Getting my bottom ready for anal

[morgothsmate]

I hope this isn't too off topic, but I'm a strong advocate of girls fucking their guys. It's a very odd sensation at first, but intensely sensual. I purchased a toy for my g/f called the Feeldoe. It's a silicone dildo with a bulb on one end that the girl inserts into her pussy. It's like using a strap-on, but without the straps/harnesses. It works in a way that gives the girl pleasure while she fucks the guy. Just seeing her wearing it was hot enough, but with plenty of lube and patience, (just like when I give her anal) the sex was very hot, and she really got into it. We do it a few times a month like that now. I highly recommend the Feeldoe, but you can use any regular strap-on if you like. Enjoy!

Men that want Anal sex are closet arse bandits that are homosexual in nature with some need to degrade their female partners to forefill their need for sliding their cocks up the SHIT CHUTE of their wives and girlfriends unti lthey come out of the closet.

 

[1_hotlilmomma]

Thank you to everyone who gave such great advice.

Personally things that work for me:

Lube, Lube, Lube and more lube...can never have enough lube.

Being in a dirrty (yes dirty with two r's) mood...really nasty, so horny I will do anything, anywhere, anytime kind of mood.

When beginning, start ass play with just one finger, then fingers and don't rush things..I'm talking ass play sessions not one finger to 3 fingers to cock all in one night.

Let your girl be in control of moving onto your cock, after she gets used to it and can work it a bit, she'll let you know when and at what speed you can move.

My favorite postion is actually on my back with pillows under my ass...that way I can look my lover in the eye and let himm know if it's good (if they can't see your face, they may mistake those painful moans as good and take off).

Anal sex makes a girl cum so fucking hard, it's worth the time/patience to learn to do it right.

These suggestions are my own personal opinion after successfully getting my bottom ready for anal.

 

[surfwabo]

Thank you to everyone who gave such great advice.

Personally things that work for me:

Lube, Lube, Lube and more lube...can never have enough lube.

Being in a dirrty (yes dirty with two r's) mood...really nasty, so horny I will do anything, anywhere, anytime kind of mood.

When beginning, start ass play with just one finger, then fingers and don't rush things..I'm talking ass play sessions not one finger to 3 fingers to cock all in one night.

Let your girl be in control of moving onto your cock, after she gets used to it and can work it a bit, she'll let you know when and at what speed you can move.

My favorite postion is actually on my back with pillows under my ass...that way I can look my lover in the eye and let himm know if it's good (if they can't see your face, they may mistake those painful moans as good and take off).

Anal sex makes a girl cum so fucking hard, it's worth the time/patience to learn to do it right.

These suggestions are my own personal opinion after successfully getting my bottom ready for anal.

Well Doll, sounds like you had an ass-fucking good time!

That position sounds very erotic !

 

[Pypal66]

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[soccergrrl]

For starters, I agree with lube, lube, and lube. Fingerplay is a must (at least for me.)

For penetration, it's best for me on my side, easing back on my husband, taking it at my own pace and controlling the depth as I need at the time.

My orgasms are incredibly intense during anal. Don't be afraid, and relax, relax, relax!

 

[bigredboston]

For starters, I agree with lube, lube, and lube. Fingerplay is a must (at least for me.)

For penetration, it's best for me on my side, easing back on my husband, taking it at my own pace and controlling the depth as I need at the time.

My orgasms are incredibly intense during anal. Don't be afraid, and relax, relax, relax!

Oh, you post on the most interesting threads soccergrrl!!!!

 

[soccergrrl]

Um, thank you.... I think.

 

[ScarlettLover]

with my experience with anal ... it is definately uncomfortable at first but it definately should not hurt... if it hurts you.. you really need to acknowledge that it is like a warning sign from your body.

Other than alot of the other great tips like lots of lube and such... it is like a slow inch by inch thing with me and my man... he gets me all worked up with some oral/finger play and then slowly inserts just the head and stops for a min ... then inserts another inch or so and stops... keeping this up until he is all the way in and then slowly starts working his way back in and out .. this allows me time to get use to it and to relax and open up and adjust to this sensation.

Also why not try being on top of him this way you can control how fast how deep and all is comfortable for you!

 

[nakdraven]

Anal can be an exceptional experience, depending on who is doing the receiving, and what mind set their in about it. Go here before you try: https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=327313
I've never had or heard of a single unsuccessful anal experience from what's written in that thread. Be sure you check out the Blank Manual as well.

Thanks for the link and reading.

 

[saysame]

Have there been any biological studies of this topic?

Average sphincter size when relaxed? Tips that work simply because of how biology works? Why it feels good at all? Maybe some psych studies?

 

[Mike302]

Have there been any biological studies of this topic?

Average sphincter size when relaxed? Tips that work simply because of how biology works? Why it feels good at all? Maybe some psych studies?

Lots of nerves back there.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Just wanted to say - be really, really careful using the Anal-ease. When it numbs you up, you can do real damage to yourself, because you can't hear the pain receptors screaming stop.

This.

You don't want anything that numbs the sensation. My first time I tore something down there. If it hurts too much, it hurts for a reason.

Don't do it to please him, do it because you want to. And if you don't, don't. Not everyone can do it. And I think if all men who wanted to try anal had it done to them first, they'd be a lot more careful.

 

[fma20fma]

face down on bed wide legs. knee bent up, pillow under to raise bum, biting on guy soiled jocks, lidocaine 0.25 gel applied liberally with long spout into rectum. minimal fore play with two large johny walker blk label to shun inhibition and maybe mild caning on bum to motivate and ensure full co-operation while mounting bare back.

 

[Alpha_femboy]

My husband really wants to be able to make love to my bottom. I love it when he plays with it orally and with one finger. But when he tries to put himself inside of me it hurts unless I'm playing with myself...which is fine, but as soon as I orgasm it starts hurting again. Please tell me how I can get my bottom used to longer times of penetration. And him being able to move inside of my bottom. This is my first post, so I'm sorry if I'm not doing this correctly.

I would love feedback asap, since our kids are gone for springbreak and we can practice as much as we'd like!

Try douching and start with mild anal play it'll help u stretch the opening, once the opening is stretched the insides aren't a issue , it rearranges with the shape of the cock only the opening hurts initially

Hope this helps u

Have fun

 

[Vivian251]

No worries at all, you’re doing great! To help get more comfortable with longer penetration, try using a butt plug or anal dilator to gently stretch and relax the area.

 

[Cardinal]

Lube and practice, lube and practice, lube and practice