Guys and wet dreams...

[rydia57]

I'm searching for info for a story, ok? When most guys have wet dreams, do you act on them, or just have the dream and wake up. I mean, do you go into jerking off or... well I'm finding it hard to ask but does anyone understand what I'm saying if you do, just explain it to me.

 

[Oldie21]

HI rydia57.

I am assuming you must be a lady.

Wet dreams usually occur when the testicles get full of cum. This obviously hasppens if (a) you don't have sex for a week or so or you don't masturbate regularly.

Wet dreams occur during sleep and therfore I am not sure what you mean by acting on them.

If you mean do you get up next morning and fuck the person you dreamed of the answer for a number of reasons is no. It may be your mother, or your sister or some girl you like who you have the dream on.

I would feel horny when waking up after a wet dream, but the feling usually went when you got into the day.

Whilst we would like to be able to, you cannot control a wet dream or plan on it any more than you can with any type of dream.

Hope this help a liitle.

 

[A_Kefka]

I'm not sure if you know this, but usually a wet dream means that you cum in your sleep. Since you jsut came, there really isn't a way to follow up other than to clean up.

 

[human_male]

I wake up with a finger up my ass sometimes. I don't really know why.

 

[Username_In_Use]

Mostly you just dream, wake up and clean up. Or if you want you could jerk off again if you don't mind the sliminess(hell it might even get you off) but it's nothing special.

 

[dashd]

wet deam? never had one.

 

[just for fun]

I had one was I was probably about 20 I kind of remember it as a half awake type of dream. I just came and didn't use my hands

 

[youngleo]

My experience. Im usually dreaming about some lady. I get and erection. I wake up and finish beating it off or I have already cum, roll over, and fall back to sleep. AAAHHHHHH

 

[BenDover4]

I'm searching for info for a story, ok? When most guys have wet dreams, do you act on them, or just have the dream and wake up. I mean, do you go into jerking off or... well I'm finding it hard to ask but does anyone understand what I'm saying if you do, just explain it to me.

You think it is hard for you...

 

[fabricator]

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[curiousgeo62]

I have only had a couple wet dreams and did not remember what I was dreaming of, I just woke up to a mess. Once though, I did wake up at the point of cumming and I was on my stomach grinding my hard cock into the bed. As I woke up, I had an intense orgasm, but I have to say, I was dreaming that I was flying.....I was gliding over some trees and then started diving in the air at a river.........

 

[rydia57]

I wake up with a finger up my ass sometimes. I don't really know why.

Ohhh thanx guys, what Human Male said is what I mean! See, sometimes when I have fantasies I... finger or do myself during or after I have them, and in writing up one I had recently, I was wondering if guys do the same thing (depending on when and where they have the wet dreams). Every little bit helps, and yeah, I know some of you might be as shy as me, but it helps the fantasy alot! I've been writing on it like crazy since I've read these replies. Hope theres more!

 

[SassySheDevil]

ok so now I gotta ask. I hear guys talking about wet dreams and most talk of this cumming and not touching themselves. Do you sub conciously touch yourself? or do you honestly cum without touching yourself at all, And if you can cum from not touching in your sleep, can you do it while you are awake?

 

[A_Kefka]

as far as I know I can't cum when awake without some sort of stimulation. I've only ever had one wet dream that I know of. don't remember everything, but I'd fallen asleep after reading. I was laying on my back with my hands on my chest above the blanket. I remember waking up feeling like I was cumming, and when I reached down I definately had. Since my hands were folded on my chest when I woke up I dont' think I touched myself.

 

[MattWright]

ok so now I gotta ask. I hear guys talking about wet dreams and most talk of this cumming and not touching themselves. Do you sub conciously touch yourself? or do you honestly cum without touching yourself at all, And if you can cum from not touching in your sleep, can you do it while you are awake?

If the dream is really vivid you can cum without touching yourself. You totally believe you are getting fucked. Or blown or at least getting a hand job.

When awake, If I get an erection i can and usually do get a little pre cum or fluid that drips from my cock. But I cannot cum wihout physical contact when I am awake.

This is similar to you getting aroused and wetting your pants. You really do not need to touch yourself and neither do I.

Usually I masturbate or have sex so it's not often I get a wet dream to the point of ejaculation. When I was in my early teens and felt a lot of guilt about masturbation and did not do it often so i got them more often - raging hormones I suppose.

Most women I know can get wet during an erotic dream or just during the day for little or no reason.

I did know at least two girls that could have spectacular orgasms just from kissing. without being really touched or dry humping.

How does that compare to your experience as a woman?

 

[fabricator]

ok so now I gotta ask. I hear guys talking about wet dreams and most talk of this cumming and not touching themselves. Do you sub conciously touch yourself? or do you honestly cum without touching yourself at all, And if you can cum from not touching in your sleep, can you do it while you are awake?

Interesting question.....

I don't think I've ever touched myself during any of my wet dreams, and I've had plenty. Remember, a wet dream is the body's way of ridding itself of excess seminal fluid. Since it's an involuntary process, I have to assume manual stimulation isn't necessary, although the dream we're having may bring about some form of it. I guess the dream is the 'bonus' we get for putting up with the mess. If my wife and I have had sex frequently enough, I don't have 'wet' dreams, although I still have dreams involving sex.

Have I ever ejaculated without physically stimulating myself? Yes, but I've only been able to orgasm/ejaculate once that way, and that was after a long period without sex, plenty of visual stimulation, and lots of 'kegel' contractions. I HAVE had orgasms without ejaculating (there is a difference) by way of prostrate stimulation, just to clarify things, but that's a different subject. And yeah, like Matt, there was a lot of guilt associated with either having a wet dream or masturbating......

 

[ZoeBird]

You are asking if they masturbate in their sleep? Like sleep walk or sleep eat...sleep masturbate.

I am not a guy, but I have "wet dreams" sometimes. I wake up having an orgasm. Sometimes in these dreams I get into that weird 'in between' place where you are dreaming you are awake but you're not and I think I'm masturbating but I'm actually only dreaming I'm masturbating. Then I have an orgasm and the orgasm wakes me up.

 

[SassySheDevil]

ok so I guess the thought behind that question then becomes.. If you can do it in your sleep, how hard do you think it would be to do it while awake? I realize that while asleep you are in a different frame of mind.. Dreams are more "real" and don't involve thought. When you are awake, you are "thinking" of fantasies so they are not as real.

I myself cannot cum without touch. It actually takes effort on my part of even have sexual orgasms and I can count on one hand the ones I've had from oral and in those cases it was basically because I was held down and "forced" to enjoy it.. not squirm out of my position or enjoyment. I had to be helped passed the point of so much pleasure I didn't know what to do, in order to let go enough to orgasm. Plus I was forced to deal with the feelings of pleasure, rather then try and think of how I must look stupid, or how I appeared. I guess in real time, I worry too much about how I look rather then how good it feels.

So I guess I'm envious at the idea of orgasm without touch. It just makes you think about what state of mind you'd have to put yourself in to mimic a wet dream.

And yes as a woman, I can get wet at the drop of a hat without touch. That part I can do. Just not orgasm.
and yes, Zoe, that is exactly how i was thinking.. Sleep masturbating

 

[tkinsc]

I have had very few wet dreams in my life. The few I had I believe occured without any touching on my part.

If it has been a while since I have cum, and I am arroused/teased quite a bit, I can be brought very very close to orgasm without touching. It may be possible to even take me all the way there, but so far there has always been touching involved when awake to bring me to orgasm.

My wife has had a fw orgasms in her sleep due to dreams, and even a few awake when she was not touching herself.

Good luck on your story.

 

[jllucas45]

Stange but true the other morning i woke up and my tee shirt around my nipples were soaked I am well beyond the age of nursing I ask my cousin about it she said it was the equivilate to a wet dream.

 

[A_Kefka]

It may be possible to learn to cum without touching, but if you would need to be in a similar state to a wet dream it would be difficult. The only time I had one I'd gone about 2 weeks without getting off (I usually masturbate almost daily unless I'm having sex very often).

 

[magicmouth69]

In personal experience, a wet dream is basically a sex-dream accompanied by nocturnal emission (ejaculation while sleeping). the dreams that I wake from, while incredibly intense and often unreal, appear to produce an entirely different sensation than when I'm awake. even after nocturnal emission, I personally find, upon waking, that I need to resolve certain desires that went unexpressed before waking.

 

[thirty]

I'm not sure if you know this, but usually a wet dream means that you cum in your sleep. Since you jsut came, there really isn't a way to follow up other than to clean up.

I never sucessfully fucked anyone in my wet dreams, nothing more than flirting and something, I will wake up before I'm into her.

Not always cum in wet dreams either.

 

[iwatmi]

I just wish I could have one. Been close a couple of times but always wake up too soon.

 

[scarlet1979]

Hmmm...I can personally attest that men can cum in their sleep...hubby does it every blue moon. I think it's sexy.

Also, as a woman, I've had quite a few wet dreams. About 90 % of them were quite strong and fulfilling.

I came once without touching, but it took a while. It was pretty sweet, tho.