Find a Muse (or not need one)

[toffeegyrl]

Since meeting and marrying my husband, I have somewhat locked away the sexier parts of me -- specifically the part that writes erotica. I miss it, being able to express myself in that way, and would like to begin again, but find that I lack inspiration.

My husband is simply not the sensual type, and has made it clear he does not wish to share in my desire to write about sex.

So how do I find inspiration for erotica in a less-than-erotic place? Or not need inspiration at all, but somehow (spontaneously?) create it from thin air?

 

[velcroktty]

Write what's in your daydreams and memories and if you start to run short of those, use what's left and leave the rest up to whatever your imagination can conjure up... You have no limits and can feel free to delve into as much of as many far reaching extremes as you mght like to. Nothing is off limit and there are no taboo subjects and/or senerios. Writing lets you have the pleasure of experiencing anything your heart desires all totally safe and carefree. It's almost asif yu can have the bes of both worlds -- you can screw anyone anywhere and will not catch a disease and you won't get caught unless you would like to expand on that thought more. You can be as slutty or as prim and proper as you want. You can dress up or dress down or run around buttnaked in the woods if you want. You can play hard to get or get out your whip and start beating some ass. Be tied up or be the one holding the ropes.
With that I'll end this and leave you to go on and enjoy whatever pleasures happen to pleasure your fancy tonight....

 

[Exciteher]

....I have somewhat locked away the sexier parts of me -- specifically the part that writes erotica. I miss it, being able to express myself in that way, and would like to begin again...

So how do I find inspiration for erotica in a less-than-erotic place? Or not need inspiration at all, but somehow (spontaneously?) create it from thin air?

ummmm...maybe just allow what you write, to unlock the sexier parts of you? What is inspiration for you? Perhaps for starters... just write about that? What does inspiration look like, sound like, feel like, taste like and smell like to you... write about that maybe? Don't have to write a story ... just write about what would inspire you to write!

 

[toffeegyrl]

ummmm...maybe just allow what you write, to unlock the sexier parts of you? What is inspiration for you? Perhaps for starters... just write about that? What does inspiration look like, sound like, feel like, taste like and smell like to you... write about that maybe? Don't have to write a story ... just write about what would inspire you to write!

Hm....

If you don't mind, I'm going to file this away for permanent reference. Excellent advice. Many thanks.

 

[M's girl]

I sense some disapointment in him not wanting to share this with you. So I imagine you would like to. Write down those fantasies. You are at your desk starting a new story as he walks in. Describe the tension because you are not sure how he will react. Hell, you have to decide if you will hide it from him or not on the spot. He sees what you are doing and picks up on your insecurities and then he pulls a chair close and sits behind you and starts massaging your back and neck while he asks what you've been writing so far.

You read back to him what you wrote so far and after that he continues and finishes the story for you. He touches you all over while he whispers what's next and next.... and then some in your ear. You feel how his desire is growing, etcetera etcetera.

Hey, it's something I could work with Of course I am writing erotic stories for M already and we enjoy reading them back together...

Just have fun with this innocent desire of yours. Hope he will see how erotic and fun it can be some day. Until then.... just dream and then write about it!