In a non-erotic context, yes, I have
Never in an erotic context. That would take stratospheric levels of trust and connection. I have wanted to, it didn’t happen, so can’t see myself ever doing that
Well, since I was asked I suppose it's only right to answer.
Films? Star Wars. The OT. They take me back to the whimsy of childhood and always take my mind off my woes.
Books? The works of Brian Jacques. I read a bunch of them when I was young, and they are fun to revisit. He also spends too much time describing food and feasts, so he hits my vice.
Games? Sorry. Few things will put a smile on my face faster than a simple game of Sorry. It can bring out the competitive side, but tends to always end in silliness, as such things should.
Yes! I start super early because I love buying presents.
And yes, got my husband a super expensive bottle of single malt. So excited because he never spend that on himself.
Made out with a woman in the kitchen at a party while her husband was in the livingroom.
(he would not have thought it was sexy and fun which made it exciting and ”dangerous”)
Quite a few years ago, I signed up for a dating site that arranged lunch meetings. I said I enjoyed women younger than me, and I was in my late 40's so I thought they'd match me up with a woman in her 30's. When I got to the restaurant/diner, I found myself looking at a woman barely in her 20's.
I assumed it was a joke, or a mistake. I couldn't fathom a very young woman being interested in such an older man. The lunch was fine and she was very pleasant and fun. She was cute as could be as well. When lunch was over, I was stumped. What was next?
We walked outside and she asked if I was parked nearby, and definitely gave the impression she was hoping the date would keep going. Being stupid, I said I had things to do, but that we had each others number and could chat more if we wanted.
I think back with shame and longing. Not my best moment.