Interesting I am a sub male. It is quite delightful to me sensually dominated by a creative woman. One used me delightfully for her pleasure when I was a young teen. As an adult I have not been able to find a playful creative female or dom couple. I am unsure why? Maybe society demands woman be authoritative and the desire to be a sub female balances the situation. I needed to emote confidence and command and be in charge as a male in society and my professional life so being submissive in intimacy. is a marvelous balance