🍆❤️‍🩹🍆 Dicknations for Sassy! Updates & Get Well Wang 🍆❤️‍🩹🍆

[MRSassySheDevil]

Thank you...

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

Got a chance to leave and spend a couple days with friends--not just friends but my second family and felt nice to be able to relax and enjoy good company.

Got home and my new bed frame was here waiting for me. We had a nice fancy bed, all wood with a wood canopy and one time had mirrors on the top that I never put back up once we moved. But that was not going back in so I ordered a new one.. Still has not sank in, still feels like she is away like in the hospital or something like she had been over the last few months.. So I sit here with the dogs, and look around and can see her everywhere I look... Miss my wife......

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Got a chance to leave and spend a couple days with friends--not just friends but my second family and felt nice to be able to relax and enjoy good company.

Got home and my new bed frame was here waiting for me. We had a nice fancy bed, all wood with a wood canopy and one time had mirrors on the top that I never put back up once we moved. But that was not going back in so I ordered a new one.. Still has not sank in, still feels like she is away like in the hospital or something like she had been over the last few months.. So I sit here with the dogs, and look around and can see her everywhere I look... Miss my wife......

Hugs, I know nothing really helps, but hugs anyway.

 

[emmy_christina]

Got a chance to leave and spend a couple days with friends--not just friends but my second family and felt nice to be able to relax and enjoy good company.

Got home and my new bed frame was here waiting for me. We had a nice fancy bed, all wood with a wood canopy and one time had mirrors on the top that I never put back up once we moved. But that was not going back in so I ordered a new one.. Still has not sank in, still feels like she is away like in the hospital or something like she had been over the last few months.. So I sit here with the dogs, and look around and can see her everywhere I look... Miss my wife......

Loads of hugs

 

[talikat]

Got a chance to leave and spend a couple days with friends--not just friends but my second family and felt nice to be able to relax and enjoy good company.

Got home and my new bed frame was here waiting for me. We had a nice fancy bed, all wood with a wood canopy and one time had mirrors on the top that I never put back up once we moved. But that was not going back in so I ordered a new one.. Still has not sank in, still feels like she is away like in the hospital or something like she had been over the last few months.. So I sit here with the dogs, and look around and can see her everywhere I look... Miss my wife......

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

Question. Did the wife just stay in the playground or were there other areas she frequented?

 

[barefootgirl69]

Question. Did the wife just stay in the playground or were there other areas she frequented?

I know she had a couple of threads she managed on AmPics. I had started one years ago and didn't like the direction it went, so she took it over. Back then, they capped things at 5000 posts, so she started the next.

She had a way of making people feel comfortable and at home.

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

Got a chance to leave and spend a couple days with friends--not just friends but my second family and felt nice to be able to relax and enjoy good company.

Got home and my new bed frame was here waiting for me. We had a nice fancy bed, all wood with a wood canopy and one time had mirrors on the top that I never put back up once we moved. But that was not going back in so I ordered a new one.. Still has not sank in, still feels like she is away like in the hospital or something like she had been over the last few months.. So I sit here with the dogs, and look around and can see her everywhere I look... Miss my wife......

When I get there, I already know I'm going to be looking for her, knowing she's not there.

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

Well, today was a hard day.. My first day all alone so I spent almost all of it cleaning, shampooing the carpets, getting the bedroom organized and the new bed frame all finished up.. Kept waiting for her to walk out of the bedroom, but nothing.

It was nice to be able to once again take a shower and not have to worry about getting dressed, just walk to the bedroom and get dressed now.

But I am going back to work tomorrow as its time to get some sort of stability to my daily routine..

 

[peekingone]

Well, today was a hard day.. My first day all alone so I spent almost all of it cleaning, shampooing the carpets, getting the bedroom organized and the new bed frame all finished up.. Kept waiting for her to walk out of the bedroom, but nothing.

It was nice to be able to once again take a shower and not have to worry about getting dressed, just walk to the bedroom and get dressed now.

But I am going back to work tomorrow as its time to get some sort of stability to my daily routine..

Mr Sassy, this is wonderful. Can’t imagine your thoughts. The past years you have all shown us strength and love in the toughest times.
Your new norm is happening and you’re embracing it as hard as it is. Sassy wouldn’t want it any other way. Stay strong

 

[StillRain]

Question. Did the wife just stay in the playground or were there other areas she frequented?

When I first got to know Sassy she was a frequent poster in the HowTo. That feels like a lifetime ago but I’m talking 12 years or so.

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

Thank you everybody who loved and cared for my wife. But I end this here as I don't wanna sit here and cry to everybody, don't wanna cause any drama or anything else of that nature. I will try to pop in here once in awhile and keep my notifications on if anybody wishes to message me or whatnot--but right now I have too many issues with this place and my heart simply hurts..

Again--thank you...

 

[Cat]

Thank you everybody who loved and cared for my wife. But I end this here as I don't wanna sit here and cry to everybody, don't wanna cause any drama or anything else of that nature. I will try to pop in here once in awhile and keep my notifications on if anybody wishes to message me or whatnot--but right now I have too many issues with this place and my heart simply hurts..

Again--thank you...

Whatever you need to do, you should do.
Grief takes many forms and no one can say what is right for you.

But remember: You are not causing drama, you are not crying to us, you are simply reminding us that the Sassy we knew and loved, that she was more than "just" Sassy.

She was your wife! Your life partner, your Love and world.

You are showing us more than you realise, your honest words and grief. Your way of dealing with every possible circumstance in your life.
It is inspiring. It is eye opening.. it is teaching us something so very, very important:
Behind each avatar, each name, there is a person of flesh and blood, and that is something so easy to forget.

Thank you for bringing some vulnerability and humanity to the boards.

But.. You should never stay here for our sake. Right now, first and foremost you need to take care of yourself.

Thank you for being you.

 

[peekingone]

Whatever you need to do, you should do.
Grief takes many forms and no one can say what is right for you.

But remember: You are not causing drama, you are not crying to us, you are simply reminding us that the Sassy we knew and loved, that she was more than "just" Sassy.

She was your wife! Your life partner, your Love and world.

You are showing us more than you realise, your honest words and grief. Your way of dealing with every possible circumstance in your life.
It is inspiring. It is eye opening.. it is teaching us something so very, very important:
Behind each avatar, each name, there is a person of flesh and blood, and that is something so easy to forget.

Thank you for bringing some vulnerability and humanity to the boards.

But.. You should never stay here for our sake. Right now, first and foremost you need to take care of yourself.

Thank you for being you.

This is amazing Cat, very well said.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Thank you everybody who loved and cared for my wife. But I end this here as I don't wanna sit here and cry to everybody, don't wanna cause any drama or anything else of that nature. I will try to pop in here once in awhile and keep my notifications on if anybody wishes to message me or whatnot--but right now I have too many issues with this place and my heart simply hurts..

Again--thank you...

Please take care of yourself

 

[peekingone]

Thank you everybody who loved and cared for my wife. But I end this here as I don't wanna sit here and cry to everybody, don't wanna cause any drama or anything else of that nature. I will try to pop in here once in awhile and keep my notifications on if anybody wishes to message me or whatnot--but right now I have too many issues with this place and my heart simply hurts..

Again--thank you...

You do what you feel is right for you. This is far from drama. This is one of the worse possible thing a person can go through. Please don't consider it drama. This is real life issues that needs to be dealt differently with every person. It is so very fresh and new. Please take the time to get yourself stronger physically and mentally. That is important for your family. Stay strong my friend.

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

Whatever you need to do, you should do.
Grief takes many forms and no one can say what is right for you.

But remember: You are not causing drama, you are not crying to us, you are simply reminding us that the Sassy we knew and loved, that she was more than "just" Sassy.

She was your wife! Your life partner, your Love and world.

You are showing us more than you realise, your honest words and grief. Your way of dealing with every possible circumstance in your life.
It is inspiring. It is eye opening.. it is teaching us something so very, very important:
Behind each avatar, each name, there is a person of flesh and blood, and that is something so easy to forget.

Thank you for bringing some vulnerability and humanity to the boards.

But.. You should never stay here for our sake. Right now, first and foremost you need to take care of yourself.

Thank you for being you.

Thank you. It just sucks because there are things I know that I needed for her to tell me. Some I knew before(and some after she left us) but I didn't wanna spend her final time hashing anything out--I wanted her as happy as I could but unfortunately its at a price I am paying. I can't talk to my family because again it will hurt them and some things they just don't need to know.

I fear if I stay here I will also hurt those who knew and loved her.. I truly loved her and did anything I could for her but thats hard because of stuff I have read and seen---just breaks my heart.....

 

[Cat]

Thank you. It just sucks because there are things I know that I needed for her to tell me. Some I knew before(and some after she left us) but I didn't wanna spend her final time hashing anything out--I wanted her as happy as I could but unfortunately its at a price I am paying. I can't talk to my family because again it will hurt them and some things they just don't need to know.

You need someone to talk with. Someone who will listen and let you open up.

I do not have the answer for whom or how, but some things are too painful to carry on your back.
But you need to take care of yourself and doing that also means talking about the though things that you are carrying in your heart and mind.

I fear if I stay here I will also hurt those who knew and loved her.. I truly loved her and did anything I could for her but thats hard because of stuff I have read and seen---just breaks my heart.....

To me this sounds like a truly horrible situation to be in. And I am in no way qualified or knowledgeable enough to give you any good advice.

But please, you need to prioritise yourself now.
You need to sleep right, eat right, get a lot of fresh air.. and talk, you need to talk and share your thoughts and burdens with someone.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Sorry Mr Sassy!
Your Mrs made Lit a better place!

 

[JerseyJade]

OMG! I just found out about this. My condolences to Sassy's family and friends.

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

I'm taking a Lit break right now but I just thought I'd let you know that Sassy is back home and it's her memorial today. Over 100 people have turned up and they're currently all chatting, sharing memories.

I have chatted a few times with people that Sassy grew up with and have learnt some stuff about her.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I'm taking a Lit break right now but I just thought I'd let you know that Sassy is back home and it's her memorial today. Over 100 people have turned up and they're currently all chatting, sharing memories.

I have chatted a few times with people that Sassy grew up with and have learnt some stuff about her.

Thinking of you all x sending love and hugs x

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

Thinking of you all x sending love and hugs x

Thank you!

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

Well that was an emotional day. Sassy had a fantastic memorial though.

 

[emmy_christina]

Well that was an emotional day. Sassy had a fantastic memorial though.

She is and always be loved. Take care my friend