AmbrosiaCaress
Phoenix Rising!!!
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~ Please note this Post was written by both MoMadness and myself ~
Titus smiled and said, "That is a good point. You know how safe words work right? As someone working with another submissive, I would hope you do. I want your safe word. It can be anything but words like 'no', 'stop', 'quit'. Some people use Red for stop and Yellow for slow down, but the choice is yours. I want to know what they are though. For me, my safe words are Red and Yellow. There are just some things I will not do to anyone or have done to me by anyone. What are yours?"
She knew the concept of safe words very well actually and was mentally kicking herself for not just thinking of that. It was an understanding that to utter that word, all stops. And she already had acknowledged that she trusted him. For some reason, that point did not waver.
She was not about to use words as mundane as red or yellow or even a color. So instead, as she thought, the word, easily came to her.
"Snake"
She wondered if he would ask why that word. But he did not, at least not yet.
He watched her and nodded as she came up with her word.
"Snake it is." Titus said calmly, wondering if that word might be used accidentally for describing a certain piece of anatomy. It was a peculiar safe word though but it was hers and that was something he would need to accept. He then said, "Then you know that when I get into a scene, nothing stops me... except that word. You say that word, I stop immediately. We can talk about it, you can stop the scene at that point or just get a breather before we keep going. I will NOT stop for any other word. Do you understand?"
"Yes, I understand" she nodded.
"What ...about... limits?" She knew well enough that there had to be limits. She had actually learned that from pliant submissive Jerry. He did not have many limits, but there were a couple.
"no...." how did she put this .... "bathroom play" that should cover it. ... "and no... anal" she had never done that before and did not want to start now, that was for sure. Perhaps that "may" be open for discussion later she thought to herself...
He buried a chuckle. She was kind of putting the cart before the horse. But then again, they pretty much all did at first. One of the first things nearly every submissive and sub-wannabe thought... was they would be fucked during their session. And when the session was done and they found that their bodies were... un-fucked, it always astonished them. He had, over the course of time, learned that when submissives came off a post after being used by a dominate, fucked or not, there were often left very unsatisfied. Sure, they might have gotten off, but few ever really reached submissive nirvana known as subspace.
Based on the look her own submissive had given him, this was the case with him. He suspected that submissive had issues where he just wanted to be beaten and destroyed. He had no way to know for sure without talking with him further, so he let that line of thought drop.
He looked up at her and said, "No bathroom stuff... I am presuming you mean scat and pee, versus being dominated in a shower... right? We have to be pretty specific when defining limits."
He studied her as she nodded and then said, "Is there anything else?"
Sable was observant, or at least she tried to be. She could tell there were thoughts milling around in his head. Was it about limits? There were always limits right? There were thousands of thoughts milling around in her head, that was for sure. She did want him thinking he could... well... ahem... she had observed submissives that liked... well... she just knew what she did not want to happen to her. And that included any "fluids" on her other than, well, the obvious, his mouth or his... yeah, that. For a moment a funny, yes, a funny thought came into her head from that horrible moving Fifty Shades. The scene where they are "negotiating the contract" For some reason, it struck her funny, perhaps sitting at a nice dinner, negotiating this contract... out loud... "yes, please no pee, no scat, really don't want to feel that all over my body, oh sure, feel free to Dominate me in the shower, make sure the cuffs are waterproof"
Imagine the look on the faces of the people at the next table. Sable, in her younger days had LOVED messing with people sometimes. She missed that, and the thought now almost made her giggle.
But this was serious....so she stayed serious...
Titus watched her as she struggled to think of more and he said, "This list is an evolving list. We only set a couple items on it. You can add to it at any time, take things off, change them... its your list... your controls with the stage we are to play on."
"Stage we play on" she repeated the words back to him. She had NEVER thought of it that way.
He studied her for a moment and said, "Doesn't make sense does it? Stage we are to play on. This is your body. No one is entitled to touch it. No one is allowed to do anything with it without your permission. You call the shots. You... set the stage. My job is as your dominant is to perform within the boundaries you set for me. This is the little piece that escapes so many people. I can not use scat or pee with you under any circumstances. Now let me tell you a few of mine that I will never use or do with you. NO scat or pee, no kids or animals, no actual non-con... umm non consensual. I will dominate men, but not do men... I am straight that way. Does this make sense to you?"
It also surprised her that the Dominant would have limits, but it made sense. She had limits when she was "playing" with a submissive, but she always knew that she was different from the other dominants, at the women dominants at the Club. She realized that her need was very different, and her "acting" the dominant had never really fed it.
This... was feeding it....
"It does now" she said finally. "How long have you.... done this?" the question just... popped out... she wasn't even sure why....
"Me?" Titus said. Usually this was a question that would come up. Often led to the implication of him having some kind of harem somewhere filled with slaves he would regularly beat. He said, "Truth is, being a SEAL didn't really afford me much time to do this very much. That being said, "I have always known I have been a dominant. I have never doubted that inside me. But I have only been active in this life for about 3 years since I got out. I am VERY selective with who I allow to use me though."
He let his eyes shift to her as she might have caught his curious phrase, 'I allow to use me though.' It didn't seem to be lost on her though the look was curious. He said, "A director... " Pointing to her, "Sets the stage, while an actor" pointing back to him, "Works on the stage. You set the limitations and rules..." Pointing to her, "I do what I will within the limitations and rules" Pointing back to him.
It was as if a light bulb went off in her mind. THAT made so much sense to her, an actress. She had never thought of it that way... Now she wanted to pepper him with questions, she was genuinely interested...
She knew he had been a Navy Seal, now she wanted to even ask about that. Her level of comfort with him just increased, at least for the moment. Would she feel the same after .... this?
"Have you ever set the stage? and allowed another "Actor" to work the stage?" Sable actually leaned in closer to him. She was genuinely interested...
Titus's smile wavered just a bit but then snapped it back in place. He never wavered his gaze down at her. He said, "Do you remember what I said about trusting someone completely with your body, having faith that someone is going to help you when you are the most vulnerable? You remember me telling you that is one of the bravest things a person can do?"
He watched her nod and said, "I am not as brave as you in that regard." He had his own story he could tell about what led him to mistrust in ways but now was definitely NOT the time. He then said, "It is not because I fear what that person would do, but I have no desire to set a stage at all for anyone. When it comes to this, there is very little submissive in me."
Titus watched as she processed this. He was willing to sit and talk about this all night if she wanted. The longer he sat and talked with her, the more engaged she seemed to be and thus presumed this was the NEED she really needed at the moment.
This.... this was one thing Sable DID miss... just talking to someone... for a few minutes, as she listened, she forgot she was even on her knees...
Brave. She had never thought of this as brave...
She actually leaned up, without thinking and kissed him.. her lips soft, moist, warm... but the action taking him completely off guard, let alone taking HER off guard. It happened so fast, and without thought. She pulled back with wide eyes... her cheeks flushed crimson red....
"Titus... I...."
Titus smiled and said, "That is a good point. You know how safe words work right? As someone working with another submissive, I would hope you do. I want your safe word. It can be anything but words like 'no', 'stop', 'quit'. Some people use Red for stop and Yellow for slow down, but the choice is yours. I want to know what they are though. For me, my safe words are Red and Yellow. There are just some things I will not do to anyone or have done to me by anyone. What are yours?"
She knew the concept of safe words very well actually and was mentally kicking herself for not just thinking of that. It was an understanding that to utter that word, all stops. And she already had acknowledged that she trusted him. For some reason, that point did not waver.
She was not about to use words as mundane as red or yellow or even a color. So instead, as she thought, the word, easily came to her.
"Snake"
She wondered if he would ask why that word. But he did not, at least not yet.
He watched her and nodded as she came up with her word.
"Snake it is." Titus said calmly, wondering if that word might be used accidentally for describing a certain piece of anatomy. It was a peculiar safe word though but it was hers and that was something he would need to accept. He then said, "Then you know that when I get into a scene, nothing stops me... except that word. You say that word, I stop immediately. We can talk about it, you can stop the scene at that point or just get a breather before we keep going. I will NOT stop for any other word. Do you understand?"
"Yes, I understand" she nodded.
"What ...about... limits?" She knew well enough that there had to be limits. She had actually learned that from pliant submissive Jerry. He did not have many limits, but there were a couple.
"no...." how did she put this .... "bathroom play" that should cover it. ... "and no... anal" she had never done that before and did not want to start now, that was for sure. Perhaps that "may" be open for discussion later she thought to herself...
He buried a chuckle. She was kind of putting the cart before the horse. But then again, they pretty much all did at first. One of the first things nearly every submissive and sub-wannabe thought... was they would be fucked during their session. And when the session was done and they found that their bodies were... un-fucked, it always astonished them. He had, over the course of time, learned that when submissives came off a post after being used by a dominate, fucked or not, there were often left very unsatisfied. Sure, they might have gotten off, but few ever really reached submissive nirvana known as subspace.
Based on the look her own submissive had given him, this was the case with him. He suspected that submissive had issues where he just wanted to be beaten and destroyed. He had no way to know for sure without talking with him further, so he let that line of thought drop.
He looked up at her and said, "No bathroom stuff... I am presuming you mean scat and pee, versus being dominated in a shower... right? We have to be pretty specific when defining limits."
He studied her as she nodded and then said, "Is there anything else?"
Sable was observant, or at least she tried to be. She could tell there were thoughts milling around in his head. Was it about limits? There were always limits right? There were thousands of thoughts milling around in her head, that was for sure. She did want him thinking he could... well... ahem... she had observed submissives that liked... well... she just knew what she did not want to happen to her. And that included any "fluids" on her other than, well, the obvious, his mouth or his... yeah, that. For a moment a funny, yes, a funny thought came into her head from that horrible moving Fifty Shades. The scene where they are "negotiating the contract" For some reason, it struck her funny, perhaps sitting at a nice dinner, negotiating this contract... out loud... "yes, please no pee, no scat, really don't want to feel that all over my body, oh sure, feel free to Dominate me in the shower, make sure the cuffs are waterproof"
Imagine the look on the faces of the people at the next table. Sable, in her younger days had LOVED messing with people sometimes. She missed that, and the thought now almost made her giggle.
But this was serious....so she stayed serious...
Titus watched her as she struggled to think of more and he said, "This list is an evolving list. We only set a couple items on it. You can add to it at any time, take things off, change them... its your list... your controls with the stage we are to play on."
"Stage we play on" she repeated the words back to him. She had NEVER thought of it that way.
He studied her for a moment and said, "Doesn't make sense does it? Stage we are to play on. This is your body. No one is entitled to touch it. No one is allowed to do anything with it without your permission. You call the shots. You... set the stage. My job is as your dominant is to perform within the boundaries you set for me. This is the little piece that escapes so many people. I can not use scat or pee with you under any circumstances. Now let me tell you a few of mine that I will never use or do with you. NO scat or pee, no kids or animals, no actual non-con... umm non consensual. I will dominate men, but not do men... I am straight that way. Does this make sense to you?"
It also surprised her that the Dominant would have limits, but it made sense. She had limits when she was "playing" with a submissive, but she always knew that she was different from the other dominants, at the women dominants at the Club. She realized that her need was very different, and her "acting" the dominant had never really fed it.
This... was feeding it....
"It does now" she said finally. "How long have you.... done this?" the question just... popped out... she wasn't even sure why....
"Me?" Titus said. Usually this was a question that would come up. Often led to the implication of him having some kind of harem somewhere filled with slaves he would regularly beat. He said, "Truth is, being a SEAL didn't really afford me much time to do this very much. That being said, "I have always known I have been a dominant. I have never doubted that inside me. But I have only been active in this life for about 3 years since I got out. I am VERY selective with who I allow to use me though."
He let his eyes shift to her as she might have caught his curious phrase, 'I allow to use me though.' It didn't seem to be lost on her though the look was curious. He said, "A director... " Pointing to her, "Sets the stage, while an actor" pointing back to him, "Works on the stage. You set the limitations and rules..." Pointing to her, "I do what I will within the limitations and rules" Pointing back to him.
It was as if a light bulb went off in her mind. THAT made so much sense to her, an actress. She had never thought of it that way... Now she wanted to pepper him with questions, she was genuinely interested...
She knew he had been a Navy Seal, now she wanted to even ask about that. Her level of comfort with him just increased, at least for the moment. Would she feel the same after .... this?
"Have you ever set the stage? and allowed another "Actor" to work the stage?" Sable actually leaned in closer to him. She was genuinely interested...
Titus's smile wavered just a bit but then snapped it back in place. He never wavered his gaze down at her. He said, "Do you remember what I said about trusting someone completely with your body, having faith that someone is going to help you when you are the most vulnerable? You remember me telling you that is one of the bravest things a person can do?"
He watched her nod and said, "I am not as brave as you in that regard." He had his own story he could tell about what led him to mistrust in ways but now was definitely NOT the time. He then said, "It is not because I fear what that person would do, but I have no desire to set a stage at all for anyone. When it comes to this, there is very little submissive in me."
Titus watched as she processed this. He was willing to sit and talk about this all night if she wanted. The longer he sat and talked with her, the more engaged she seemed to be and thus presumed this was the NEED she really needed at the moment.
This.... this was one thing Sable DID miss... just talking to someone... for a few minutes, as she listened, she forgot she was even on her knees...
Brave. She had never thought of this as brave...
She actually leaned up, without thinking and kissed him.. her lips soft, moist, warm... but the action taking him completely off guard, let alone taking HER off guard. It happened so fast, and without thought. She pulled back with wide eyes... her cheeks flushed crimson red....
"Titus... I...."