yes i think for the right person, the limits are very fuzzy and yes i have done things that afterwards i would not want to remember or ever answer that i would do.
hmmm, idk truthfully but
i think obedience more a response to authority, and some people are afraid to go against some, enjoy and feel safe under authority. as a people pleaser i think obedience is very different than just trying to please some one.
hmmmm, i mean its probably too trope
some one older ( at least mentally) and confident because i cannot be relied upon to start anything. not too focused on looks just some one who likes me and is happy to be with me.