Initially it's the physical attributes, but it's not the same on every girl. Could be her eyes, smile, tits, curves. To keep it going, it's always her mind
Memorable experiences I’ve been lucky with but two stand out for equal reasons. The first was a hot quickie in a confessional booth. The second was fucking an ex under a secluded waterfall at sunset. Both times were hot, naughty and good well beyond my imagination at the time.
Really just one thing has truly turned me on in the last 48 hours. That is the idea of specific Domme. I think the biggest reason it has taken up my mental and in many respects, physical space, is that this person truly knows themselves and they are someone who is so intelligent. Those two things are so alluring to me - they way they command a "room" is intoxicating and I the thought of submitting to them has kept me well...upright
OK
qualities:
a big higher than me in highheels, well educated, good sense of humor, comparable humor, self-assured, so self-assure that he can laugh about himself
Red flags
Macho-attitude. does not respect me, vegan, strongly different political view
Good question. I realized I was a sub when I was attracted to stories on Lit where a strong woman submits to a Dom who is not only masterful, but treasures and values her submission. Definitely the dream….
I started when I was 17, my parents were nudists for me it was a natural thing to evolve into. It’s a comfort thing more than anything else just for the record
I would say 2 people know! I told one and he definitely told his best friend at work but that’s okay. I have no idea what the others assume, I keep that side of my life away from work or at least to my everyday colleagues