Svenskaflicka
Fountain
- Joined
- Jun 9, 2002
- Posts
- 16,142
Hmmm... OK, I'm beginning to get it now. The togetherness of the outcasts, huh?
Follow along with the video below to see how to install our site as a web app on your home screen.
Note: This feature may not be available in some browsers.

Quasimodem said:I was not planning to respond further on this thread. I had stated my opinion, and others were free to either state theirs, or pillory mine.
However, I have had one further thought, which I would like to place on the record, for whatever value it may contain.
It concerns vocabulary.
The problem with feminist as a qualitative term is that it does not differentiate across a wide range of opinions. My defining femi-nazi, as I have learned to use it, seems to have only exacerbated the problem.
Even this term, when used to separate extremists from feminists with moderate goals - like ERA, et cetera - is too offensive to apply. Even if those extremists do much more harm than good to feminism, by radicalizing how the movement is precieved.
Men's attitudes can be described with a range (not great, but at least a group of ‘code' words) of defining vocabulary: chauvinistic (pig), to modern, to (depending upon who is judging) enlightened and supportive, or alternately pussy-whipped.
What is the term for WOMEN who – in the midst of an ERA debate – pipe up with:
"I don't know why YOU PEOPLE have to be so negative? I'm a housewife, and I wouldn't leave MY family for ANY career. My family IS my career. It's the BEST role to which any REAL woman can aspire."
You know ––– those women who took the pledge to obey their hubby as he left to join in the Million Man March.
"Dick-whipped" just doesn't have quite the same ring to it as "pussy-whipped."
Can anyone suggest the proper term to use for the opposite of femi-nazi?
I will leave you to your deliberations.
Yeah, something like that. In the N-word case it is a clear case of taking control. If you use a demeaning word on yourself and your peers, in an afffectionate way, you make anyone who tries to use it in it's original oppressionate way a bit more ridiculous. If a black man already calls himsef a nigger, and a woman calls herself a bitch, then what is the point for Mr Chauvinist Racist to use those words for insult purposes?Svenskaflicka said:Hmmm... OK, I'm beginning to get it now. The togetherness of the outcasts, huh?
Icingsugar said:Yeah, something like that. In the N-word case it is a clear case of taking control. If you use a demeaning word on yourself and your peers, in an afffectionate way, you make anyone who tries to use it in it's original oppressionate way a bit more ridiculous. If a black man already calls himsef a nigger, and a woman calls herself a bitch, then what is the point for Mr Chauvinist Racist to use those words for insult purposes?
Yes, there are even sections in bookstores labeled Queer Studies (at least in San Francisco).ladylust said:... Some of the university programs in gay areas are now called "Queer Studies."
ComfortablyCold said:One thing I would like to see by the time I die is a woman standing behind the presidential podium.
perdita said:Yes, there are even sections in bookstores labeled Queer Studies (at least in San Francisco).
I'd love to have a "women studies" department or area labeled "Cunt Studies". Seriously. I know many women (including some of my best friends on the AH) still can't get 'round the word, but I love "cunt". It's a powerful word for me in a very positive way, esp. vs. pussy which I find a bit puerile most of the time.
a proud cunt, Perdita
i have a wet pussy, well it's raining here and he just got in, my cunt's just a bit damp, giggle!!Hiya, Lorri, love. My puss is a bit neglected these days but she'll live (I hope).LorriLove said:how's your cunt honey![]()
![]()

Quint said:I'd personally qualify this by saying: if the female candidate deserves it more than the males. I'll die happy if every president in my lifetime is male, as long as they are more qualified for the office than any female candidates available in each election.
sweetnpetite said:I'll be happy when there have been so many women as presidents, vicepresidents and candidates that it''s not longer an issue. I'll really be happy when the democratic and republican final candidates are both female at the same time.
sweetnpetite said:I'll be happy when there have been so many women as presidents, vicepresidents and candidates that it''s not longer an issue. I'll really be happy when the democratic and republican final candidates are both female at the same time.
I'll also be happy to take her any way we can get her. We only have to put up with her for 4 years, and she can't be any worse than who's presently in office.
ComfortablyCold said:Women are not always stronger than men - physically, or emotionally. On that same token, I have known women that were significantly more stable and a lot stronger than most men I know.
Generalizations are what cause these bias' and racial problems to start. If a woman had the mental stability, charisma and strength to lead this country, all the power to her - I want to see her in power. I know there are several thousand out there with that potential, unfortunately, the ultra-conservative majority of our nation will refuse to let it happen until their generation has been whittled out.
I by no means want to see a person in office who does not have the intelligence or confidence to lead - man or woman (coughGeorgeWcough).
I think we'll get to the point where people have forgotten their prejudices and social stigmas and move on. We don't segregate the Irish anymore. Unfortunately, while I think that day is close, it might not be for a few decades.
Dirty Slut said:Isn't it funny how most people are willing to sit around and wait for the eventual change that they suppose logically should take place very soon? And if they were right, then Why aren't we colonizing Mars yet? Because every year we whittle down the budget of our spaceprogram thanks to media hype, and apathy.
DS
Wait a minute. You say 'vote for a woman because she's a woman' and compare it with voting for the handsome candidate? Do you say that it is right that people vote for the looker?sweetnpetite said:The ceiling needs to be broken.
That is my first priority. You are free to disagree.
[...]
This 'best person qualified for the job' is an utter and complete myth. Its not about qualification, it's about where you stand on issues. Male or female, some are gonna agree, some will disagree. "qualifications" is a red hering. 'best person for the job' is a red hering as well. People vote with there emotions, whether they admit to it or not. People will vote for a 'handsom' president cuz he's handsom or a republican cuz he's a republican, so why not a woman cuz she's a woman?
Isn't that why political parties exist? To give the untinterrested voter a clear set of options. The only problem I see is that the political system in the US is not representative, but regional, and that there are only two real options when it really comes down to it.sweetnpetite said:the majoriy of voters don't give it any more consideration than that. (D vs R)
Dirty Slut said:"The truth is when it comes to sex, women just have to show up."
When it comes to finding an equal paying job, men have no idea what equal pay, stock options, and benifits means. To them it all comes down to the bottom line: Profit & Loss. Women, and certain ethnic groups can be paid less, and still make the company look progressive, and help keep the overhead down thus raising the profit level.
To be honest, there shouldn't be a spot on any job application form for sex, religion, race, or age. What do any of those things have to do with the job that one is applying for? Everybody has sex, eventually. Everybody believes in what they believe as far as God is concerned. Everybody applying for a job is human, or they'd be under investigation, at a carnival side show, or performing in the circus, or on CNN. Everybody applying for a job was born, and will die one day, but how their birthday makes a difference compared to their skill, and experiance is beyond me.
Obviously men put these things on application forms in the first place for a reason, and that reason can only be for controling who they might hire. As I understand it these things use to be in boxes, that you filled out as in SEX: And you had to put down Male, or female. But when people started putting the word "Occationally" that was changed to SEX: Male/Female and you had to circle one or the other. And later became put the dot where you belong on the internet. Male Female and a checkmark, or dot appears next to the one you click on. Same thing happened with RACE: when folks started putting down "Human" as their answer. I suspect the same is true for religion, and age in the future.
Men as a matter of course think nothing of this little devilish devise as they are the ones who came up with it. But it pisses me off when I walk into a room to give my opinion on a work related item, and all I get for my troubles is the latest Blond jokes, after the meeting is over, and nothing changes either way on what I was asked to spend 40 work hours on in the first place.
DS
sweetnpetite said:
This 'best person qualified for the job' is an utter and complete myth. Its not about qualification, it's about where you stand on issues. Male or female, some are gonna agree, some will disagree. "qualifications" is a red hering. 'best person for the job' is a red hering as well. People vote with there emotions, whether they admit to it or not. People will vote for a 'handsom' president cuz he's handsom or a republican cuz he's a republican, so why not a woman cuz she's a woman?