going down on ladies?

[jethrobodeen]

My DW was practically vegitarian when I met her and first went down on her. I was so amazed how sweet and odor-free, yet very intoxicating mild scent, lot's of wetness... I had a harder time with gf's before her.

Now, after 23 yrs married, she still won't let me go down unless she feels confidently fresh. That was something she seemed to "get" without me ever saying anything. Maybe those women's magazine subscriptions have paid off!

-JB

 

[wyoliving]

Showering works well. I mean no disrespect but has she been tested for STDs. May poeple are walking around with unknown STDs.

 

[Norajane]

Have I told you lately that you're my hero? You always ask the right questions!! I'm enjoying this thread so SO much! Thanks guys for sharing your thoughts and experiences.

 

[CreamCow]

Showering works well. I mean no disrespect but has she been tested for STDs. May poeple are walking around with unknown STDs.

We've both been tested after a scare I had. (turned out to be epididymitus or however you spell it...)

I've gotten a lot of great ideas. I'm planning on a few good hours of sensual foreplay and sex tomorrow evening. I can't wait.

 

[vanelane]

We've both been tested after a scare I had. (turned out to be epididymitus or however you spell it...)

I've gotten a lot of great ideas. I'm planning on a few good hours of sensual foreplay and sex tomorrow evening. I can't wait.

Excellent! Be sure and report back on your adventures.

 

[Lucky Girl]

Well, our boy hasn't been on since last night...

 

[thirty]

I personally don't like it, but I know my GF LOVES it, so I do it for her every now and then. I was wondering if anybody has any ideas as to making it better for me? It's the taste/smell that throws me off, and I don't like getting my face "wet" if you will.

Do i need to just get over it and go in for it?
Should I ask her to clean up before I go downtown?
does it taste/smell better if I have a mint or a hard candy in my mouth?


idea's here?

I don't know why, but I could do for a girlfriend, and couldn't do for another one later.

 

[Wheedle]

I love going down on a woman. As long as shes reasonably clean, but then I wouldnt expect her to go down on me when Im funky form work or something....

 

[CreamCow]

I'll let you know tomorrow. She comes home this afternoon... She told me on the phone last night she was going to jump me the second she saw me. haha.

OH, and I baught handcuffs, a small vibrator that I hope she won't say no to, but if she does it was only 7 bucks so no biggy, and a new bottle of non flavored lube... our other bottle tastes like caugh syrup (cherry) and stains our sheets if it drips... I'll start using that for oral if I have to. hah

 

[Just_4_Giggles]

My DW was practically vegitarian when I met her and first went down on her. I was so amazed how sweet and odor-free, yet very intoxicating mild scent, lot's of wetness... I had a harder time with gf's before her.

-JB

You hit another nail on the head as far as scent goes...if we consume spicy foods, we "sweat" them out, all over, including from soft, pink mucus membranes. There is something about eating spicy meats, such as Italian Sausage, that will have an even greater, ummm, "scent" -->down there<-- (This goes for guys and gals!)

Avoiding onions, garlic, curry and other potent foods and drinking TONS of water (if you don't want to the vegetarian route) will definitely have an impact on taste.

Oh, and to the orignal poster: I'd lose the goatee is you don't like her stuff drying on it and it requires a trip to the bathroom to clean. If you're clean-shaven, all it takes is a wipedown of a damp washcloth. She shaved for you, right?

 

[CreamCow]

Yeah, she shaved.


I've shaved off my goatee before, but she hates it, and I hate it, so I like to keep it. And it seems dumb as hell to shave it off just so I don't have to wash my face after I give her oral... I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks that.

 

[YellowShirt]

Wow, I'm really nervous about the way I smell/taste so I am always reluctant to let my hubby do it (of course when I do concede I LOVE it) but after reading all this it makes me even more nervous!

 

[Norajane]

Wow, I'm really nervous about the way I smell/taste so I am always reluctant to let my hubby do it (of course when I do concede I LOVE it) but after reading all this it makes me even more nervous!

Don't be. If you're healthy, and practice good hygiene, there's likely nothing at all offensive about your smell/taste. And if hubby likes it, there's no reason not to enjoy yourself. As I said earlier, I've only run into one guy who didn't like oral, and he was a terrible lover in pretty much every other way too. Most men are turned on by a woman's scent and taste.

 

[bostonboy40]

Wow, I'm really nervous about the way I smell/taste so I am always reluctant to let my hubby do it (of course when I do concede I LOVE it) but after reading all this it makes me even more nervous!

If your hubby is really into you like I'm into my woman you have nothing to be nervouse about. I enjoy oral best if the woman is (fragrant) or has been exercising and needs a shave. The essense of a woman is the best thing in this world and is to be savored.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I personally don't like it, but I know my GF LOVES it, so I do it for her every now and then. I was wondering if anybody has any ideas as to making it better for me? It's the taste/smell that throws me off, and I don't like getting my face "wet" if you will.

Do i need to just get over it and go in for it?
Should I ask her to clean up before I go downtown?
does it taste/smell better if I have a mint or a hard candy in my mouth?


idea's here?

The best way for it to be better for you would be to have me do it for you.

Otherwise, make sure she's clean and have the best time that you possibly can while you're down there.

 

[A_Kefka]

I love the scent of a woman, have gotten a few strange looks from women for smelling their panties right after I pull them off of the woman, lol. You shouldn't worry about it much unless you notice a bad smell or he says something to you.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I'm surprised that no one has mentioned this but, I know how I taste. And I know I'm not the only woman on the planet who's done this.

Now, admittedly, none of us have the same sense of taste but when he says his girlfriend tastes like lime, we all seemed to understand what that meant. And I know that if I tasted unpleasant to me, I'd be more than hesitant to let anyone else down there.

(Happily, that's not been an issue. I've had no one refuse to eat at the Y, yet.)

 

[NaiveOne]

So....

Any updates on how the love-fest went?

We're all curious!

 

[CreamCow]

oh I'm sure you are... so here it is, I guess...

When she got back, I picked her up at her bus, then took her back to her rom (I had my bag in the car so I could stay over). We went back to her room and just hugged and kissed eachother for what had to be an hour. She then started to take my shirt off but I didn't want to do anything because I had all sorts of plans for later, and she was complaining that she was hungry... She kept kissing me and so I decided not to resist anymore. So we made the most pationate love we've ever had.

After that, we went to dinner, came back and relaxed for a while. I helped her unpack her stuff and get her room cleaned up, then we went for a shower. I cleaned her hair and her body, even shaved her... she thought that was cool so she asked if she could shave my face so I let her. Then we went back to her room, and after she did her hair, I layed her down on her bed and told her to close her eyes. Then I took at my new pairs of handcuffs and cuffed her to her bed then proceded to go down on her. You guys were right on with the shower thing, it tasted perfectly fine. I could sense she was enjoying it. After I did that for a while I went and got the new vibrator I bought. It was cheap so I didn't care if she didn't want to use it, but she let me. We played with that for a while, and despite not wanting to like it, she did. So after that she begged for me to make love to her again, which I did... 6 more times throughout the next 24 hours to total 7. Needless to say, my abs hurt, and my reserves are depleted.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Excellent! Glad to hear you had success.

 

[NaiveOne]

Awww....... sounds like it went GREAT!!!!

I'm glad she tasted fine!

Woohoo!

I need to find a cool boyfriend like that.....

 

[vanelane]

Aw, I just love these happy endings! Well, actually, I guess it's a happy beginning for them, but our work is done!

 

[Lucky Girl]

oh I'm sure you are... so here it is, I guess...

When she got back, I picked her up at her bus, then took her back to her rom (I had my bag in the car so I could stay over). We went back to her room and just hugged and kissed eachother for what had to be an hour. She then started to take my shirt off but I didn't want to do anything because I had all sorts of plans for later, and she was complaining that she was hungry... She kept kissing me and so I decided not to resist anymore. So we made the most pationate love we've ever had.

After that, we went to dinner, came back and relaxed for a while. I helped her unpack her stuff and get her room cleaned up, then we went for a shower. I cleaned her hair and her body, even shaved her... she thought that was cool so she asked if she could shave my face so I let her. Then we went back to her room, and after she did her hair, I layed her down on her bed and told her to close her eyes. Then I took at my new pairs of handcuffs and cuffed her to her bed then proceded to go down on her. You guys were right on with the shower thing, it tasted perfectly fine. I could sense she was enjoying it. After I did that for a while I went and got the new vibrator I bought. It was cheap so I didn't care if she didn't want to use it, but she let me. We played with that for a while, and despite not wanting to like it, she did. So after that she begged for me to make love to her again, which I did... 6 more times throughout the next 24 hours to total 7. Needless to say, my abs hurt, and my reserves are depleted.

YAY! Awesome! I'm so proud! No wonder why it took you so long to get back to us.

Hey all...our work here is done...

 

[Just_4_Giggles]

^5 to you and your gal!

 

[Cathleen]

Big smiles from here too. Very nice.