First time swingers club advice

[deft]

You are right, there is a desire to experience different types of partners. For both of us.

What are my desires in partners - I’m still learning. I have thoughts but it’s all about who we meet more than anything at this point.

 

[Jimmy119_190]

You are right, there is a desire to experience different types of partners. For both of us.

What are my desires in partners - I’m still learning. I have thoughts but it’s all about who we meet more than anything at this point.

Exploring and enjoying the journey together….sounds like fun!

Thanks again for sharing

 

[cuckoldbill]

Thanks for the fab report and all the answers to the many questions. Really enjoying this.

 

[LittleGreene]

Thanks for the fab report and all the answers to the many questions. Really enjoying this.

Thank you.

I wanted to be true and honest.

I didn’t want to sensationalise anything - such as he had the biggest dick or he fucked the best I’ve ever fucked - because that’s not true. It is the reality of the experience we had.

Was it perfect ? No. Was it good? Yes. Will we do something again? Probably.

 

[Kuriousnomore]

Thank you.

I wanted to be true and honest.

I didn’t want to sensationalise anything - such as he had the biggest dick or he fucked the best I’ve ever fucked - because that’s not true. It is the reality of the experience we had.

Was it perfect ? No. Was it good? Yes. Will we do something again? Probably.

Somewhere out there, ”Andrew” is reading this and thinking to himself, “Aw, man, I thought I WAS the best.” Such a heartbreaker you are, LG.

 

[LittleGreene]

Somewhere out there, ”Andrew” is reading this and thinking to himself, “Aw, man, I thought I WAS the best.” Such a heartbreaker you are, LG.

Ha ha ha. That would be a coincidence.

He did a very thorough job though

 

[Kuriousnomore]

 

[LittleGreene]

Again - I will clarify. I had a lot of fun.

 

[Carolinaguy45]

Great thread! Really enjoying your posts. Thanks for sharing

 

[LittleGreene]

Great thread! Really enjoying your posts. Thanks for sharing

My pleasure.

 

[deft]

I love the realness in your reports. The way you convey your feelings in the moment is so hot.

 

[Medicalman13152]

Thank you.

I wanted to be true and honest.

I didn’t want to sensationalise anything - such as he had the biggest dick or he fucked the best I’ve ever fucked - because that’s not true. It is the reality of the experience we had.

Was it perfect ? No. Was it good? Yes. Will we do something again? Probably.

LG - My impression - you really enjoyed your experience based on your comment you were able to achieve multiple orgasms...That alone is a testament to your positive experience.

I like that you have not exaggerated the experience, or tired to make it anything more than it really was...Honestly recounting the experience sets a realistic expectation for others of us, whom might be wishing to explore the same.

 

[aziegmann]

Ok- sorry it’s taken a few days to write up our weekend adventure.

I haven’t spell checked this so apologies if there are blatant mistakes.

So for those that haven’t been following this was our second visit to the same swingers club in London. The first experience was fantastic so we felt emboldened to go back with expanded boundaries. Essentially we felt ready to full Swap if we met the right people.



We felt sommuch less anxious this time in the lead up, I think mainly as we had a much better understanding of how the club worked, the type of people we knew we’d meet. It’s made the build up during the day much more of excitement than anything



We arrived later than we had the first time, one thing we learn was that these type of clubs only really get going later in the night.



It was busy when we got which was a great sign, as it meant there were lots of people to meet and chat to. We felt confident in approaching people this time, last time we kind of sat back and let people come to us, which is probably standard for newbies.



I had worn the same black dress as the first visit. (yes I know, a bit boring but I felt comfortable in it) and different heels, and I had new lingerie for the play area.



We actually settled into a group chat quite quickly with 3 other couples.it was very pleasant and some light flirting all around. One couple left to explore the play areas after a short while. And then another couple got into a side chat which left us chatting to one couple.



They were both my age, late 30s, (if you don’t know, I’m 38, my husband is 48) they had moved to London 18 months ago from the north of England where they had been in the lifestyle scene up there for a couple of years . They said they had struggled to find the right crowd in London, they had a group that played privately up north so they’d been coming to the club every few months to play. For this posts purpose he is called Andrew and she is Kate.



There was an attraction. I wouldn’t say he was the type of guy I’d normally be drawn to but he was good company and had a good sense of humour. He was about 5’10, stocky build, brown hair. She was exactly my husband’s type, very bubbly, brown hair shoulder length, very tactile when chatting. We continued chatting as a foursome after the other couples had moved on. We weren’t confident enough to make the next step but they asked if we’d like to go to the play areas to get to know one another better. They knew that this was still only our second visit.



It was at that point that my husand and I needed to check in with each other. We had already sorted out signals to say if we were happy or not to go forward and both of us indicated we were.



So once that slightly awkward part had passed we all changed (stripped) and put our clothes in the lockers and went upstairs.



Kate was curvy but not in an overweight way at all, she had a Great figure and was wearing black bra and thong. I was wearing a black lace bra top and thong and thigh high hold ups (a mistake in hindsight with the hold ups). The boys were in brief shorts and boxers.



We wandered upstairs to the play areas (downstairs is more bondage orientated - more on that later). It was already busy in the big play area. Lots of action, sounds. We stood and watched for a few minutes, it’s incredibly arousing seeing other people having sex. Charlie (my husband ) was already hard and I was teasing him over his underwear.



All four of us were chatting, and then Andrew asked if we should try and find a private space or find a spot in the main room. I was definitely not ready to be in the main group so we said let’s try and find a room. We finally managed to find a space where a couple were just leaving so we quickly claimed that, essentially a simple room, a large mattressed area in the middle.



We all laid on the bed, next to our own partners but things started almost immediately. They started to make out with each other but with one eye on us. It felt odd to just watch them so Charlie and I did the same. He took my bra top off quite quickly and Andrew commented on my boobs. Kate was on top pf Andrew and was working her way down his body and i watched her as she got his cock out and started to suck it. We were still just making out when she leant over and asked if I wanted to join her sucking his cock.



I looked at Charlie and he just said it’s up to me. So I crawled the short distance and joined her. She had his cock in her hand and essentially handed it to me. I knelt and started to suck him. She stayed next me and was kissing him for about a minute and then checked I was on, and left me with her husband. I watched her move over to Charlie and she started to blow him almost immediately.



I didn’t feel jealous at all. In fact I was so aroused seeing his face when she started to suck him. But I quickly got back to sucking Andres cock, and he was making the sounds like I was doing a good job. His hands were in my hair, on my back and was exploring my body. He stopped me suddenly, he said he needed to slow down with a little laugh. Then he asked if he could go down on me. So this was a big step for me. But I wanted it. So I laid on my back and he helped off my thong and then went down between my legs. It. Was . Heaven. Ha ha. I was so turned on. It felt like electricity on each stroke of his tongue.



I looked over at Charlie and he reached out and held my hand as he was still getting blown. I loved that. But we let go fairly quickly as I had to hold on to the mattress. I orgasmed really quickly. It was amazing. Andrew then asked if we could fuck. And I was really ready to. He grabbed a condom and put it on. He wanted me to get on all fours but I’m not always comfortable in that position so I asked if we could fuck on my back to start.



Charlie and Kate were now doing oral but he was watching as Andrew moved between my legs and put them on his shoulders. He entered slowly but very easily.



And that’s the story of how I fucked another guy for the first time in 17 years



We changed position after a while and I went on top. Which is my absolute fave position and i orgasmed again before he came.



Charlie and Kate also fucked but they were still going after we had finished.



It was hot and sweaty. Very sexy. Very satisfying. It wasn’t as hard as I thought it may be psychologically. It felt perfectly natural and fun. Which I think sex should be.



After they had finished we were all lying there chatting but another group wanted the room so we grabbed our clothes and towels and moved out.



We grabbed a drink with them afterwards. It was so nice and relaxed, no weirdness at all.



They wanted to go back up but we stayed in the social area for a while. It was nice for us just to be a couple for a while.



It was about 1:30am and we started to have a second wind so we actually went downstairs to walk the ‘dungeon’. There were quite a few people down there. We at he’d a few couples having sex , there was a sex swing with a woman in it. And then we saw the ‘glory hole’ which is essentially a big cupboard. Now that’s something we saw the first time and we had been talking about it. No one was in it so Charlie told me to go in as a dare. I went in and immediately he put his cock through. So I got on my knees and started to suck him. The room is only big enough really for one person. But there were 3 holes.



I then heard Charlie talking to someone. I couldn’t quite hear what was being said but I did catch him saying “it’s my wife”. And that’s when another cock appeared. I obviously knew this was a possibility but I wasn’t prepared for the sudden arrival. It was limp, not hard at all. So I reach with my right hand and started to touch it. It responded really quickly, stiffening. And then I start to suck it. It had the taste of condoms so I assume it had already had some action. I spent the next few minutes desperately trying to coordinate both cocks, until Charlie removed his. I Knew he wanted me to concentrate on the other one. So. Alternated between stroking and sucking. I got the sense that the guy might be close so I told him to tell me if he was going to cum through the wall. A minute later he said he was about to cum and he ejaculates over my hand as I stroked him. Thankfully there were towels inside so I wiped off most of the cum before exiting. Charlie pointed out the guy I’d just relieved and kissed me. That was our night over.



We didn’t see Andrew and Kate again, but we have actually got their contact details. Kate has already messaged me to thank us for a nice evening.



So we’ve really been making sense of how we feel the past couple of days. And I have to say absolutely no regrets, no concerns, just a big high. It’s a big step after so many years of discussion . And I don’t think it could have gone any better.

Amazing story. It would be great if we could read another one, but from your husband’s perspective.

 

[LittleGreene]

Amazing story. It would be great if we could read another one, but from your husband’s perspective.

Someone else has asked that. I’ll ask him. I had to cajole him to write about our first visit. So I’ll see if I can get him to do it again

 

[LONDONJACK61]

Thank you LG. Like a lot of us on here I enjoyed reading your story and found it very helpful.
I too live in London and I'm thinking of making a first visit to a sex club with a girlfriend. It sounds as though you found the club you chose to be a very friendly and welcoming place for your first experiments.
Would you mind sharing the name of the club you chose?

 

[Luv2bnaked4u]

Our first time we decided that would NOT have sex with anyone at the club. Too many unknowns
However it was awesome to walk around naked and watch. As well as being watched.
There was some playful touching with others but no penetration
We liked it so much we went back a second night.
A

 

[Absolute_10]

Ok- I have no idea where to start.

We had a great night. Everyone we met was super welcoming and curious, especially when we told them it was our first visit.

We had a lot of nerves in the immediate lead up to going but we managed to keep it together.

I wore new red lingerie and a black dress, nothing too over the top but both got a lot of complements during the night.

You enter into the social area and it was busy but not overly packed. We got a drink, one of only two alcoholic ones that night. That helped calm a few nerves. There were lots of people chatting, mingling and it wasn’t long before we started talking to a few couples. Nothing explicit, a lot about how often we’ve been (never) have we come far, how long in the lifestyle etc. everyone was nice but I didn’t feel immediately connected to any couple. And a lot of people seemed to be taking their time. There was a mezzanine looking down to this area and upstairs led to the main play area. Downstairs was more geared towards bdsm which we did explore later in the night

I needed the bathroom after about 45 mins and as I went into the ladies another lady was coming out. She was slightly older than me, shoulder length darl hair. She complemented me on my dress and shoes. When I can back out my husband was still sitting in his own but as soon as I sat back down the lady from te bathroom and her partner came over and asked if they could join us. They introduced themselves (for this purpose we’ll call the Paola and Steve) and we started to chat. She was American/Venezuelan and he was British and we had a few work things in coming that helped the conversation. We spoke about the club, how long they’d been in the lifestyle and our firts impressions and hopes for the night, including our limits for the evening. After about 15 minutes another coupes came over and they knew Steve and Paola, we chatted again all for about 10 mins before they left to go to the play rooms. Steve said they’d be up soon. It was shortly after that that Paolo asked if we wanted them to show us aroudn upstairs with no pressure, just a friendly hand to hold.

We felt we were comfortable and relaxed so we’re happy to.

We had to go upstairs and to the locker room to change as the play areas tended to be more risqué outfits, they stripped down straight away with lout any hesitation but it took a little courage for me to take the dress off and just be in my underwear. Again, both complimented me on my outfit, Steve especially couldn’t seem to get enough and I was flattered and embarrassed at the same time.

The play areas had lots of private sode rooms. Some with doors open and couples and more inside, others with doors closed which we knew meant they wanted privacy.

But it was the big play area that had the most action. So many people on various stages of nakedness and sexual activity. It was quite overwhelming with the sites, the sounds and even the smell. Very very arousing. My husband and I were holding hands as Paola led us around the room until we settled in one corner taking in some of the action.

There was a lot going on.!!!

Steve then asked if he could put his arm around me. I was comfortable with that, squeezed my had to indicate to my husband and he looked and smiled as agreed. Steve’s hand was on my waist but also stroked up and down my body, including my bum. He was chatting as we watched, saying that when I’m ready I could probably have anyone I wanted, and was there things I was seeing I liked. His hand was definitely exploring and I really liked the feeling holding my husbands hand as another man felt my body. My husband was chatting to Paola as we continued to watch so much.

Paola than lent over to ask us both if we’d be open to joining them to find a more private room. Again, she was very clear that they respected or boundaries but thought we might like a more private space to explore them. My husband checked in with me and o could tell he was up for it. And I was really liking Steve’s company so we agreed.

It took a few minutes to find an empty room. And as we went in Steve asked if we were ok to keep the door open. I wasn’t totally sure but I also knew we weren’t going to be doing too much so I agreed .

We sat at chatted as we relaxed on a big bed area, a few couples looked in but passed on by when they saw nothing was happening. Steve then asked if he could kiss me. Now kissing is a big thing for me, a huge turn on. And we had said kissing, making out, touching was our limits for the night. No penetration or oral of any kind.

So we shifted spots and Steve came over next to me and we slowly started to make out. I could see my husband and Paola watching and then they started. He was a great kisser. Really good. His hands explored but he checked in on each different part of my body.then he asked if i wanted to take my bra off. Paolo was already topless , her boobs were smaller than mine but long nipples.


I took it off and then he started to play with my boobs as we continued to make out. I felt his cock over his underwear and he stroked me over mine. I was very very very turned on.


I didn’t take my underwear off with him but his fingers did touch me , and I stroked his cock for a bit without taking his off.

I felt I wanted to stop there and he totally accepted that and my husband came back to me( with a raging hard on).

They then asked if we wanted to watch them fuck. And I really wanted to, so they started to have sex whilst we watched and my husband fingered me. A few minutes later the other couple that knew them walked past and saw them having sex and asked if they could join us.

Paola said we weren’t playing but they could if we didn’t mind. So they joined and all four of them started to have sex.

We actually left them to it about 10 minutes later, there were too many legs. Ha ha.

I grabbed my bra and we find a smaller room empty. We had sex with the door open, so people walking past could see. We had a few people hover for a while, but I was so into the sex I didn’t really notice .

After we finished we went back downstairs and got a drink. And recovered. The social area was really busy then. We took a short walk through the bdsm area, just to see it. And then felt we’d down enough for the night. We had no idea that by this time it was already 1am.

So we got dressed and got a taxi home.

A very very successful night. I hope this reads well, I’m missing out a lot of detail but o wanted to give a general review of the night.

Let me know to you have any questions s

The way you described it, it felt like a real experience I am having. Kudos to the writing.