? for the Ladies

[lizaveta]

Oh, I used to be inhibited with a capital BARBARA BUSH, but the older I get the less I care about what other people think. About ten people in the world are really that comfortable getting all naked at the circus, and I am not one of them. Doesn't mean I shouldn't get to have orgasms.

Anyway, a suggestion for you: when you are pleasuring her, whisper in her ear. Tell her how much you love her, want her, want her to feel good. Tell her how good she looks, tastes, makes you feel. Whisper, whisper, whisper, keeping your mouth very close to her ear so she can feel your breath with every word.

And when she comes, keep whispering, and make sure your face is turned toward her so you can't really see her face.

This does a few things: first, the ear and neck are very sensitive, so that's probably going to feel pretty good. Second, you're engaged with her in the experience, but you aren't staring at her like you're waiting for her to do a trick.

And most importantly, whispering is just a really damn intimate thing to do.

Good luck!

 

[ladylust20]

Oh, I used to be inhibited with a capital BARBARA BUSH, but the older I get the less I care about what other people think. About ten people in the world are really that comfortable getting all naked at the circus, and I am not one of them. Doesn't mean I shouldn't get to have orgasms.

Anyway, a suggestion for you: when you are pleasuring her, whisper in her ear. Tell her how much you love her, want her, want her to feel good. Tell her how good she looks, tastes, makes you feel. Whisper, whisper, whisper, keeping your mouth very close to her ear so she can feel your breath with every word.

And when she comes, keep whispering, and make sure your face is turned toward her so you can't really see her face.

This does a few things: first, the ear and neck are very sensitive, so that's probably going to feel pretty good. Second, you're engaged with her in the experience, but you aren't staring at her like you're waiting for her to do a trick.

And most importantly, whispering is just a really damn intimate thing to do.

Good luck!

I TOTALLY AGREE!! Lizaveta has made a very good point... "Tell her how much you love her, want her, want her to feel good. Tell her how good she looks, tastes, makes you feel. " I think that hit it right on the target!

The more you compliment her looks, especially when you're both in your birthday suits She will slowly become more comfortable in her skin, especially when around you. Good-luck!

 

[His_pita]

Oh I agree with the whispering part. That is just damn sexy!

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

Oh, my! The aforementioned list made me chuckle. My friend, Jen, and I had a similar thing when we were both in high school and before we had even had sex.
My sexuality has definitely been a journey. I was a virgin until I was 18 and look at me now!
I have found that the older I get, the more I learn to accept myself and embrace who I am sexually. The things that used to inhibit me, i.e. the notion that my thighs were bigger than anyone else's ever have been thrown out the window. Self acceptance is the key to being comfortable with your partner.
And even though your wife may seem to scoff at your comments, inside she is smiling all over.