Female Trans - New Intense Attraction; Gay, Straight, Bi?

[EdgeMark567]

I recently discovered I have a strong attraction to female trans women. I identity as a hetero guy, love a women's body but also appreciate a man's body that's in good shape - love hard bodies both men and women. I had a few threesomes in college with my best friend and our girlfriends. I think the fact we used to jack each other off and only once did we give each other a BJ added to my appreciation of a hard cock. Never kissed a man and that's not something I want to do. I became curious about a female trans body, tits, great ass, and with a cock. I did some searching online and found some incredibly beautify trans women with amazing bodies and cocks. I immediately was turned on and started fantasizing about being with one of these women. The thought of exploring their body was incredibly erotic. On the flip side, I completely love sex with my wife and enjoying her body. She was a D1 Athlete, Volleyball player, muscular, long legs, which fits with my attraction to muscular bodies. I wish I could tell my wife of my fantasy but that's a no go.

So the question I have for you all, where does this attraction put me on the spectrum? Am I somewhere between gay and straight? Or, just a guy that's open to beautiful people and happen to also be open to both?

I look forward to hearing what y'all have to say.

 

[Britva415]

How much does it matter?

 

[EdgeMark567]

How much does it matter?

It doesn’t really. I’m just curious what others think. Since it’s a new feeling throwing it out for discussion.

 

[Not Normal]

You're a straight man who understands the difference between sex and gender. Maybe you're pansexual in a way.

 

[Britva415]

Or “bisexual” in the sense of being attracted to “two (or more)” kinds of people.

I don’t mean that seriously. There are people who will try to broaden the conventional understanding of what “bi” means by saying it just means “more than one gender,” but calling oneself “bi” for liking a trans woman implies that she’s a man.

“Pan” implies attraction to “any and every kind” of person, but Pans don’t have the monopoly on attraction to a trans or transfem person.

I think that continuing to identify as “straight” is perfectly fine, though. We are talking about your attraction to a woman, after all.

 

[Escierto]

Or “bisexual” in the sense of being attracted to “two (or more)” kinds of people.

I don’t mean that seriously. There are people who will try to broaden the conventional understanding of what “bi” means by saying it just means “more than one gender,” but calling oneself “bi” for liking a trans woman implies that she’s a man.

“Pan” implies attraction to “any and every kind” of person, but Pans don’t have the monopoly on attraction to a trans or transfem person.

I think that continuing to identify as “straight” is perfectly fine, though. We are talking about your attraction to a woman, after all.

I used to say that I am straight because I do see my trans girlfriend as a woman. However you can call me gay or bi or whatever.

 

[EdgeMark567]

You're a straight man who understands the difference between sex and gender. Maybe you're pansexual in a way.

Thank you. I've been wondering about this and feel this is more in line with who I am.

 

[EdgeMark567]

I used to say that I am straight because I do see my trans girlfriend as a woman. However you can call me gay or bi or whatever.

I understand what you are saying because I also see the Trans women that I am attracted to as women.

 

[EdgeMark567]

I am very drawn to wanting to experience a trans sexual relationship. I'm all about the sexual attraction (I'm a Scorpio) as well as the mental attraction. I've never been into one night stands because I need to have a mental connection as well as physical. However, not to say someone I find physically attractive I wouldn't open to door to exploring on the first night, just maybe not "all the way"...

 

[Escierto]

I am very drawn to wanting to experience a trans sexual relationship. I'm all about the sexual attraction (I'm a Scorpio) as well as the mental attraction. I've never been into one night stands because I need to have a mental connection as well as physical. However, not to say someone I find physically attractive I wouldn't open to door to exploring on the first night, just maybe not "all the way"...

My trans girlfriend and I met originally for sex but after our first day in person together, we realized that we were in love and we have been in love ever since, over five years later.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Call yourself what ever you wish. But your not Straight or hetero sexual.
You can look this up rather easily unless your in denial or uneducated.

 

[PhoenixRyzing]

Does it really matter? Like what you like and enjoy what you enjoy.