Finding couples for a male third?
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M's girl
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OK, you are right.
Listen, this is something that is in the top 10 of most people's fantasies and if you stick around here a little longer you will find out that it works for only a very small percentage of those people who actually get around to trying something like this. And this is Lit; not even the average real world where a lot of people are less easy around sexual issues maybe.
Do some reading on this board. There are plenty of threads dealing with threesomes, swingers etcetera. Check out the Blank Manual (top of the HOW TO index page) and find threads on all topics categorized!
Really, this question has been asked soooooo many times, it's almost not funny anymore
Oh, and welcome to Lit, by the way.
Listen, this is something that is in the top 10 of most people's fantasies and if you stick around here a little longer you will find out that it works for only a very small percentage of those people who actually get around to trying something like this. And this is Lit; not even the average real world where a lot of people are less easy around sexual issues maybe.
Do some reading on this board. There are plenty of threads dealing with threesomes, swingers etcetera. Check out the Blank Manual (top of the HOW TO index page) and find threads on all topics categorized!
Really, this question has been asked soooooo many times, it's almost not funny anymore
Oh, and welcome to Lit, by the way.
southernsky
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oh come on, at least it just shows that we have one more experimental man on earth, which is much better than a stuck up closed minded prejudiced freaked out dude. IMHO of course.
I've seen bulletin boards at local sex shops where they advertised who they were and who they wanted to hook up with.
I've seen bulletin boards at local sex shops where they advertised who they were and who they wanted to hook up with.
yoshimitsu
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If there is a swinging comunity near you I would try to find it.
I just googled colorado swingers and came up with this http://www*****lifestyles.com/swingers/CO-swingers.html
and several others.
Even if you don't find people your interested in try to get to know some of them they will probably know others.
You can also search places like myspace for swingers.
There is also adultfriendfinder.com and similar places. I have checked them out but you need to pay to use it so I never went farther than looking.
I just googled colorado swingers and came up with this http://www*****lifestyles.com/swingers/CO-swingers.html
and several others.
Even if you don't find people your interested in try to get to know some of them they will probably know others.
You can also search places like myspace for swingers.
There is also adultfriendfinder.com and similar places. I have checked them out but you need to pay to use it so I never went farther than looking.
swinglifestyle.com
swingersboard.com
nasca.com
AFF
many others but the areas they cover vary....swingdateclub and lifestylelounge
The line may be long but we have done quite a few single guys.....
And now expanding to bi guys more than the straight ones.
Do keep in mind, swingers don't want married cheaters for the most part.
For that there are other links...lots of yahoo groups.
To start, go to swingersboard and read everything on single males in the lifestyle..it's not easy and you have to be super cautious how you behave.
Even just reading old threads FIRST and then asking questions means you pay attention.
That is a big plus for anyone.
swingersboard.com
nasca.com
AFF
many others but the areas they cover vary....swingdateclub and lifestylelounge
The line may be long but we have done quite a few single guys.....
And now expanding to bi guys more than the straight ones.
Do keep in mind, swingers don't want married cheaters for the most part.
For that there are other links...lots of yahoo groups.
To start, go to swingersboard and read everything on single males in the lifestyle..it's not easy and you have to be super cautious how you behave.
Even just reading old threads FIRST and then asking questions means you pay attention.
That is a big plus for anyone.
Appreciated
Thanks. Although I've been chatting, using messengers (and those types of tools) to communicate through the net for several years, I've never really taken part in any message boards or forums so I am just getting the hang of it.
I had a feeling it wasn't going to be easy to find a man wanting to share his wife, and just as difficult to get a dude to let his wife share him with another dude at the same time.
I'm glad my post wasn't the one that pushed it over the limit of being "funny anymore" though... LOL
M's girl said:OK, you are right.
Listen, this is something that is in the top 10 of most people's fantasies and if you stick around here a little longer you will find out that it works for only a very small percentage of those people who actually get around to trying something like this. And this is Lit; not even the average real world where a lot of people are less easy around sexual issues maybe.
Do some reading on this board. There are plenty of threads dealing with threesomes, swingers etcetera. Check out the Blank Manual (top of the HOW TO index page) and find threads on all topics categorized!
Really, this question has been asked soooooo many times, it's almost not funny anymore
Oh, and welcome to Lit, by the way.
Thanks. Although I've been chatting, using messengers (and those types of tools) to communicate through the net for several years, I've never really taken part in any message boards or forums so I am just getting the hang of it.
I had a feeling it wasn't going to be easy to find a man wanting to share his wife, and just as difficult to get a dude to let his wife share him with another dude at the same time.
I'm glad my post wasn't the one that pushed it over the limit of being "funny anymore" though... LOL
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hippi_cur said:
IMHO = In My Humble Opinion
Somewhere here on Lit the (whole) list of abbreviations frequently used on bulletin boards (like Lit) is to be found. If only I could remember where.....
You will come across IMO (in my opinion) a lot too. I'll have a look if I can find that list again.
CuriousTwo001
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If you live near Dayton, Ohio, shoot us a PM.
/grin
Time to start taking chunks out of that proverbial line.
/grin
Time to start taking chunks out of that proverbial line.
eyeretinaeye
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Having been at the head of this line more then once, gosh I cannot ever remember being at the end of it. Must be lonely at the end of a line 48 years in length ..................
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38 years man... not 48.... let's keep this line as short as possible here... And I'm really hoping I can manage to move through the line faster because there's always a lot of people who get in the wrong line in the first place... I'm a patient man..
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eyeretinaeye
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here let me loan you this hatpin maybe that will help
shy slave
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You may want to try and find local swinging groups or BDSM munches.
Even if BDSM is not your thing sharing does happen sometimes, within certain protocols and knowledge.
By that I mean it is not a good idea to turn up and ask straight off, it is better to go let people get to know you and find out more about you both before approaching someone.
Munches are not knocking shops but they do have many liberal minded people there.
A local dungeon may also have the same opportunites that other places do not entertain.
Since being involved in the local BDSM scene I have had two offers from men who would like to share me with my Owner.
He prefers to find someone himself and I have no wish to be shared locally.
It is something he intends to make happen. It is more a matter of timing and the right people as oppose to lack of people.
I hope that helps.
Don't give up hope.
Even if BDSM is not your thing sharing does happen sometimes, within certain protocols and knowledge.
By that I mean it is not a good idea to turn up and ask straight off, it is better to go let people get to know you and find out more about you both before approaching someone.
Munches are not knocking shops but they do have many liberal minded people there.
A local dungeon may also have the same opportunites that other places do not entertain.
Since being involved in the local BDSM scene I have had two offers from men who would like to share me with my Owner.
He prefers to find someone himself and I have no wish to be shared locally.
It is something he intends to make happen. It is more a matter of timing and the right people as oppose to lack of people.
I hope that helps.
Don't give up hope.
