Fuck Women

[dreampilot79]

Maybe some women think a man's feelings would be hurt if they gave specific instructions. I haven't met a man(or a woman)yet who has been offended by me saying "Rub here," "Lick me," or "Harder!". To me, the only really offensive thing you can do is lay there and pretend things are the way you want them when they're not.

So right you are....

Is this self confession time? In that case.. I want all the information I can get... yes you can find new things for someone else.... and sometimes it's up to you to find it.. but mostly it's best if they tell you.. rather than make you infer what you're doing right by the little signs. Besides a huge hip thrust accompanied by a loud gasp.. can mean two things... and unfortunately they are at opposite ends of the spectrum.. either you're doing something very right... or ouch that hurt!!!!!

I'm out of luck for the caveman thing... my favorite part of lovemaking seems to be the after play.

 

[dreampilot79]

o.k. O.K. the between play...lol

 

[OhMissScarlett]

I know somebody who seems to prefer it that way.

So do I, Sweet. I find that when these type of folks are confronted with a large vibrator, they tend to come out of their shells.

 

[dreampilot79]

So do, Sweet. I find that when these type of folks are confronted with a large vibrator, they tend to come out of their shells.

Not me dear... vibrators don't do much for me!

 

[gyrl]

Definitely depends, but sometimes good foreplay is BETTER than good intercourse! Of course, you have to have someone like my partner who does everything just right...

 

[OhMissScarlett]

I'm out of luck for the caveman thing... my favorite part of lovemaking seems to be the after play.

Oh hell, I think I'm a caveman!
Seriously, I've had people tell me that I'm too much of a guy(like that's a bad thing?). It's probably because I'm pretty blunt about what I like and what I want. I've had enough bad sex to know the difference. I remember being that high school girl who laid there and expected a miracle. You really do have to make great sex happen. I don't really believe that anyone is bad in bed, just uneducated.

 

[Liar]

Ask.

Duh.

 

[dreampilot79]

I don't really believe that anyone is bad in bed, just uneducated.

I do believe that sex is just another form of human communication. There are people with whom we will always be bad lovers.... mostly because we fail to communicate.

There are others with whom we will always be mutually good... again because we communicate or at least we do what is mutually good.

funny thing is... him/her what is a truly great lover with us... could be a dud with someone else.... there is something to be said for training a single partner!

 

[rosco rathbone]

It depends on the lady's mood at the time.

If you knew what she wanted, each and every time, you'd be a genius.

Og

I've long suspected that the key to women, was lots of foreplay while all the while giving the impression that you are just having your way like a selfish beast.

 

[neonlyte]

This thread has the potential to be a rather useful instruction manual.

I'm signing up the publishing rights now - usual fee, your cheques are in the post.

 

[OhMissScarlett]

I've long suspected that the key to women, was lots of foreplay while all the while giving the impression that you are just having your way like a selfish beast.

I have to admit, that would probably work on me most of the time.

*goes the the mailbox to wait for Neo's cheque*

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I can do without foreplay, but he better not skip afterplay...

 

[SeaCat]

Want another males perspective? No? Too bad.

Sometimes the foreplay is great, it really adds to things. Sometimes it's just a pain in the ass. (For both partners.) It all depends on the moods of both parties, and the circumstances. There have been times when the flirting or other distractions during the day were the foreplay. There have also been times when the day was such a wreck that both of us knew what was needed, and that was a rolicking good fuck. On the other hand there are times when one or the other needs the comforting feel of their partner being watchfull and helping them relax. In this case the foreplay is actually the most important part of sex.

I think it also depends on what you consider foreplay, and that too can change. What others here have said is true. Communication is the key to this. You have to be able to talk with your partner.

Cloudy, there is absolutely nothing wrong with just saying "Fuck Me". Sometimes that's all the foreplay that is needed or wanted.

Cat

 

[cantdog]

Have you heard about Irish foreplay?

"Brace yourself, Brigit!"

 

[herecomestherain]

Nice one Cantdog...ahh the Irish.

This question gets tricky to answer, at our place, fucking and foreplay and inbetween play all happen at once and not necessarily any specific order. I'm kind of greedy and he's very generous so a couple of lovely hand induced orgasms for me first then whatever happens after that seems to have just a little less urgency. A quick - "Fuck me now" is a lot of fun too.

 

[NoJo]

Oh my god. You're just like your character in Charley's Literotica Olympics story.

(off to read it, ears burning)

 

[shereads]

Have you heard about Irish foreplay?

"Brace yourself, Brigit!"

Mississippi foreplay:

"Wake up, bitch."

 

[shereads]

If she likes, "Let's fuck," with no foreplay, why not try a little less preparation each time?

Next time, don't tell her; just fuck her without saying anything.

The time after that, keep it a secret until you're finished, then surprise her.

 

[Guest]

If she likes, "Let's fuck," with no foreplay, why not try a little less preparation each time?

Next time, don't tell her; just fuck her without saying anything.

The time after that, keep it a secret until you're finished, then surprise her.

wow, sher, im surprised at how much this is like training my dog.
a little bit longer on a walk each day until she can handle the entire trip ....out the door.
so, what is it that you're really trying to say, hrm???

 

[dreampilot79]

wow, sher, im surprised at how much this is like training my dog.
a little bit longer on a walk each day until she can handle the entire trip ....out the door.
so, what is it that you're really trying to say, hrm???

Might I volunteer? I'm always willing to be trained!

 

[shereads]

wow, sher, im surprised at how much this is like training my dog.
a little bit longer on a walk each day until she can handle the entire trip ....out the door.
so, what is it that you're really trying to say, hrm???

Only that if she seems to like an abrupt approach, there are only so many ways to improve on abruptness. Eventually, he might reach a point where she doesn't know they've fucked at all, until he surprises her with a videotape for Valentine's Day.

 

[cantdog]

Romantic. And Liszt for a soundtrack!

 

[Guest]

Ah! I had to vote for foreplay. I think kissing (besides oral) is the best. Passion!!

 

[Extreme Bohunk]

Sometimes you want to make love, sometimes you want to fuck.

 

[NoJo]

Yeah, and it's sometimes hard to keep from doing both at the same time, with its inevitable disastrous consequences.