Uh... uhm... a weekend totally free of any other thinking but sex... time to do things to explore... i cannot point exactly one moment but a couple of moments where unbelievable. Including cumming together.
I've definitely sent some PMs that upon reflection would be inappropriate. I guess that's the definition of hiding behind anonymity. IRL, I have always been proud of how I treat and behave with everyone. But I need to bring more of that befind the anonymous lit PMs.
Lit has blurred the line, in some ways. I have posted pictures of my body, which I do not find attractive, and I am not incredibly comfortable in doing, as a way of overcoming some fears, but not in a way I would have expected six months ago. I have created and shared bespoke porn with someone. None of which was in my world six months ago. So, yes.
The recomendation I will ever give is that in love and lust, good, clear, solid communication is the baserock. And I believe that, and it has worked well for me. Do I always follow that? No...no, I do not.
The most nervous I've been in a intimate moment was when I wore panties out on a first date and the woman that I was with invited me back to her place after we had a couple of drinks. She was aware that I enjoy wearing panties but I wasn't expecting to go home with her so had worn a pair that I didn't quite fit into (spilled out of because they were too small) just for the thrill of it. Everything was fine it the end but I think the fact that I hadn't expected to be seen in them was what both enhanced the arousal and the nervousness of the entire situation.