Fuck It: Refux

[Saltfountain]

Ill see myself out

OK, you can send me proof of your dick size

 

[MrsPassion]

Bless. She's tired

Oh buddy you are barking up the wrong tree! I’ll have you know 5’3 is perfectly average height!! And I’m only tired of you saying I am “stompy” and have “little feeties”

I have badass feet and I do not stomp! All the time

 

[RosewoodTulip]

You mean you dont demand every one you play with send proof of height, dick size, and amount in their bank account first?
And i thought you had standards!

Oh is that how you're supposed to e-bone? I feel cheated now

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Ok how do you guys make thigh highs look good on short stubby legs? I feel like they just cut off my legs even more and make them look more short and stubby

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

You mean you dont demand every one you play with send proof of height, dick size, and amount in their bank account first?
And i thought you had standards!

5'8"
About the size of a Wii remote. Maybe a little thicker.
And I'm a thousandaire

Standards shamdards. Who's DTF? This dude right here!

(Drafting my personal ad)

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Funnily enough, all this mentioning of height has got me inspired; Does your partner(s) being taller or shorter than you matter? In attraction, in sexual activities, in love; whatever applies best for you

I will admit to being most attracted to men who are bigger than me, stronger than me etc. I wouldn't say it is a requirement, but truth, every man I've been with, and I have not lived a sheltered life, has been bigger and stronger than me. However, the average american man is bigger and stronger than me. I am rather big and "sturdy" for a woman, but the average man is like 5'10" 180/190 or so average is bigger. I've actually never had a smaller man even express interest. I would say most have been bigger than average. Burly even. Of course, not like small men tend to look at a big chick and think to themselves "well she looks all sturdy and shit, I should totally nail her"

 

[AngelicaS1780]

I’m so sorry that had been your experience. You most definitely are not broken though! I was on SSRI’s for years and went through a long period of time where my sex drive evaporated but I also couldn’t orgasm on the rare occasion my libido woke up. I read a book called Come As You Are, that was super helpful in me reframing the way I approached sex and most importantly self pleasure. One of the key take aways I had was sometimes, an orgasm is a goal but not the destination or purpose for the trip and opportunity to experience pleasure.
I’m not one of those hippy dippy types that think a book can fix anything but I really felt what you shared and thought it might be worth mentioning.

And if/when you find a Dom, I hope they are thoughtful and skilled enough to give you all the pleasure you desire!

Thank you.
It was hard to admit, but I hoped that someone might have some advice. I know that I shouldn't focus on orgasm as the sole purpose of pleasure, but it's hard to remember that sometimes. Thank you for the book recommendation and for taking the time to share your experience.

 

[crazychemgirl]

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[Saltfountain]

Thank you.
It was hard to admit, but I hoped that someone might have some advice. I know that I shouldn't focus on orgasm as the sole purpose of pleasure, but it's hard to remember that sometimes. Thank you for the book recommendation and for taking the time to share your experience.

I'm aware I'm at risk of being accused of mansplaining, but

You said you don't always orgasm, makes it sound like it's a thing that happens when you're relaxed and comfortable enough. Part of me wonders whether a partner who enjoyed teasing you gently and building you up then releasing you would actually be a good thing, as maybe some of the pressure of the orgasm would be removed?

But what would I know? Blokes jizz and snore...

 

[Saltfountain]

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Not for me, but I do know people into that. Is that one of your kinks @crazychemgirl?

 

[crazychemgirl]

Not for me, but I do know people into that. Is that one of your kinks @crazychemgirl?

Not sure? Looks appealing though.

 

[Saltfountain]

Not sure? Looks appealing though.

What is it that attracts you to it?

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Ok how do you guys make thigh highs look good on short stubby legs? I feel like they just cut off my legs even more and make them look more short and stubby

Nothing wrong with a shorter lady. When hugging or kissing her. Just put her on a step. When kissing. Run fingers through her hair. Pull her head back and kiss passionately.

 

[MrsPassion]

Ok how do you guys make thigh highs look good on short stubby legs? I feel like they just cut off my legs even more and make them look more short and stubby

You make them look good by wearing them But for more practical advice choose a heel height in the 3-4” range (5-6” if you a baddie ), pick thigh highs with a visible back seam as they help legs look longer, plan your lingerie accordingly so that eyes consistently travel up (think waist garter attached to the thigh highs, wear a sexy basque/corset with boning or ribbing starting under the bust and working it way out to flair over hips that gets longer the further it is from midline), and point your toes if taking pictures

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This kind of excites me but I know I couldn’t do it irl

 

[Saltfountain]

This kind of excites me but I know I couldn’t do it irl

What is it that excites you about it?

 

[LittleSwitchy]

You make them look good by wearing them But for more practical advice choose a heel height in the 3-4” range (5-6” if you a baddie ), pick thigh highs with a visible back seam as they help legs look longer, plan your lingerie accordingly so that eyes consistently travel up (think waist garter attached to the thigh highs, wear a sexy basque/corset with boning or ribbing starting under the bust and working it way out to flair over hips that gets longer the further it is from midline), and point your toes if taking pictures

This kind of excites me but I know I couldn’t do it irl

Why couldn’t you try that? The trust really has to be there. Might try putting it in a freezer. Cold sensation play can be very fun

 

[AngelicaS1780]

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Love the tie. The cutting is NMK.

 

[MrsPassion]

What is it that excites you about it?

Mmm, I think maybe because I’m no stranger to body modifications I can see how the sensation would be pleasurable. Like I get a lot of enjoyment from tattoo artist doing heavy shade work on my pieces, and like in the back of my mind when I get a paper cut the sharp slice sensation briefly registers as arousing, not necessarily dripping or anything but I recognize the sharpness as not all bad and again-I’m more so interested the sensations after pain. Would I have goose bumbs after knife play? Would the skin burn and would moving agitate the cut. Those kinds of thoughts are really alluring to me. But I also don’t do well with blood, so I think I appreciate that in the drawing it’s on her back. Ergo—I could see myself enjoying it if I didn’t have to see me bleed.

 

[Saltfountain]

Love the tie. The cutting is NMK.

Is that in a 'blood is a limit' way, or not into pain?

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Knife play doesn’t mean you have to be cut. The back of the blade can be used. Can be used cold. For the sensation play

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

You make them look good by wearing them But for more practical advice choose a heel height in the 3-4” range (5-6” if you a baddie ), pick thigh highs with a visible back seam as they help legs look longer, plan your lingerie accordingly so that eyes consistently travel up (think waist garter attached to the thigh highs, wear a sexy basque/corset with boning or ribbing starting under the bust and working it way out to flair over hips that gets longer the further it is from midline), and point your toes if taking pictures

This kind of excites me but I know I couldn’t do it irl

Its a bit better with heels but my work pumps are not slutty or high enough

 

[MrsPassion]

Its a bit better with heels but my work pumps are not slutty or high enough

Shopping?
(Pleaser makes some of my favorite “who is the shorty now?!” shoes)

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Shopping?
(Pleaser makes some of my favorite “who is the shorty now?!” shoes)

I can never resist a reason to shop

 

[Saltfountain]

Its a bit better with heels but my work pumps are not slutty or high enough

Come here, I'll make you slutty enough

 

[Saltfountain]

Shopping?
(Pleaser makes some of my favorite “who is the shorty now?!” shoes)

You are