Guys posing as Girls

[usps69]

I don't care if they do it, but if they begin chatting with me under the assumption that they are a female, I don't want to find out they are a guy. It will totally ruin it for me, and we will be done chatting. I'm not mad, but it will turn me off. "It's just words on a comp screen at the end of the day, isn't it?" was the comment a guy said to me after we had chatted for a few hours. Maybe so, but it's just not for me.

Now I know 99 percent of the actual women on here that I will chat with from here on out, will strictly be cyber. But I am open to meeting a woman in person if we have some mutual interests, and attraction in common. So I don't want to get so hot and heavy cybering with someone, only to find out that the possibility of ever meeting them is now off the table, because they are infact a man.

That possibility does drive me, and I think a lot of other straight men on here, because we are lonely, and without a gf or wife right now. Problem is there are probably five men for every one woman on here, and at least a third of them, are in a relationship. So that cuts down the odds of most men on here.

Anyway, if you are a guy posing, and you pm me, or I you, and we chat, just don't tell me, lol. If I found out, I may say hi to you and what not, but we will be done with any fantasy roleplay. Sorry, just can't do it.

 

[chris_2010]

EDIT: I just found out you're a much older guy than. Sorry. I'm a dude too.

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

Anyway, if you are a guy posing, and you pm me, or I you, and we chat, just don't tell me, lol.

LOL I promise not to tell you baby...

 

[deathbypickle]

wait mine is better

talking to someone for months

being lied too about death and accidents
going from a 21 yo old kid to an 18 yr old girl
even a 13 yr old boy

lying through their teeth about where they are in the country

to only find out it is some 45 yr old man with a serious issue

and me being me, still let him fuck me

i am such a nice person

or really stupid...needless to say...i dont freely meet people or talk as i used too

good luck postalman

 

[jdc38]

Agree

I don't understand the lying either but hey it's the Internet where anyone can be anybody they want. But I can't figure out why a dude would pose as a girl.

I get the casual white lie - shave a few pounds off the old weight, trim a few years off the age. But posing as the other gender I don't get.

I also wonder how many posts of pics by ladies are really them or the b/f or husband doing the posts.

Oh well, in the larger scheme of things all this really doesn't matter.

 

[johnnyxxl]

I have had stuff like that check out this one.
Talked to girl for 3 or 4 months was lied to 3 or 4 times about death, accidents, children. Had been asked to give her money etc. I told her I needed to meet her before there was going to be any money given to anyone for anything needless to say I basically cut all contact with that girl.

 

[deathbypickle]

I have had stuff like that check out this one.
Talked to girl for 3 or 4 months was lied to 3 or 4 times about death, accidents, children. Had been asked to give her money etc. I told her I needed to meet her before there was going to be any money given to anyone for anything needless to say I basically cut all contact with that girl.

never would ever give money

it is the internet and you have to be careful to who you chat with

being naive is not an option in this world anymore

 

[JSensei]

Why would guys do it? A lot of the guys here will cyber with anything they think wears a skirt. If all the person pretending to be female wants is some cyber, they probably don't care. After all, it's just text.

 

[deathbypickle]

Why would guys do it? A lot of the guys here will cyber with anything they think wears a skirt. If all the person pretending to be female wants is some cyber, they probably don't care. After all, it's just text.

being lied too i think is more of the problem.....

 

[JSensei]

Yeah... I suppose you have a point. It's for that reason that I don't trust just any post from someone claiming to be female. You have to pick who you message. If you pick well, your odds of not being lied to are much better. Choose poorly, and well.... who knows who's on the other end.

 

[deathbypickle]

Yeah... I suppose you have a point. It's for that reason that I don't trust just any post from someone claiming to be female. You have to pick who you message. If you pick well, your odds of not being lied to are much better. Choose poorly, and well.... who knows who's on the other end.

very true
i have learned my lesson...i ended that farce about 15 months ago

it was a fun soap opera ride and i kept my friends and people i worked with entertained for months with the new lies and stories

it was always "oooo what did they say today" and which personality did you talk too


btw way...i am 100 percent girl....

 

[JSensei]

btw way...i am 100 percent girl....

I actually believe you, but you picked one helluva post to say that.

 

[JSensei]

Who knew that was a frog? I kind of figured it was a regular smily sticking out its tongue. Interesting.

 

[deathbypickle]

I actually believe you, but you picked one helluva post to say that.

been on this site for 5.5 yrs

i have always been me
nothing more, nothing less
and always the truth


lying gets you know where in life

 

[deathbypickle]

Who knew that was a frog? I kind of figured it was a regular smily sticking out its tongue. Interesting.

it is an erotic site

you better have a working tongue

 

[JSensei]

And last I checked, I was 100% male.

I agree about being honest. Lying gets you very little in life. I'd rather just be upfront all the time. That way I don't have to remember which story goes with which person. If I say it, you can take it to the bank. It's true.

 

[deathbypickle]

And last I checked, I was 100% male.

well that is good....

having the correct equipment is a plus to being a man

mine is in the drawer next to the bed....
i would rather have the real deal and have it be attached to the rest of the man

 

[deathbypickle]

And last I checked, I was 100% male.

I agree about being honest. Lying gets you very little in life. I'd rather just be upfront all the time. That way I don't have to remember which story goes with which person. If I say it, you can take it to the bank. It's true.

double posting is ok

 

[JSensei]

Yes... that usually helps. Not that most men use toys, but it's helpful when the girl has everything she needs as well. Things just work out better that way.

 

[deathbypickle]

Yes... that usually helps. Not that most men use toys, but it's helpful when the girl has everything she needs as well. Things just work out better that way.

they are just substitutes
real is so much better
the thrust behind it is better than what i can give myself

and on that loverly note
this pickle has to go to bed....400 is not that far away


nite all you real people

 

[JSensei]

Sorry for the doublepost... again.

But even the minor fibs can kind of get you into trouble. If I say I'm a different age or a different body type, when you ask me for my picture, I either have to politely decline or send a picture of someone else. What fun is that? I'm actually kind of proud of the fact that when someone requests a picture of me, I can actually send them a picture of me. And it will be exactly as I described it beforehand.

 

[girlfish]

I was once accused by a guy I was talking to in a chatroom of being male. All because I wouldn't let him phone me or give him a picture of my face.

When I told him about my paranoia about my online life getting out to those that know me in "real life" he said something like "Nice try, dude" and continued to call me a liar, etc. He wouldn't drop it.

I get that it happens, but it really pissed me off. I'm guessing if some man has the gual to pose as a woman, he probably has the gual to send fake pics of some random girl too.

No offense or anger intended to the OP at all- but it just brought up that memory. It kinda seems wrong when I (a girl) am willing to spend my time getting a stranger off by text, it's only good enough if I reveal my identify too.

 

[girlfish]

But I totally agree with you- if he's going to pose as a girl for the entirety of your conversation- why reveal it later. Have your cyber session and end it. Let's face it- most cybersex, at least in my experience, never becomes more than that.

 

[JSensei]

That is unfortunate. The consequences of online life getting out in real life are worse for women than men in general. Sorry to hear that happened.

 

[orgamimime]

I was once accused by a guy I was talking to in a chatroom of being male. All because I wouldn't let him phone me or give him a picture of my face.

When I told him about my paranoia about my online life getting out to those that know me in "real life" he said something like "Nice try, dude" and continued to call me a liar, etc. He wouldn't drop it.

I get that it happens, but it really pissed me off. I'm guessing if some man has the gual to pose as a woman, he probably has the gual to send fake pics of some random girl too.

No offense or anger intended to the OP at all- but it just brought up that memory. It kinda seems wrong when I (a girl) am willing to spend my time getting a stranger off by text, it's only good enough if I reveal my identify too.

I agree. It is wrong! And you are absolutely correct, it is just as easy to send fake pics if the texter is a poser. I say keep your anonymity and be thankful that guy is the minority!