First time swingers club advice

[deft]

Well they’re stories I’d like to hear of you want to share

I'll second that.

 

[LMWM321]

I did read your story about The Street Key Party. Not exactly my experience

I have the same doubts about Key Parties that I have about swingers clubs. Which is, how do you know you'll end up with someone you're attracted to? Unless you and your wife are absolutely indiscriminate about who you'll fuck, I would expect key parties to end with a lot of awkward declines or Irish Goodbyes.

I think for every 20 key parties that are alleged to have taken place in the 70's, there may have been 1 or 2. ..And most probably ending with a lot of hurt feelings, and promises of "never again."

I'll say it once more... If NSA sex with others is allowed within a relationship, wouldn't it better to let it happen in a more organic way - ie., you each find your own hookup rather than making it a package deal?

 

[deft]

I feel about key parties the same way I do about swingers clubs. Which is, how do you know you'll grab the key of someone you're attracted to? Unless you, and your wife, are absolutely indiscriminate about who you have sex with, I see key parties ending with a lot of awkward (and very hurtful) declines and/ or Irish Goodbyes.

I think for every 20 key parties that are alleged to have taken place in the 70's, there may have been 1 or 2. ..And most probably ending with a lot of hurt feelings, and promises of "never again."

I'll say it again... If you and your partner are ok letting each other have NSA sex with others... Wouldn't it better to let it happen in a more organic way? And why must it be a package deal?

Hence the value of hearing from people with actual experience, surely? We're all here to share experiences and learn from each other.

 

[LMWM321]

Hence the value of hearing from people with actual experience, surely? We're all here to share experiences and learn from each other.

I suppose. But I'm very skeptical of what I read here on Lit. For many here, it's a kinky thrill to titalate others with stories that are claimed to be true but are entirely fictional or exaggerated. And often it's from a man who is posing as a woman. So, anyone hoping to learn the truth about a real sexual topic should be skeptical.

As another example, there is a thread here on Lit where the posters are convinced that any married woman who wears an anklet is a Hot Wife signaling her sexual interest in any man who understand it's secret meaning. Absolutely ridiculous. ...And a bit hilarious to contemplate how many broken noses and busted jaws will result when someone believes the thread then propositions a woman who (or her husband) delivers a round house punch or kick to the face.

 

[Wageslave]

I suppose. But I'm very skeptical of the accounts I read here in Lit. For many here, it's a kinky thrill to titalate others with exaggerated accounts and outright made-up stories - and quite often it's men posing as woman. So, those hoping to learn real truths about a real topic had best be skeptical. As an example, there is a thread here on Lit where the posters are convinced that any married woman who wears an anklet is a Hot Wife - ie., a woman who is openly advertising her interest in NSA hookups with other men. Absolutely ridiculous. ...And a bit hilarious to contemplate how many broken noses and busted jaws will result when someone reads this and believes this thread then propositions a woman who delivers a round house punch or kick to the face.

The danger of the urban myth

 

[LittleGreene]

I suppose. But I'm very skeptical of the accounts I read here in Lit. For many here, it's a kinky thrill to titalate others with exaggerated accounts and outright made-up stories - and quite often it's men posing as woman who are doing it. So, those hoping to learn real truths about a real topic had best be skeptical. As an example, there is a thread here on Lit where the posters are convinced that any married woman who wears an anklet is a Hot Wife - ie., a woman who is openly advertising her interest in NSA hookups with other men. Absolutely ridiculous. ...And a bit hilarious to contemplate how many broken noses and busted jaws will result when someone believes the thread then propositions a woman who delivers a round house punch or kick to the face.

There has definitely been some ‘fantasy’ in some of the messages and comments I’ve received since posting our journey.
Nothing is perfect. Men aren’t all 10” plus with amazing stamina. Women do have periods (have you noticed so many women in here don’t see to have a period cycle and are constantly horny/bonking!) There’s a good 7 days of my month I don’t want any man touching me!
But I’ve also had some very honest conversations which have been enlightening.

My Key party story was 100% fantasy. I can’t imagine they ever worked as well as my story did

 

[MrETnman]

Our first experience was at a couples club near miami. Mostly young men once we got in and a couple older women.we have a couple strong drinks and got in the pool naked,my wife is 43,built very well,and long blonde hair,she had a fan club! Later we visited a room where she allowed me to lay her back in a chair and fasten her in open and exposed. I played with and teased her by ourselves at first ,then several, mostly guys came in to watch. I was worked up and started having sex with her,in a moment a lady rubbed my shoulders and pulled me to the side leaving my wife alone till a young man stepped up and took over,then another after him,within a few mins several young men had serviced my wife while I watched, finally I got back and finished with her and we left afterwards. It wasn’t bad what happened but it wasn’t how we thought it would be. She was a bit embarassed she said,but all treated her nice. We would try it again ,just with a little more planning

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Ok- I have no idea where to start.

We had a great night. Everyone we met was super welcoming and curious, especially when we told them it was our first visit.

We had a lot of nerves in the immediate lead up to going but we managed to keep it together.

I wore new red lingerie and a black dress, nothing too over the top but both got a lot of complements during the night.

You enter into the social area and it was busy but not overly packed. We got a drink, one of only two alcoholic ones that night. That helped calm a few nerves. There were lots of people chatting, mingling and it wasn’t long before we started talking to a few couples. Nothing explicit, a lot about how often we’ve been (never) have we come far, how long in the lifestyle etc. everyone was nice but I didn’t feel immediately connected to any couple. And a lot of people seemed to be taking their time. There was a mezzanine looking down to this area and upstairs led to the main play area. Downstairs was more geared towards bdsm which we did explore later in the night

I needed the bathroom after about 45 mins and as I went into the ladies another lady was coming out. She was slightly older than me, shoulder length darl hair. She complemented me on my dress and shoes. When I can back out my husband was still sitting in his own but as soon as I sat back down the lady from te bathroom and her partner came over and asked if they could join us. They introduced themselves (for this purpose we’ll call the Paola and Steve) and we started to chat. She was American/Venezuelan and he was British and we had a few work things in coming that helped the conversation. We spoke about the club, how long they’d been in the lifestyle and our firts impressions and hopes for the night, including our limits for the evening. After about 15 minutes another coupes came over and they knew Steve and Paola, we chatted again all for about 10 mins before they left to go to the play rooms. Steve said they’d be up soon. It was shortly after that that Paolo asked if we wanted them to show us aroudn upstairs with no pressure, just a friendly hand to hold.

We felt we were comfortable and relaxed so we’re happy to.

We had to go upstairs and to the locker room to change as the play areas tended to be more risqué outfits, they stripped down straight away with lout any hesitation but it took a little courage for me to take the dress off and just be in my underwear. Again, both complimented me on my outfit, Steve especially couldn’t seem to get enough and I was flattered and embarrassed at the same time.

The play areas had lots of private sode rooms. Some with doors open and couples and more inside, others with doors closed which we knew meant they wanted privacy.

But it was the big play area that had the most action. So many people on various stages of nakedness and sexual activity. It was quite overwhelming with the sites, the sounds and even the smell. Very very arousing. My husband and I were holding hands as Paola led us around the room until we settled in one corner taking in some of the action.

There was a lot going on.!!!

Steve then asked if he could put his arm around me. I was comfortable with that, squeezed my had to indicate to my husband and he looked and smiled as agreed. Steve’s hand was on my waist but also stroked up and down my body, including my bum. He was chatting as we watched, saying that when I’m ready I could probably have anyone I wanted, and was there things I was seeing I liked. His hand was definitely exploring and I really liked the feeling holding my husbands hand as another man felt my body. My husband was chatting to Paola as we continued to watch so much.

Paola than lent over to ask us both if we’d be open to joining them to find a more private room. Again, she was very clear that they respected or boundaries but thought we might like a more private space to explore them. My husband checked in with me and o could tell he was up for it. And I was really liking Steve’s company so we agreed.

It took a few minutes to find an empty room. And as we went in Steve asked if we were ok to keep the door open. I wasn’t totally sure but I also knew we weren’t going to be doing too much so I agreed .

We sat at chatted as we relaxed on a big bed area, a few couples looked in but passed on by when they saw nothing was happening. Steve then asked if he could kiss me. Now kissing is a big thing for me, a huge turn on. And we had said kissing, making out, touching was our limits for the night. No penetration or oral of any kind.

So we shifted spots and Steve came over next to me and we slowly started to make out. I could see my husband and Paola watching and then they started. He was a great kisser. Really good. His hands explored but he checked in on each different part of my body.then he asked if i wanted to take my bra off. Paolo was already topless , her boobs were smaller than mine but long nipples.


I took it off and then he started to play with my boobs as we continued to make out. I felt his cock over his underwear and he stroked me over mine. I was very very very turned on.


I didn’t take my underwear off with him but his fingers did touch me , and I stroked his cock for a bit without taking his off.

I felt I wanted to stop there and he totally accepted that and my husband came back to me( with a raging hard on).

They then asked if we wanted to watch them fuck. And I really wanted to, so they started to have sex whilst we watched and my husband fingered me. A few minutes later the other couple that knew them walked past and saw them having sex and asked if they could join us.

Paola said we weren’t playing but they could if we didn’t mind. So they joined and all four of them started to have sex.

We actually left them to it about 10 minutes later, there were too many legs. Ha ha.

I grabbed my bra and we find a smaller room empty. We had sex with the door open, so people walking past could see. We had a few people hover for a while, but I was so into the sex I didn’t really notice .

After we finished we went back downstairs and got a drink. And recovered. The social area was really busy then. We took a short walk through the bdsm area, just to see it. And then felt we’d down enough for the night. We had no idea that by this time it was already 1am.

So we got dressed and got a taxi home.

A very very successful night. I hope this reads well, I’m missing out a lot of detail but o wanted to give a general review of the night.

Let me know to you have any questions s

This is so hot. Better in fact than a lot of Lit stories. Maybe because it's real, and there is sufficient buildup and some innocence involved.

I too have been to a swinger's club, once with my ex, and it was similar to how you described. We didn't take the plunge with anyone though, we were kind of overwhelmed. I also went once alone (single guy) so only saw stuff, nobody invited me.

My current GF and I might go some day. It would be nice to meet a couple as lovely as the one you met.