Have we met yet?

[CrimsonK]

I've been around for a while, but kept to the shadows. A mid-40's woman looking for you if, and only if...

You believe in strong connections
You can keep up your half of the conversation
You have a good head on your shoulders, and a brain that won't quit
You believe respect is the cornerstone to any relationship, whether a friendship or something more substantial.

Have we met yet? I think we should.

 

[tryingtowinhearts]

Hi Crimson,

A good articulate post and i am sure you would be flooded with messages.

Hope you find what you are looking for.

Cheers

 

[CrimsonK]

Hi Crimson,

A good articulate post and i am sure you would be flooded with messages.

Hope you find what you are looking for.

Cheers

Thank you

There have been some lovely messages, but this flood you speak of? Not so much.

I know I'm setting the bar high. We both deserve it.

 

[dilipfrmindia]

I've been around for a while, but kept to the shadows. A mid-40's woman looking for you if, and only if...

You believe in strong connections
You can keep up your half of the conversation
You have a good head on your shoulders, and a brain that won't quit
You believe respect is the cornerstone to any relationship, whether a friendship or something more substantial.

Have we met yet? I think we should.

Sounds like me ...

 

[CrimsonK]

Quiet tonight. Is anyone around? Pm's welcome.

 

[jd_quiet_guy]

Quiet tonight. Is anyone around? Pm's welcome.

yes ma'am.

 

[beingtrue2me]

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[cliteatingman]

I've been around for a while, but kept to the shadows. A mid-40's woman looking for you if, and only if...

You believe in strong connections
You can keep up your half of the conversation
You have a good head on your shoulders, and a brain that won't quit
You believe respect is the cornerstone to any relationship, whether a friendship or something more substantial.

Have we met yet? I think we should.

So do I

 

[CrimsonK]

So do I

Do you now?

 

[Prince Albert]

Good afternoon Crimson. Would love to chat further.

 

[ArthurW]

Sounds interesting but I have only half of what you want so have a good one lady. 40 something hun very nice.

 

[GforGraham]

Sorry love, but long distance conversations are too hard to maintain. If only. Sigh.

 

[CrimsonK]

Public rejection..it's fantastic.

 

[virtualfun70]

Somehow I would not consider that public rejection ...
Hope you find what you are looking for C.

 

[CrimsonK]

Somehow I would not consider that public rejection ...
Hope you find what you are looking for C.

Thank you. Just feeling a little discouraged.

 

[Kinkenglish]

Thank you. Just feeling a little discouraged.

Don't let it bother you to much... I guess its quite 'public but at least it was honest (rather than you leading you on and then not responding!)

 

[CrimsonK]

Don't let it bother you to much... I guess its quite 'public but at least it was honest (rather than you leading you on and then not responding!)

But was it necessary? If I'm not right for you for whatever reason, why is it necessary to say it out loud and in public? Not everything out out there requires a response from every person. And if you've already decided, without speaking to me, that I am not your thing? Then move on and use your energy to communicate with someone who is. That is all I'm saying. The messages I'm talking about are not ones that had anything else to say to me except "I do not want you."

 

[Kinkenglish]

But was it necessary? If I'm not right for you for whatever reason, why is it necessary to say it out loud and in public? Not everything out out there requires a response from every person. And if you've already decided, without speaking to me, that I am not your thing? Then move on and use your energy to communicate with someone who is. That is all I'm saying. The messages I'm talking about are not ones that had anything else to say to me except "I do not want you."

I can but agree although, and I'm not defending it, is is fairly 'typical' (a bit of a broad brush there but I'm too lazy to be more specific at the moment) Lit behavior to express their insecurities by being nasty to someone in a thread or a PM
Just don't let the 'saddoes' get to you

 

[ArthurW]

Lady its not you but me so do not take it the wrong way. I bet the guys are lining up for you that's all the proof you need sweet lady.

 

[CrimsonK]

Lady its not you but me so do not take it the wrong way. I bet the guys are lining up for you that's all the proof you need sweet lady.

With all due respect, that's not actually a compliment but condescending. If you're not interested, don't say anything at all.

 

[ArthurW]

I did not say I was not interested but the i only meet half of each statement. Would you like to tell us what one man said to upset you? You sound a little tense because of what one of us said.

 

[CrimsonK]

So anyway, I hope those of you who celebrate are having the kind of thanksgiving you want and need. Enjoy your day.

 

[CrimsonK]

Good night sweet ones.

 

[Lookinguphill]

Good night sweet ones.

Good Evening to you as well!

 

[Bookishleigh]

With all due respect, that's not actually a compliment but condescending. If you're not interested, don't say anything at all.

ArthurW is basically a troll - his lack of interest in you is to your benefit. Some men just get their kicks out of belittling women.

Hope you find what you're looking for. I might suggest going out on the Playground threads though and interacting. There are good conversationalists there.