🍆❤️‍🩹🍆 Dicknations for Sassy! Updates & Get Well Wang 🍆❤️‍🩹🍆

[AWonkyDonkey]

Rest in peace, Sassy. It was a joy watching you shine.

Badass to the end.

Sending all my love MrSassy, your fam, wonky and all who loved her, and love her still.

Thank you.

 

[Photog1rl]

@MRSassySheDevil and all those that knew Sassy well, I cant imagine the grief you and your family are feeling. In my interactions, limited as they were, she was straightforward, open and really funny.
May we all carry a piece of Sassy’s spirit with us and may her memory always be a blessing.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Sending love and condolences to @MRSassySheDevil, @AWonkyDonkey, the sassy kids, and everyone who loved her.

#FuckCancer

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I mean it’s totally fucking distasteful to put a picture up of someone’s most vulnerable moments, knowing full well that person has no say in it.

Fuck that person. Good on you for reporting those cunts and fighting for your girl.

Sassy always loves her some drama where she felt it mattered, I know she and I had a few exchanges in our time but we always found our way through it. She’d be proud of you for getting into it for her. No doubt at all about that.

She and I had a couple of exchanges, too. But it was just so evident of her strong character and determination. The girl wouldn’t back down. I don’t think either of us were wrong, just seeing things differently, and did have later conversations acknowledging that and becoming friendly.

Sassy was a badass

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

She and I had a couple of exchanges, too. But it was just so evident of her strong character and determination. The girl wouldn’t back down. I don’t think either of us were wrong, just seeing things differently, and did have later conversations acknowledging that and becoming friendly.

Sassy was a badass

Ditto all of the above.

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

Sending love and condolences to @MRSassySheDevil, @AWonkyDonkey, the sassy kids, and everyone who loved her.

#FuckCancer

Thank you TPH.

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

She and I had a couple of exchanges, too. But it was just so evident of her strong character and determination. The girl wouldn’t back down. I don’t think either of us were wrong, just seeing things differently, and did have later conversations acknowledging that and becoming friendly.

Sassy was a badass

Take that same scenario and add married to her,lol..

Few times on the couch or stuck to each side of the bed,lol..

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

Also I don't know if she ever told anybody, but there was one word I was never aloud to call her "bitch".. One time MANY years ago in some heated argument we had, I did in fact call her that. It was the only time she ever hit me. And guess what, I never used that word again...

We had both lost parents but I can say the pain and empty feeling is nothing compared to loosing her. One feeling that hurts the most is sitting here and expecting her to walk by, but nothing. Even though the last couple of years I had used everything I had to take care of her and that "normal" wasn't there--I keep waiting for that normal to happen if that makes any sense.

We have spent the last couple days going thru and cleaning and organizing stuff. The first thing I HAD to do was tear the bedroom apart, get that god awful medial bed out and get the mattress back into the room. I also ordered a new bed because no way the old one is going back in...

 

[Saltfountain]

Also I don't know if she ever told anybody, but there was one word I was never aloud to call her "bitch".. One time MANY years ago in some heated argument we had, I did in fact call her that. It was the only time she ever hit me. And guess what, I never used that word again...

We had both lost parents but I can say the pain and empty feeling is nothing compared to loosing her. One feeling that hurts the most is sitting here and expecting her to walk by, but nothing. Even though the last couple of years I had used everything I had to take care of her and that "normal" wasn't there--I keep waiting for that normal to happen if that makes any sense.

We have spent the last couple days going thru and cleaning and organizing stuff. The first thing I HAD to do was tear the bedroom apart, get that god awful medial bed out and get the mattress back into the room. I also ordered a new bed because no way the old one is going back in...

That makes perfect sense.

Normal will always be essentially the reality that lives in in our hearts, not our heads.

You will never lose that stab of pain when she doesn't walk into the room, and I'd guess you'd never actually want to either.

You are, as she was, an inspiration

 

[peekingone]

Also I don't know if she ever told anybody, but there was one word I was never aloud to call her "bitch".. One time MANY years ago in some heated argument we had, I did in fact call her that. It was the only time she ever hit me. And guess what, I never used that word again...

We had both lost parents but I can say the pain and empty feeling is nothing compared to loosing her. One feeling that hurts the most is sitting here and expecting her to walk by, but nothing. Even though the last couple of years I had used everything I had to take care of her and that "normal" wasn't there--I keep waiting for that normal to happen if that makes any sense.

We have spent the last couple days going thru and cleaning and organizing stuff. The first thing I HAD to do was tear the bedroom apart, get that god awful medial bed out and get the mattress back into the room. I also ordered a new bed because no way the old one is going back in...

The healing process which we know that is exactly what she wants you to do

 

[beachbaby179]

Also I don't know if she ever told anybody, but there was one word I was never aloud to call her "bitch".. One time MANY years ago in some heated argument we had, I did in fact call her that. It was the only time she ever hit me. And guess what, I never used that word again...

We had both lost parents but I can say the pain and empty feeling is nothing compared to loosing her. One feeling that hurts the most is sitting here and expecting her to walk by, but nothing. Even though the last couple of years I had used everything I had to take care of her and that "normal" wasn't there--I keep waiting for that normal to happen if that makes any sense.

We have spent the last couple days going thru and cleaning and organizing stuff. The first thing I HAD to do was tear the bedroom apart, get that god awful medial bed out and get the mattress back into the room. I also ordered a new bed because no way the old one is going back in...

I think I can speak for many here when I say I'm glad you feel like you can come here and tell us these things. Vent, yell and scream (ALL CAPS), reminisce. We're here for you and will continue to be. It's a devastating loss for you. Prepared is not the same as ready. You're never ready.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Funny how life works. I left here a couple years ago because I no longer belonged here. But I had a dream about Sassy yesterday. Weird. Logging in...i see she was one of few that reached out after I left.

Thank you Sassy. For being you. You helped me when I was so so so lost. I have full custody. Nothing else matters beyond that. Our paths will cross again...just not in this lifetime...but know you helped me more than you will ever know.

David

It's good to see you Dribble. Wish it were under better circumstances x

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Also I don't know if she ever told anybody, but there was one word I was never aloud to call her "bitch".. One time MANY years ago in some heated argument we had, I did in fact call her that. It was the only time she ever hit me. And guess what, I never used that word again...

We had both lost parents but I can say the pain and empty feeling is nothing compared to loosing her. One feeling that hurts the most is sitting here and expecting her to walk by, but nothing. Even though the last couple of years I had used everything I had to take care of her and that "normal" wasn't there--I keep waiting for that normal to happen if that makes any sense.

We have spent the last couple days going thru and cleaning and organizing stuff. The first thing I HAD to do was tear the bedroom apart, get that god awful medial bed out and get the mattress back into the room. I also ordered a new bed because no way the old one is going back in...

You do whatever you need to do! Everyone processes grief differently and that's ok. Some people turn the house into a shrine. Some want everything gone to keep the memories at bay.

Sassy and I had our differences when I first joined but she came back later and we made amends. After that I respected the hell out of her.

 

[coffeelover5]

Sassy was always kind and genuine. I also think she was fiercly loyal as a friend and wife. A super kind human and I know she is missed by you. Take care.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Sassy and I had our differences when I first joined but she came back later and we made amends. After that I respected the hell out of her.

When I first joined Lit, one of the dramas that was happening was a guy who was obsessed with nastynyx. Sassy and Fara were tearing him a new one for some of the posts he was making and my immediate thought was to stay the hell away from those two . A few days later he stopped posting and I saw a change in both of them. They were welcoming, friendly and engaged in conversation.

A couple of months later when I finally told a few people who my ex was and why I was on Lit, they both became my friends. Fara hated the sight of him and Sassy wasn’t too impressed with how he conducted himself at times. They gave me a lot of support.

Sassy and I only ever had one fallout and that was over another couple of users. We had a few words on the threads. I had Sassy on Skype so I waited a couple of days and then messaged her with a simple “Are we good?”. A few days later she still hadn’t responded so I messaged her again and told her that she could be stubborn all she wanted but unless she deleted or blocked me on Skype, I was just going to keep messaging her. She responded almost immediately and asked for my email address. Seeing as Skype used to allow really long messages (8,000 characters, I think) I knew she was going to have a good rant at me. I wasn’t disappointed

A few hours later, my email had a novel that would rival War and Peace (I still have it). In that email, she explained (amongst other things) why she was disappointed in me and one of the users we had fallen out about. There was no way I could match that email so we ended up having a voice chat instead. We voiced our opinions calmly and respected each other for that. We never fell out again.

I loved when Sassy would talk about her family, send me pictures of her days and videos of the goats. She liked me to send her pictures of my surroundings. She liked the buildings and some of the English oddities. One day I told her I was going to have a busy day because I had to cut three lawns. I sent her pictures. She then sent me pictures of all the land on their property . Let’s just say I never complained about having to cut my grass again

Sassy often gave me very good and wise advice especially about my Lit experience. She always had a positive outlook that radiated off her. I will miss her so very much

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

When I first joined Lit, one of the dramas that was happening was a guy who was obsessed with nastynyx. Sassy and Fara were tearing him a new one for some of the posts he was making and my immediate thought was to stay the hell away from those two . A few days later he stopped posting and I saw a change in both of them. They were welcoming, friendly and engaged in conversation.

A couple of months later when I finally told a few people who my ex was and why I was on Lit, they both became my friends. Fara hated the sight of him and Sassy wasn’t too impressed with how he conducted himself at times. They gave me a lot of support.

Sassy and I only ever had one fallout and that was over another couple of users. We had a few words on the threads. I had Sassy on Skype so I waited a couple of days and then messaged her with a simple “Are we good?”. A few days later she still hadn’t responded so I messaged her again and told her that she could be stubborn all she wanted but unless she deleted or blocked me on Skype, I was just going to keep messaging her. She responded almost immediately and asked for my email address. Seeing as Skype used to allow really long messages (8,000 characters, I think) I knew she was going to have a good rant at me. I wasn’t disappointed

A few hours later, my email had a novel that would rival War and Peace (I still have it). In that email, she explained (amongst other things) why she was disappointed in me and one of the users we had fallen out about. There was no way I could match that email so we ended up having a voice chat instead. We voiced our opinions calmly and respected each other for that. We never fell out again.

I loved when Sassy would talk about her family, send me pictures of her days and videos of the goats. She liked me to send her pictures of my surroundings. She liked the buildings and some of the English oddities. One day I told her I was going to have a busy day because I had to cut three lawns. I sent her pictures. She then sent me pictures of all the land on their property . Let’s just say I never complained about having to cut my grass again

Sassy often gave me very good and wise advice especially about my Lit experience. She always had a positive outlook that radiated off her. I will miss her so very much

We had our differences back then too. Your ex was a HUGE asshat. And I respect the hell out of you too because like Sassy, we worked it out and you have been very kind. She was an inspiration for all the women of Lit!

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

When I first joined Lit, one of the dramas that was happening was a guy who was obsessed with nastynyx. Sassy and Fara were tearing him a new one for some of the posts he was making and my immediate thought was to stay the hell away from those two . A few days later he stopped posting and I saw a change in both of them. They were welcoming, friendly and engaged in conversation.

A couple of months later when I finally told a few people who my ex was and why I was on Lit, they both became my friends. Fara hated the sight of him and Sassy wasn’t too impressed with how he conducted himself at times. They gave me a lot of support.

Sassy and I only ever had one fallout and that was over another couple of users. We had a few words on the threads. I had Sassy on Skype so I waited a couple of days and then messaged her with a simple “Are we good?”. A few days later she still hadn’t responded so I messaged her again and told her that she could be stubborn all she wanted but unless she deleted or blocked me on Skype, I was just going to keep messaging her. She responded almost immediately and asked for my email address. Seeing as Skype used to allow really long messages (8,000 characters, I think) I knew she was going to have a good rant at me. I wasn’t disappointed

A few hours later, my email had a novel that would rival War and Peace (I still have it). In that email, she explained (amongst other things) why she was disappointed in me and one of the users we had fallen out about. There was no way I could match that email so we ended up having a voice chat instead. We voiced our opinions calmly and respected each other for that. We never fell out again.

I loved when Sassy would talk about her family, send me pictures of her days and videos of the goats. She liked me to send her pictures of my surroundings. She liked the buildings and some of the English oddities. One day I told her I was going to have a busy day because I had to cut three lawns. I sent her pictures. She then sent me pictures of all the land on their property . Let’s just say I never complained about having to cut my grass again

Sassy often gave me very good and wise advice especially about my Lit experience. She always had a positive outlook that radiated off her. I will miss her so very much

She could NEVER EVER say anything in less than a page,,trust me I know. Many years ago we separated for a few weeks, I was being an ass, she was being very stubborn and she had written novels in our back/forth email interaction..

When she was here and I would peek over her shoulder I would always give her crap for writing long ass replys lol..

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

I remember I was once having trouble with someone I knew and Sassy was helping me figure out how to get through it.

One day I opened Lit to find she'd drafted me a letter for this person. It must have been about 5,000 words. It was ridiculous.

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

After almost 2 weeks of having all the kids here its time for them to head home. As much as I love having them here its time to get some piece and quiet for awhile. My camper is loaded and heading to the hills to sit and do puzzles...

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

After almost 2 weeks of having all the kids here its time for them to head home. As much as I love having them here its time to get some piece and quiet for awhile. My camper is loaded and heading to the hills to sit and do puzzles...

Take the time to chill and process. I hope the peace and quiet of the hills helps you.

 

[peekingone]

After almost 2 weeks of having all the kids here it’s time for them to head home. As much as I love having them here its time to get some piece and quiet for awhile. My camper is loaded and heading to the hills to sit and do puzzles...

Good morning, this is great to hear. Great for everyone to start the new part of life. Gather thoughts, reflect and live through the memories. Start new memories get your mind and body rested. Enjoy your time Mr Sassy.

 

[The_Quiet_Man]

I am very sorry for your loss. I did not know Sassy (our paths may have crossed in the Playground, but we never interacted), but I wish that I had. After hearing the stories from others, and reading some of her posts from the past, I can see that she was a very special person. Everyone who knew her was better for it.

You and your loved ones are in my prayers. Bless you.

 

[emmy_christina]

After almost 2 weeks of having all the kids here its time for them to head home. As much as I love having them here its time to get some piece and quiet for awhile. My camper is loaded and heading to the hills to sit and do puzzles...

Rest Mr Sassy, relax, and maybe a giggle when you remind silly memories of your Sassy.

 

[hotcpu]

Rest Mr Sassy, relax, and maybe a giggle when you remind silly memories of your Sassy.

I saw this post and I am so glad that you are still around. I hope you are well Old Friend. So sorry it has to be as a result of losing one of my first contacts here so many years ago.

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Damn sorry to hear about Sassy. Just found out after being away for past week. My condolences to all her family and friends.