least confirming my hopes about the differences.

You've told me more than all the women at the feeldoe group combined.

 

[LindaL]

I'm not familiar with the Nexxuss at all, but I've used a feeldoe with two other women (at different times!) and we all 3 of us loved them! Tho with one of the women, she couldn't tighten her kegels as well as I, so I pretty much exclusively used the bulb end.

We also weren't super vigorous. Even so, about a quarter of the time we'd have to stop and re-insert.

But hell, my husband and I have to stop to do that at least that often! LOL!

 

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Did you try ALL the possibilities?

Did any of you try taking the bulb anally? I still haven't found anyone I know who can answer whether that works. If it works for ladies, then I know it work even better for a guy holding it.

I'm not familiar with the Nexxuss at all, but I've used a feeldoe with two other women (at different times!) and we all 3 of us loved them! Tho with one of the women, she couldn't tighten her kegels as well as I, so I pretty much exclusively used the bulb end.

We also weren't super vigorous. Even so, about a quarter of the time we'd have to stop and re-insert.

But hell, my husband and I have to stop to do that at least that often! LOL!

 

[rcuhljr]

Did any of you try taking the bulb anally? I still haven't found anyone I know who can answer whether that works. If it works for ladies, then I know it work even better for a guy holding it.

Pretty sure I've seen someone say they did, and honestly with a little practice patience and copious lube it should be doable.

 

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I know we saw someone say they had....

The problem as I recall (for me) was that they weren't very descriptive about the feelings and the whole process .. positions tried etc.

Pretty sure I've seen someone say they did, and honestly with a little practice patience and copious lube it should be doable.

 

[LindaL]

Did any of you try taking the bulb anally? I still haven't found anyone I know who can answer whether that works. If it works for ladies, then I know it work even better for a guy holding it.

Nope. Not into that.

 

[spork47]

Did any of you try taking the bulb anally?

This guy has. I love it - as expected, it feels very full, but doesn't give me any depth-related discomfort. I prefer using the bulb for solo play.

My wife and I tried a DP arrangement with it: I was a guess a bit greedy and wanted to be in her ass, which worked, but then the geometry wasn't right to get the feeldoe in her vagina - the toy is too short to really do anything useful for her.

 

[Etoile]

My wife and I tried a DP arrangement with it: I was a guess a bit greedy and wanted to be in her ass, which worked, but then the geometry wasn't right to get the feeldoe in her vagina - the toy is too short to really do anything useful for her.

That's what I expected would be the case. I've heard lots of hopeful wishing that it could be used for DP in that way, but I can't envision them both being at the right angle.

 

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Etoile... you are my only hope.

That's what I expected would be the case. I've heard lots of hopeful wishing that it could be used for DP in that way, but I can't envision them both being at the right angle.

Length... well.... it might be on the horizon.... perhaps ... maybe.. don't bet on it.
Realistic? I have some friends who are making a sheath to fit over a slimdoe.

DP... angle...? the feeldoe does bend.... and would rotate bit ... but the length is the problem. Has anyone found a position that works? Don't hurt yourself trying different things, but have fun.

Are there any others out there who've tried both feeldoe and nexus? I think there were a couple. I'm still waiting on Etoile as the final answer. Are they both worthy in their own right? I was bummed when I heard the nexus needed a harness, and then it turned out that the feeldoe did too for fm use.

I'm still waiting to hear if turning the feeldoe around so that SHE can play with the horse end (not dp) is good for anyone. This is one option that the nexus doesn't have.

There was a vid on a yahoo group that showed the flexibility of the nexus. I haven't seen much that shows what a feeldoe is like except at webelez.com.

 

[Etoile]

I have some friends who are making a sheath to fit over a slimdoe.

We've used a Cyberskin sheath - like this one - for a long time. It would be nice if it came in a "no extension" style, so it was just the sheath without the extra tip, but I have seen these with both 1.5" and 3" extensions. They work really well; my wife is sensitive and silicone is too solid for her but the Cyberskin feels great because it's more realistic.

I'm still waiting to hear if turning the feeldoe around so that SHE can play with the horse end (not dp) is good for anyone. This is one option that the nexus doesn't have.

I'm not sure what you're describing. She can play with the horse and it's not DP? Where is the pony in this FM scenario? I'm confused!

 

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We've used a Cyberskin sheath - like this one - for a long time. It would be nice if it came in a "no extension" style, so it was just the sheath without the extra tip, but I have seen these with both 1.5" and 3" extensions. They work really well; my wife is sensitive and silicone is too solid for her but the Cyberskin feels great because it's more realistic.


I'm not sure what you're describing. She can play with the horse and it's not DP? Where is the pony in this FM scenario? I'm confused!

He (or she) takes the bulb anally... turn the horse to the rear for the driver to use.. except that now it's a bit different. I don't know if this would be good for her. I know it would be fine for me.

How well does the cyber skin hold on to things..... say a 1.25 diameter slimdoe?

This might be the answer for those hoping to make the dp idea work.
http://www.happytimetoy.com/2253.html

Thanks Etoile!

 

[Etoile]

I'm still not clear on what you're describing, but oh well. The sleeve does hold on very well, it's actually pretty small but you stretch it to get it over the shaft of whatever you're putting it on.

 

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humph, Etoile

Take the feeldoe.
Lovingly put it up your lover's ass.
Turn it around facing the back so you can mount the horse in doggy style behind her/him.
or..... they could get behind you and drive the horse....

Two positions..... I don't know if either works... that's the point of asking.

Is that clear.

I'll come over and show you if you'd like. (or... for you I could send you a pic)

HUGS

 

[Etoile]

We better quit now, I'm not going to figure this one out, LOL.

 

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No... Etoile ...more. I can't leave this.

We better quit now, I'm not going to figure this one out, LOL.

Take the short end..... press it home up your lover's arse.
It will hold. I sort of know this.
It's like a ball and socket... you can turn it any direction from that point, so where you want to be is up to you... but you'll have the long part to play with. This won't be something you can hold on to, but I'm sure you could find ways to have fun with it.

Your little suggestion with the extender is great!

 

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Cyberskin..... I'm not going to try it.

After looking into it.... and thinking about it....
Apparently cyberskin falls into the catagory of materials that are better left alone and not used on sensitive parts of your body.

http://www.grist.org/news/maindish/2005/12/06/gertz/

http://www.womynsware.com/Side Menu/BuyerbeWomynsWare

Here's what they put out... to clean their product... since it gathers "stuff" quickly and can't be cleaned apparently like it probably should.
Health Alert! One of our ever-alert customers contacted us recently about the CyberSkin cleaner product. We quote: "You have some misinformation here, and are erring to much on the side of kindness. If you read closely, you will see that CyberSkin has been very careful to avoid saying that Renew *cleans* anything-- the actual lingo used is that it will "restore the texture." What's in it? Get this--100% TALC! Honest. Really. I have a bottle. So, not only is the one maintenance product available not even a cleaner... not only is it a substance available down at the corner grocery without the special packaging and price ... but it's a substance known to promote cervical cancer!"

Figuring that for the use I'm considering the extension would have to be removed and cleaned after each use... I think it would be a problems.

I was warned that the idea of putting something under it would probably cause it to rip.

SO.... back to waiting.

 

[Etoile]

We've never had a problem with ours, and my wife has extremely sensitive skin. I don't think it's necessarily as big a deal as they are making it out to be. And besides, condoms are not just for live cocks...if you use one over cyberskin it's perfectly fine, assuming there's a problem in the first place. Which, again, I don't know that there is. There is information here and here that doesn't match up with what you've found. So I don't think it's necessarily as unsafe as you've found, although it's certainly not as safe as silicone or something.

So I still think cyberskin is fine...

 

[Etoile]

I am pleased to report that the Nexus can indeed be used without a harness.

 

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Hey! Had you never tried??

This is out of the blue!
Now I have to re evaluate everything!
Bad Etoile!

I am pleased to report that the Nexus can indeed be used without a harness.

 

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More folks are posting at the yahoo group finally

Etoile... tell us more about this breakthrough!

Can you play the same games with reversing it... ? OH... no you can't cuz you still don't get that!


Oh.... the yahoo feeldoe group is about go to 1000 members.

 

[Etoile]

Etoile... tell us more about this breakthrough!

Can you play the same games with reversing it... ? OH... no you can't cuz you still don't get that!

If you mean turning it around, I don't see how you could. The Nexus is shaped to fit a woman's vagina, facing one direction. It would be pretty uncomfortable if you turned it around or tried to put it in the ass, I would think. The Feeldoe bulb is symmetrical, so it's more suited to that kind of thing.

As for the breakthrough...ahem...it was fun...

 

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Ok... I'm just grinning now.

If you mean turning it around, I don't see how you could. The Nexus is shaped to fit a woman's vagina, facing one direction. It would be pretty uncomfortable if you turned it around or tried to put it in the ass, I would think. The Feeldoe bulb is symmetrical, so it's more suited to that kind of thing.

As for the breakthrough...ahem...it was fun...

Congrats Etoile!!

 

[apple_pi]

I am pleased to report that the Nexus can indeed be used without a harness.

I have tried the Nexus and found it to be a world of fun and joy. It is a great toy. Of course for us its f/f only. I can't say how it would work on a guy. And I'm sure I never will... lol

 

[apple_pi]

I have never seen anyone so committed to a toy in my life. I am almost on the verge of purchasing a Feeldoe, If you would be so kind as to tell me you gender? And have you used this toy with other women?

Thank you